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He looks at local woman on match.com, can I trust him?

Q.   I need advice. My boyfriend of 2 years has recently been caught checking out match.com. When I found out I asked him about it and told him how it made me feel. His response at first was to deny it and then admited that he did but only to see if he ...

A.   6 December 2007: Sounds like he's being unfaithful.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture, how can I make my boyfriend understand how this is hurting me?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I love him very much and Iknow he loves me, but everytime his ex girlfriend calls I get really upset and annoyed. He doesn't understand howmuch it hurts me and says they are just friends. But I ...

A.   5 December 2007: I'm in frequent contact with almost all of my ex's and ex-sexual partners. From time to time a boyfriend has been made to feel uncomfortable, and I can relate: its natural and I've had the same feelings. I've talked with them about it but I haven't ... (read in full...)

Different libidos, normal?

Q.   I'm a 20-year-old female with a 29-year-old male. I've always been in long term relationships with very frequent sex that I was normally initiating so i suppose I'm not even sure if this is abnormal. As a little background, we work about 35 a ...

A.   5 December 2007: We've been together for about two years. I do think that there is an element of his wanting to "be the aggressor;" i've noticed that when i'm more distant and distracted he becomes a bit more affectionate but the sex still isn't there. thank... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity , it was horrible he treated me bad, now I want to wait till I get married, but the guy will probably be a virgin too, will this be a problem?

Q.   I'm 18 years old and I've had sex with one person before, this was my ex bf of 7 months. I felt I was in love with him, yet it turns out the guy who I was 'in love with' didnt exist- it was all an act he put on. Less then a week after we had sex, ...

A.   4 December 2007: I agree with missme, anyone who loves you can wait for you. I lost my virginity very young with no regrets, but I've had all great, loving sexual partners, and it makes all the difference. It may not apply to you, but being that you're just ... (read in full...)

Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?

Q.   I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to ...

A.   4 December 2007: Lying is always a bad sign, triviality aside. Though, when you mentioned "something you'd supposedly done last year," I did wonder about the nature of said event. Sometimes lying/cheating from a partner can evoke dishonest behavior from an... (read in full...)

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