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My dad's new wife don't like his kids!

Q.   my dad he just married this women (names are changed) dian she i asian(not that it matters)she has three kids 2 boys 1 girl they are all above 14. and my dad has 4 kids with my mom. me and my 3 other brothers and sister. Well dian she does not wan...

A.   9 June 2010: The only thing I can say it timing and opportunity is everything. Approach him when he is in a good mood and tell him that you are unhappy. Most people in that mood will want to alleviate your unhappiness, which may present an opportunity for you ... (read in full...)

My dad's new wife don't like his kids!

Q.   my dad he just married this women (names are changed) dian she i asian(not that it matters)she has three kids 2 boys 1 girl they are all above 14. and my dad has 4 kids with my mom. me and my 3 other brothers and sister. Well dian she does not wan...

A.   7 June 2010: This sounds so terrible that I honestly don't know what to say. Your dad is a moron. End of story. Unfortunately part of growing up is learning that your parents are imperfect and can make stupid decisions just like you can. Any counselor would ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant after 14 days of my period?

Q.   it's possible for me to get pregnant after 14 days of my period?...

A.   7 June 2010: The only way to not get pregnant is to use birth control and have him use a condom every time. Getting pregnant is substantially harder to accomplish than getting an std. When I was 17 and naive a girl I was with told me about the cycle method and ... (read in full...)

Help! How do you let go of someone you love?

Q.   I can't let go of her. For some reason, against all logic and against everything I've tried to do for myself, to get my life in order, I can't let go of her. We were together for eight and half years and in the course of 24 hours everything in my...

A.   7 June 2010: So I have started to remember the dark, not so pretty, edges of my old relationship when I start to miss her and want her. It unfortunately is making me quite angry most of the time now, even in my dreams. I woke up the other morning with all my ... (read in full...)

My heart is bleeding... he wants to be with someone else...

Q.   my heart is broken . i love this man. we have a son . he has two girls with this trampy slutty drug usin woman and i dont know why he chooses her over someone like me, im totaley the oppisit of her but she may be dieing from a tumor we found out ...

A.   7 June 2010: I have had quite a few life experiences. When I lost my girlfriend last year I started getting reminded of my earlier days when I did a lot of drugs (9 years sober now though). My demand, my wanting, my NEED for her very much reminded me of when I ... (read in full...)

My heart is bleeding... he wants to be with someone else...

Q.   my heart is broken . i love this man. we have a son . he has two girls with this trampy slutty drug usin woman and i dont know why he chooses her over someone like me, im totaley the oppisit of her but she may be dieing from a tumor we found out ...

A.   5 June 2010: The nice thing about being online and talking to people is that you can do so anonymously. Now there is a 5 year gap in your ages, not too bad, but did you say that you are cousins? Are you first cousins? And that is why your family is angry with ... (read in full...)

Should some part of me actually believe my ex???

Q.   My ex and i were together for a almost 4 years. We had a year of no contact after the break up. We have been talking for almost a year. He isn't the type to just jump back into a relationship. To him, I don't think its a switch you turn on and ...

A.   5 June 2010: My two cents is that you need to question why you want to get back together with him. In my personal experience a reunion after a breakup is something WORSE than the initial death of the relationship. If he isn't pursuing you, why would you want to ... (read in full...)

My heart is bleeding... he wants to be with someone else...

Q.   my heart is broken . i love this man. we have a son . he has two girls with this trampy slutty drug usin woman and i dont know why he chooses her over someone like me, im totaley the oppisit of her but she may be dieing from a tumor we found out ...

A.   5 June 2010: In my experience it's hard to let go. My last girlfriend left me feeling the same way (although our pain is obviously unique to each of us). He has taken all the power away from you by deciding he is leaving you and what I had to do was learn how ... (read in full...)

Help! How do you let go of someone you love?

Q.   I can't let go of her. For some reason, against all logic and against everything I've tried to do for myself, to get my life in order, I can't let go of her. We were together for eight and half years and in the course of 24 hours everything in my...

A.   5 June 2010: I truly appreciate everyone who has replied. I have told myself similar things, but it helps to honestly hear other people, those that don't even know me, tell me it. Which is why I found this site I suppose =) I should also state that she was ... (read in full...)

Hurt, confused and drained... what should I do?

Q.   I have been in a 14 yr relationship. This has my first in every aspect. I was 18 and he was 19. During the 14 yr relationship he has lied and cheated several times. Each woman that he has been with has known about our relationship and still decided ...

A.   5 June 2010: I would give you an answer if I knew myself. I think we are in the same boat emotionally, although I have the luxury of not having children with the person I miss. In my experience though, with people I've met that have had really horrible ... (read in full...)

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