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My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

A.   22 December 2012: I believe that lack of sexual bond, but still having an emotional connection hints that you may not be ready for a relationship with him. perhaps you two are meant to be just friends!... (read in full...)

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

A.   22 December 2012: I believe that lack of sexual bond, but still having an emotional connection hints that you may not be ready for a relationship with him. perhaps you two are meant to be just friends!... (read in full...)

I don't want to seem over-eager and put him off. But is our friendship moving towards something more?

Q.   I started my new college four months ago and in my class there was this guy who has caught my eye. So, after a few lessons; acknowledging that we were both in one class, I added him on facebook and asked him a question about an assignment for our ...

A.   22 December 2012: You two sound like you'd make a beautiful couple! I believe he likes you, you should invite him over for a movie or something to do just for the two of you to get friendly and have some intimate time together. If that goes over smoothly, make plans ... (read in full...)

Have I missed out? Is it normal to be 16 to still be a virgin in 2012? And not be interested in illicit drugs? Aand to not have dated yet?

Q.   Hello everyone. I am a 16 year old guy and im in 6th form and i live in the UK. Ok so i am here because i always see people on here who are around 13 - 17 talking about sex and relationships and even at school or in the outside world and i have ...

A.   22 December 2012: You certainly aren't alone! I'm a virgin and 16. I've tried marijuana once but it was nothing special! I also do not drink. I do date, but you certainly aren't missing anything! Congratulations on staying sober and pure :)... (read in full...)

Upsetting breakup. then the silent treatment. Is she putting up emotional barriers just to push me away?

Q.   So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after I broke her heart by writing a goodbye message to her and ignoring her for two weeks, then showing up like nothing happened. (I was angry at her for a number of reasons, which I should have talked to her ...

A.   22 December 2012: I would give her a bit of space, but then gift her her favorite flowers or something. Do something nice out of the blue to show her how sorry you are and that you're still thinking of her. Let her know that you want to work things out and everything ... (read in full...)

Facebook first? Or should I wait until we meet at this meal with our mutual friends? What do you think?

Q.   i liked this girl and we became friends, and i got to know a few of her friends. I told her i liked her and she said she didn't want a boyfriend at the time. She said that i should meet her friend as i remind her of her friend. This was before i to...

A.   22 December 2012: I think the other girl was letting you down easy, but this other girl sounds great! I would definitely wait to meet her and then add her afterwards. Good luck with this new girl!... (read in full...)

I broke up with her but now I don't feel right without her. I'm confused about my feelings. What should I do?

Q.   i am sooo confused My gf and I went out for about 1 month and i broke up with her, as i didnt feel it was the right time. When I was with her i wasn't that bothered but when i'm not with her i really want her. I really have no idea what to do, ple...

A.   22 December 2012: I have the same problem right after break ups. Resist the urge to get back together if you truly feel like the time isn't right. Distract yourself with some friends or your family for a while so you can get your mind off of her. Best of luck!!... (read in full...)

I've had an epiphany regarding my past and present relationships and am wondering if anyone else has ever experienced this.

Q.   I have been thinking a lot about my past and present relationships recently because I've noticed that I tend to stay with people for far longer than I sometimes should. I know it's not that I'm afraid to be alone, because I have been happily single ...

A.   22 December 2012: I've definitely had relationship epiphanies before! Like the fact that I have a thing for Asians after dating my 5th one, but more seriously I did realize that I tended to stay in abusive relationships. I, too, have the problem of holding on too ... (read in full...)

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