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How do I ask my guy for oral sex?

Q.   Hi. So my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 22. Been with my boyfriend for a year now, but I'm starting to have mixed emotions all because....my boyfriend hasnt gone "down" on me for the year we have been together, and I don't know how to ask him, how to ...

A.   14 September 2015: Im not one for really opening up....i get that from past relationships. :/... (read in full...)

What kind of game is my ex playing? DId our kiss mean anything to hiim?

Q.   So here's the story... meet my ex 4 years ago (2010), he broke up with me after 5 months (april to september) for his ex (who cheated on him before he met me) (Our relationship had everything one should have, trust, love, freedom etc) he then get...

A.   13 September 2015: So guys, you were right! met up with my ex again for the first time yesterday since these last chats and he's yep....left me hanging yet again. Definetely over it for good now! ... (read in full...)

What kind of game is my ex playing? DId our kiss mean anything to hiim?

Q.   So here's the story... meet my ex 4 years ago (2010), he broke up with me after 5 months (april to september) for his ex (who cheated on him before he met me) (Our relationship had everything one should have, trust, love, freedom etc) he then get...

A.   19 March 2014: thank you for all your help. well...she kind of did steal him back away from me,a few weeks into our relationship she messaged me on facebook saying "He's just going to say the exact words he said to me" , I told her to stop messaging me and... (read in full...)

What can I do? Things seem troubled and I am not sure I want to be his partner any more

Q.   Hello and thank you for reading this. I'm not sure if I want to be with my partner anymore. My fiance and I have been together for 13 months, and are renting a room together this friday (moving in together) My fiance is kind to my family and ...

A.   15 August 2012: Yeah starting to think that. When we are together I haven't got a problem but eh, I dunno :/ ... (read in full...)

How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend in the average week?

Q.   Hi Dearcupid, I was wondering how often you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on average? My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost four months and we only see each other once a week, usually on Saturdays. Sometimes he will text me ...

A.   15 March 2012: My boyfriend/partner don't live together but I see him almost every day duing the week (even if its for an hour) and i spend friday - sunday with him at his. My partener has his license though.... (read in full...)

Afraid of my strict parents!

Q.   I'm so afraid of my parents! They've always been strict with me and they always feel like I'm being rebellious. But I don't feel the case. Whenever I'm hanging out with friends I tell them who I'm out with and where I am and what time I would be ...

A.   28 February 2012: Hi. You are 18+? Are you an only child? Well I'm 18 and an only child, trust me living with parents like this is hard. I too still have a curfew of 9-9:30pm. But in my case it's my dad that scares me. So i tell my mum what im doing and what ti... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook

Q.   My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...

A.   28 February 2012: I have to agree with these people about facebook. I too have had problems with my boyfriend cause of facebook, my facebook statuses, peoples comments. Its been about a month now, and honestly i dont feel like im missing much. Plus, faceboo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook

Q.   My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...

A.   23 February 2012: Hi. I would just delete facebook all together. Facebook is the cause of most relationship break downs.... (read in full...)

How can I stop my father controlling me when I'm 18 and an only child?

Q.   Hi. So simply as im going to put it... I'm 18. An only child still live at home Have a controlling father who yeah, you could say...im scared of... So, my father thinks he has the right to control me, given I still live at home... He...

A.   15 February 2012: Well when i have money i buy my own pre paid credit, boyfriends been buying it, i dont ask, he willingly does it. When i have money i buy for myself, buy lunch for my boyfriend and i, i do pay for my own transportstion, pretty much my materials for ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my father controlling me when I'm 18 and an only child?

Q.   Hi. So simply as im going to put it... I'm 18. An only child still live at home Have a controlling father who yeah, you could say...im scared of... So, my father thinks he has the right to control me, given I still live at home... He...

A.   14 February 2012: Well, my dad only pays for the internet. My boyfriend bought my phone and i brought my laptop with my own money i earnt from working! He cant take something off me that he sidnt buy but thinks he has the right to........ (read in full...)

Why does she involve her friends in making decisions for her?

Q.   Ok i have loved this girl for over a year or so she goes to my college and everything but i have lost trust in her over these months. We share fb passwords and i realised that she has often told her friends somethings i would of liked to be betw...

A.   11 February 2012: Hi. I would just like to say to both of you DELETE FACEBOOK! Facebook ruins so many relationships, causes too much problems. I know this from recent experiences through people i know interferring with my relationship. ... (read in full...)

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