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Did I miss my boat - why can't I forget him?

Q.   I need to put this all together so that you will be able to understand. I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out. I happened to know that ...

A.   24 May 2009: The first answer was exacatly how I felt at the time. I think that when you love two people at the same time you must choose. What I didn't realize was that I still had another option and that was that maybe I didn't want to get married period. ... (read in full...)

Did I miss my boat - why can't I forget him?

Q.   I need to put this all together so that you will be able to understand. I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out. I happened to know that ...

A.   16 March 2009: I think both answers hit the head on the nail. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted me to break up with my finance and he would break up with his girlfriend. But he never spoke with me about it. If I knew for sure he cared about me I would... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling for her...help!

Q.   Ok So heres the thing i need some help and advice. Theres this girl shes been with her boyfriend for 4 years there engaged, shes been texting me bad stuff and says she wants me and i really turn her on. her and her boyfriend are on a break at th...

A.   15 March 2009: I can answer this the only way i know how. Tell her how you feel about her honestly and ask her how she feels about you. That is the begining of a relationship. After that you need mutal respect and trust in each other. Ask her to be honest a... (read in full...)

Nothing ever seems to go right for me. Help!

Q.   im 23, female and depressed. i've been throgh alot of stuff in my 23 years and it just seems nothing ever goes right for me. I can never seem to hold a relationship down with guys im really into, i either get bored real quickly or if my expections...

A.   15 March 2009: Because of my past i can relate to your problem. Just how depressed are you. Have you lost interest in the things you used enjoy. Do want to pull the covers over your head and not get up. There are many ways I can help you if this is the case... (read in full...)

My fiance and I are fighting a lot. He thinks I'm the "psycho girlfriend", but I think I'm justified in my reactions. Help!

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 3 and a half years. We have had many ups and downs. He has severe anxiety and depression. I always seem to be insecure and sometimes fit the stereotype of the "psycho girlfriend" I guess you could say. He has ...

A.   15 March 2009: You say that he hollers at you if you bring up his past flitations, yet he is the one who broke the trust. I really believe l learned from years of experience that you cannot have a relationship or good relationship without that trust. I would... (read in full...)

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