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I just can't take her walking out on me for every fault and/or arguement. She's causing me so much stress~ What should I do?

Q.   What am I to do??? I've been with my girlfriend for about 3.5 months, and for the most part it's been a roller coaster ride......I love her with all my heart and want to do the best I can, but it seems it's not enough. Today, my cable was shut ...

A.   18 April 2007: She lives at home still but, is always at my house 3-4 nights a week to clear all that up. And to the last person on the bottom who says they're 24 as well, I did the same thing in school. And I couldn't get my ass in gear unless someone came down ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   18 April 2007: I get where your coming from. I'm the same way with my gf. When she's mad at me and blows up, and takes her couple things she has at my apt out, I go crazy. I've chased her, called her 30 times, and even went to her house and work to try and talk ... (read in full...)

How do I stop wondering about my gf's past relationships?

Q.   I know its none of my business, but I cant help but to wonder about my girlfriend's past relationships (what all she did with them). Why do I do this, and how do I stop?...

A.   18 April 2007: It's tough, I go through the same thing with my gf. I trust her with all my heart and love her to death. As long as you can trust your gf, there's nothing to worry about. Worrying about what happened in the past is something you can't change since ... (read in full...)

My gf and I broke up but I can't get her out of my head! whatcan I do?

Q.   my ex girlfriend broke up with me on feb 3 and i cant get her out of my head. is this normal. i wish i could talk to her but i dont know what to say or do. ...

A.   21 March 2007: What was the main driving force for the 2 of you breaking up?? That could be the reason right there. I would suggest talking via e-mail or instant message at first, just to try and get a feel for things. Or if your up to it call her, there's nothing ... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse?

Q.   Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse? I haven't had sex with my boyfriend yet but my waist seems a bit thicker than it used to be... But maybe I'm [hopefully] just being paranoid....

A.   21 March 2007: If you haven't had sex what's there to worry about, the magic stork, lol. Well if you had unprotected sex, and he blew it inside of you, then there's a pretty good chance. Also, the pre-cum or whatever you want to call it does contain traces o... (read in full...)

I find it insulting that my gf still does things with her ex bf! How do I handle this?

Q.   I finally got my life on the right track and have had a steady and stable girlfriend for the last 2.5 months. I think she is the one. However, she is still in contact with her ex-boyfriend, who also happens to be her mechanic and is one of her good ...

A.   15 March 2007: Thank you all for your help, I did talk to her about it. The reason she was all nice with him was because he gave her a great discount on her car, over $150, I saw the bills myself. And she told me, besides yesterday, to pick up her car, and last ... (read in full...)

I like them all! I'm torn as to who to pick..what do you all think?

Q.   This girl I work with told me her friend likes me, and her friend is very attractive and cute. However, I like the girl I work with as well. Unfortunately, her friend has to go back to school next week, so I'm torn now to decide who to pick. Also...

A.   8 January 2007: The girl I work with read the message I sent her on myspace, and told me she likes someone else and to always keep an open mind if things don't work out with her and this other guy, cause she thinks i'm really sweet and a down to earth person. ... (read in full...)

Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?

Q.   Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....

A.   8 January 2007: It always happens to me and it's embarrassing, but what I've done to help control it is usually masturbate before the girl I"m going to have sex with comes over. Or blow it once while she's giving head, I go from lasting 2 minutes to about 10.... (read in full...)

How can I stop being overly paranoid about my bf?

Q.   Hey everyone My problem is that im being majorly over paranoid and im not sure what to do My bf is away at the moment and will be for roughly another 3 weeks He is great and sometimes sends me really sweet texts but if i dont here from hm i beg...

A.   3 October 2006: I am in a similar situation, my girlfriend is away at school, and we hardly get to see each other. She would always say she would call back and never would, and has seemed distant with me since she's been away. I figured something was up, cheating, ... (read in full...)

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