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Well I have always been a rock to my friends, if they need someone to turn to, I have always been there. I have some good life experience for my age.

I live in Birmingham in the west midlands of England.

I am currently single having come out a 3yr long distnace relationship.

I really love my girlfriend, but ended up kissing another girl!!

Q.   I am 20 and have been in a long-distance relationship with a girl for 6 months. She is moving back to live with me next year. Lately she has been very busy and doesnt speak with me all too much because of time differences and work, and I haven't ...

A.   15 September 2006: Keep it quiet and learn from your mistake. Sometimes its best to keep things under yout hat, as long as your sure you will never do it again, why spoil something good with your gf? Good luck...... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of a Brazilian wax will my boyfriend like this???

Q.   I am considering getting a brazilian wax. Is this a good idea? Will my bf like this? I would like to get some guy opinions on the subject please?...

A.   15 September 2006: I would have thought so,try having a good trim first and see what he says, if hes put off you will know its a bad idea. No bloke likes it to be like the forest of Dean down there thow...... (read in full...)

Im 27, shes 19, would it be inappropriate to date her ?

Q.   Hi, um, first time here. I'm 27 and I've fallen for my 19 year old friend. She's wonderful and I think the feelings are reciprocated. But I've not made a move because I'm worried she'll think I'm too old. I've known her since she was 16 and I...

A.   14 September 2006: Get in there son, no worries, you obviously care about her loads so I'm sure you will make it work!!... (read in full...)

Things were going great, he then said he had started to fall and has since been distant!!

Q.   Hi, I really hope some of you guys can give me pointers on this. I met a great guy a couple of months ago, we spent loads of time together and became very close very quickly. We still kept our independence, however, but really enjoyed the time we ...

A.   14 September 2006: Well firstly forget feeling guilty about revealing your feelings, - that's called honesty!!! I know there is sertain games that people need/have to play whilst "dating" but honesty is such a better option. He is just scared of getting hurt by the ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to help get my girlfriends sex drive back ?

Q.   dear cupid , wondering if you could help me , me and my girlfriend have been together about a year and a half now she is 18 and i am 22, lately well for a fair while we ahve not had sex as much as both wanted too mainly to her not being able to ge...

A.   13 September 2006: My ex was the same bud, some women find it hard to imagine sex let alone the act itself, yo us blokes its quite easy with few emotions at the time. I would agree with the other writers comments that you should woo her, - try not to smother her thow ... (read in full...)

Why are guys afraid to date virgins???

Q.   Why are guys afraid to date virgins? What's your view on this?...

A.   12 September 2006: Who said they were? Most blokes would prefere a virgin to a bicycle..... (read in full...)

The distance between us is killing me, but doesnt seem to affect him, if only I could banish these feelings!!

Q.   Hi everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and as time goes on, I'm getting more and more frustrated with the distance, more and more jealous and craving more time with my boyf who I only see once every month. I love him...

A.   12 September 2006: I was in a 3yr realtionship, I believe only the distance made us fail, we discucced moving up / down etc but 120 miles is a long way esepcially as we were still in our early twenties. You need to make sure he feels strongly about you, way up your ... (read in full...)

I really love him but cant tell him im a virgin!! Im size 8 would this be why any form of penetration hurts ?

Q.   My bf and i live together he's 27 and has a daughter aged 8 who doesnt live with us, Im older than him and i have the ordeal of still being a virgin. We love each other very much, however ive not told him im still a virgin, hes slept with 27 girls ...

A.   12 September 2006: Well firstly you should not see being size 8 as an issue, - see it as a very possitve sexual exploit. If your a Virgin that's great, blokes do not think down on virgins, they respetc them more for their integrity. I am no doctor but having just come ... (read in full...)

I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!

Q.   My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...

A.   12 September 2006: Forget what your mates say, breasts are VERY IMPORTANT in a relationship, my ex spent 3600 on new ones, look beyond the boobs for sexual stimulation, get her to lap dance her breasts across your face wihout you being allowed to touch them, - lets ... (read in full...)

How long should I wait for his call?

Q.   I met a guy through a friend friday night. He lives in my building, and last night I saw him and gave him my number. How long should I wait for his call before i talk to him again? I've always been the askee not the asker so this is a new situation ...

A.   11 September 2006: Get straignt on the phone and tell him you dont like playing games by waiting a certain amount of time to call him, - He will apprecaite that no end. Good luck!@!!... (read in full...)

I think he is cheating because he accusses me of it....

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over one year, and now i think that he is cheating on me,. I cant be sure of it but there are defiante signs that he might be, and i need some advise. He lives with me and he uses my car, when we first started ...

A.   11 September 2006: Sounds difficult, I would say he is scared of losing you to another man, there is always a chance he is cheating but give him the benefit of the doubt until you know for sure, try talking to him (carefuly) about your concerns. try not to make him ... (read in full...)

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