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My girlfriend told me that I have 'dry 10 second sex'!

Q.   My girlfriend told me that I have "Dry 10 second sex" and I took it as a insult because to me it felt like she was saying that she doesn't enjoy my sex anymore. I told her how I felt and tried to move past it but I just couldn't it makes me feel ...

A.   19 January 2017: Sounds to me like she does fancy you & perhaps she feels hurt/rejected because you don't want sex as much as her, so she's punishing you for it rather than being honest about how she feels. The fact that she doesn't want kinky stuff might be... (read in full...)

She has no problems trying to crush my ego. NOW she says I'm bad in bed. How should I respond to her insults about lovemaking?

Q.   My girlfriend completely criticized my sex. Said I suck in bed when she's been wanting me for 3 years saying that no one knows her body like me and she never felt this good before and blah blah blah. But as soon as she gets mad at me that complet...

A.   19 January 2017: Maybe we need her version of things? Perhaps you could asked her for an honest explanation & post her response here.... (read in full...)

He lacks a stable job and a career so I'm breaking up with him. Am I not openminded?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've put a lot of consideration into this and I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's not that we don't get along - we get along rather well and have a great time together. He is positive I will be his future wife and has info...

A.   19 January 2017: Maybe you should tell him what you need & give him the opportunity to change & become more responsible. If he isn't interested then you're obviously not compatible & you should walk. You never know, he might phone you a few weeks down the line tel... (read in full...)

More submissive then he is Dominant?

Q.   Im a submissive into the BDSM lifestyle and ive been with my Dominant/boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is, he's not Dominant enough for me. i know hes young, (25) but i just never see/feel him trying to become a better Dominant. Ive re...

A.   19 January 2017: Having been in his shoes, I understand his fear, perhaps of pushing you too hard? Do you tell him about your desires? Have you told him what you want in a scene? Safeword etc? I was very cagy about going too for for fear of scaring my partn... (read in full...)

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