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reader, Jays  +, writes (17 January 2010):
i know that you many think that your too young to be gay but i have an older brother who is gay who new since he was like 8
and there arent specific places you can find a girl friend soo you just have too hope that it finds you :)
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reader, Twinkey  +, writes (17 January 2010):
Twinkey is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the help but do you know how I can find a girlfriend
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reader, Twinkey +, writes (17 January 2010):
Twinkey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSince then I have been talking to her and we talked about it but after I talked to her I went to a party as I was dancing this girl was dancing with this boy and I really started looking at her so now I want a girlfriend but how can I find one its hard some one help
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Nope. It probably means you are bi-curious but as a teenager your emotions are all over the place. There could be any number of reasons for the desire.
My general advice for teens regarding anything is: don't panic. Wait a bit with your lives choices until your hormones have settled down.
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reader, Jays +, writes (17 January 2010):
i dont think this means that you are a lesbien loads of girls have shared a kiss with another girl friend at some point, even me :L
maybe you should try and imagine yourself as having a gf and being with her and kissing her
if you enjoy this thought, then you could possibly be gay and if you dont then maybe you just enjoyed the closeness of you and your friend :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): No, you are just excited by the new experience, but you are still perfectly normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): No definately not!! You are so young and have not experienced enough to know what you are really into. You may like kissing a girl right now but until you've experienced other things, you cannot say that you are lesbian. Alot of girls are curious and experiment but that doesn't make them lesbian or bisexual. You are just going through something most girls your age do.
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