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Should I be worried about where this thing is headed?

Q.   I just recently started talking to a ex girlfriend of 6 years and everything was going fine for the first weeks, now we go days without talking. We decided when we first started talking again to take things slow, and i have asked her if anything is ...

A.   14 July 2012: No when i text her she responds its the fact that she does not initiate contact for days on end.. If i were to text her she would text me right back so that's not the problem. I just feel like she is being distant but maybe it is possible she does ... (read in full...)

Is it too late or can I salvage our relationship?

Q.   My bf and i have had alot of problems over the years due to him making profiles on sex/dating sites as well as social networking sites and craigslist. He also has spoken sexually with women on the net. He is finally shaping up, but im starting to ...

A.   6 July 2012: Its not too late but i can tell you from experience that you might have to give yourself some space from him. Whatever that means its what it means lol.. you might have to just give yourself some time to think things through and make sure you want ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my lecturer, but I'm in a relationship. Help!

Q.   Hi, I have a terrible problem. I am a 28 year old in a relationship we are planning to get married. I was very happy with my life until I went back to college as a mature student..now BOOM! I think I have fallen for my lecturer..or at least I am ...

A.   6 July 2012: well in all honesty and i mean this in no disrespect you have to get your STUFF together how are you going to throw it all away on a man you just barely met, sure we are all human and have crushes but if you would have told me i have known my ... (read in full...)

I need help with my marriage, I can't stand the fact she was talking with someone else!

Q.   Ok I need help on what to do with my wife. I just recently found out my wife was talking to an old friend for 2months (I checked the phone records) it started off as text messages such as questions like how you doing or how was your day etc.... ...

A.   4 July 2012: You are in a very difficult situation, but the question i have to ask you is do you still love your wife that much that you want to make the relationship work and do you love her that much that you are willing to forgive her for this? That is the ... (read in full...)

7 year relationship finished and trust issues?!

Q.   Well I have a crush on a friend with whom I have been in constant contact through mail and chat for the last year and a half. (We knew each other 5 years ago through high school.) We know each other real well and I know that there is chemistry ...

A.   1 July 2012: I agree with aunt_honesty i also think you should give her sometime to get over the break up.. Break ups are never easy and especially if you were together with that person for such a long time, so take it easy and be there for her as a friend that ... (read in full...)

Falling for her again.

Q.   I asked a friend for a relationship last year (about 6 months ago) and she said no. I respected her answer and kept distance for several months as I tried to heal and move on. We are still friends and I enjoy that. Now, I am falling for her...

A.   31 January 2012: i have a friend that is going through the exact same thing but this kid has been going through the same situation for 3 years and this girl clearly only wants to be friends but he is very vague in telling her he likes her.. all i am going to say is ... (read in full...)

Is phone sex cheating?

Q.   I cant stop thinking of cheating on my boyfriend .I had phone sex with another man and it turned me on ,totally!! . Is something wrong with me ? Is phone sex cheating ?I wanted to be in a open relationship and he said he will think about it ....Am I...

A.   31 January 2012: i think you are really going down the wrong path and 2 wrongs to not make a right... your relationship needs work and not more cheating if you cannot take the fact he cheated then u should move on and keep your freakishness going on single and ready ... (read in full...)

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