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I've been here since the beginning of April 2009. And even though I'm new here, It's been a pleasure to come across the diversity of people and knowing that we are not alone in relationship issues.
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Do I verbally tell her how I feel, or keep flirting and hope for the best?
Q. i like this girl in my class. we talk everyday and we have became best friends. it started when this other guy in our class started hitting on her. she didn't like him at all and he wouldn't leave her alone. so she asked me if i would sit in between ...
A. 18 April 2010: First off, is she still with her boyfriend?
If so, be very careful. Most Women tend to look for their closest male friend for support. And it may turn out to be rebound.
If not, then you can wait. Wait for her. Be there for her. But sometim... (read in full...)
Could I have made her pregnant?
Q. Help! I'm really scared right now. My girlfriend and I have never had sex, but I went over to her house and she gave me a handjob and a blowjob. I came in her mouth, then we went to wash our hands just in case. I fingered her shortly after. She has ...
A. 18 April 2010: I had an old friend who went through the exact same thing.
She gave her boyfriend a handjob and then proceeded to finger herself. Her period was late the next month and I even bought her a pregnancy test. It came out negative and her period c... (read in full...)
Found out that he is divorcing and he didn't tell me
Q. My boyfriend of five years got into some trouble as of late. Anyway, to make a long story short, I had to ask about a court date for him and they said that the only one they had on file was for his divorce. He never told me that he was married. We ...
A. 18 April 2010: He lied about being married. If he can hold that in his conscience, then he can most likely lie about other major or small issues. It's great that you're not giving him a hard time, but it can show him that you're easy to lie to. You should show ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. I keep cheating on my boyfriend. It's as simple as that. I feel like crap, it's happened twice and i've told him twice. The real problem is that I keep flirting and looking for more outside attention. Me and him don't spend very much time together ...
A. 16 April 2010: Cheating and yet you still love him? Hmmmm...
If he won't man up to end with you, do it yourself.
Is he gibing you enough attention? Because it looks like you keep going to the outside.
I'm sorry, I can't believe you truly "love him" if ... (read in full...)
Age difference poll.
Q. im starting a poll to see the age gaps in relationships from ages 14 - 16 e.g. im 14 i went out with a girl tht was 13......
A. 16 April 2010: Hehe.
Age gaps are getting more and more common these days!
I will not say my real age at the moment, but my soldier is 4.5 years older than I am =).
That gives you a hint. You have to be at least seventeen to join the Army here in the Uni... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...
Q. Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an ...
A. 13 April 2010: I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was sixteen when my mom had my baby brother. And yes, I've had my moments where I just didn't want to have any siblings. Young kids made my patience go away very quickly, and I didn't want to stop being an only ch... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bus driver that I like him?
Q. Okay so my problem is that I really like this guy who just so happens to be my bus driver. Theres not much of an age difference just four years. He goes pretty red when he talks to me but im sure he has no clue whatsoever that i like him. Should I ...
A. 13 April 2010: Awww!!!
Have you seen the movie Mermaids? It's quite similar.
Anyhoo, sit closer to the front or where he's at. Talk to him more. My boyfriend is also four (4.5) years older than I am, so I know the feeling.
Get to know him more.
Good l... (read in full...)
His phone. Her pics.
Q. While I was vistiting my boyfriend at college i decided to check his phone while he slept. I know it was wrong but i couldn't help myself. He had all his messages erased but i found in his pictures 2 pictures of a girl naked. when i confronted him ...
A. 13 April 2010: Okay, as far as I know, when photos are sent, they are not automatically saved to the phone. It has to be done before hand.
Okay, what angle were the pictures in? Did the girls take them by themselves, or did it look like someone took it for them... (read in full...)
Don't want to be pushy, but I can never contact him
Q. My boyfriend and I have known each other most of our lives and dated in the past but split up when he went to the army. He recently came home for good and we started seeing each other again and recently made things official between us again. Im ...
A. 13 April 2010: Okay sweetie, this is a little vague. I'm an Army Girlfriend myself.
It all depends where he is right now. Is he at a duty station, AIT, etc?
My boyfriend also lags in calls and text messages. And he specifically apoligizes for it because h... (read in full...)
Was he cheating with this emotional affair?
Q. I have discovered that my husband has been having what people on here seem to call an 'emotional affair'. I have got proof that it was not physical although they were egging each other on with sexual innuendo and lovey dovey stuff. Given that it ...
A. 13 April 2010: Cheating is a definition that is quite stretched out between genders.
Cheating is, in fact, anything that he does that he would not want you to read, hear, or see. It doesn't necessarily mean sex.
Though he may be right in you not giving him a... (read in full...)
Should I continue to try and see him even though he has said he is very happy with his girlfriend?
Q. I met this guy from germany through an internet and now he's here in the same country as mine.However, he will only stay here for like 12 months for a community service. Months after, he arrived in my country and we've been texting each oth...
A. 12 April 2010: It's an awful thing to deal with: seeing the one you like love someone else.
But it's also a boundary that should be deeply respected. It's an awful pain to be dealt with (cheated on). He has a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean they're ... (read in full...)
My best friend told me she loved me
Q. My best friend told me she loved me. She also knew that I knew she just broke up with her boyfriend. I dont know if she actually likes me or if i am just the rebound guy. I love her too, but it felt weird when we were together. I told her that she ...
A. 12 April 2010: Oh boy.
When women are broken, most of them go to the nearest man they have for comfort. And they will do WHATEVER it takes (without even realizing it) to get back up on her feet again.
If you really love her, you'd tell her to wait. She will h... (read in full...)
Is this guy that I like...two timing on his gf?
Q. I take a class outside of school, and there's this very good looking guy who is my table partner. I'm almost 18 and he's 21. When I first met him, I asked if he's single, and he didn't say anything. Since then though, he added me on facebook, aim, ...
A. 11 April 2010: Okay, you saw in Facebook that he has a girlfriend. It's obvious you're into him, but put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes: it's an awful pain to be cheated on.
Tell him straight forward. What he is doing is just plain wrong. If you keep pla... (read in full...)
How do I stomp this clinginess and need for reassurance feeling into the ground before boot camp?
Q. Ok, I just got back together with my ex recently. Right now we are doing the long distance thing until december. My problem is that I can start to feel myself getting clingy. I feel like I need reassurance every day and if we dont have meaningful ...
A. 10 April 2010: Hello, Army Girlfriend here.
Since you're heading off to Basic, you're going to notice that your priorities WILL change. Luckily, it gets easier. Once you get to AIT you will have more freedom (so you can bring your technology).
Looks like yo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is texting the guy who likes her
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. What's going on people? Well I found out my girlfriend still texts a guy who she liked and was about to date while we were broken up for a month. We been together 2 years. Yesterday while she was at her int...
A. 9 April 2010: First off, do those men even know she's taken?! They have to know that she's off limit, and even if they're simple innocent conversations, it's not okay for them to be taking her time away from you. I can see why you've become suspicious.
For y... (read in full...)
Afraid to commit because she seems to have a tendency for flings
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met 4 months ago. Even though we were in college together, we weren't friends until recently when I reconnected with her on facebook. Since then we have been in touch via yahoo messanger and on the ...
A. 9 April 2010: Publicius,
I see. The best thing to know is that she's trying. Though it may take for you to tell her, then that's the way it's going to be for a while until she can start learning on her own. But it also depends on you. Are you willing to start... (read in full...)
I can't make my girlfriend cum from oral sex...need advice
Q. So my girlfriend and I havea great sex life. Great :) She cums, I cum, we both cum it's delightful, but I can't make her cum from oral sex.....and I don't know what I'm doing wrong..... I take her coaching, do everything she tells me, and nothin...
A. 9 April 2010: Maybe try to arouse her longer. Such as, massages, foreplay, all before you bury your face. Kiss her thighs before you start playing around with her. ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating with my girlfriends best friend.
Q. I've been cheating on girlfriend and feel so bad. Its about a million times worse because I'm doing it with her best friend. The fact that she cheated on me a few months ago isn't making me feel better. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for ...
A. 9 April 2010: My ex left me for my best friend. The pain is awful. Two blows from a boyfriend AND best friend. What you're doing in infact, an awful thing. But when my ex ended with me, I was grateful in the end that he did it now rather than later. I was gra... (read in full...)
Leaving for the Navy, ... but my girlfriend wants to get married before I go.
Q. Hi, I am 23 yrs old, and have been with my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 years now. This isnt including a period of time we were broken up for about 6 months about a year ago. Anyway during this period of singleness, I enlisted in the US Navy. Th...
A. 9 April 2010: Hello! Army Girlfriend here. My boyfriend and I are pretty serious. We've agreed to get married before his deployment (probably coming up in a couple of years). Like some comments below say, a lot of these marriages do not last, but that truly d... (read in full...)
Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend who cheated?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I don't know what to do because he asked me to forgive him and he said that he won't do this anymore.Should I trust him? Are men worth of trust?...
A. 9 April 2010: This happened to me too. Ex left me for my best friend. He cheated on me twice in our relationship. How was he to you during your relationship? Are you seriously willing to forgive him? If so, proceed. with. caution! Don't give him a free sta... (read in full...)
Afraid to commit because she seems to have a tendency for flings
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met 4 months ago. Even though we were in college together, we weren't friends until recently when I reconnected with her on facebook. Since then we have been in touch via yahoo messanger and on the ...
A. 9 April 2010: I have Dissociative Identity Disorder (multiple personalities) and sadly it was the cause to my breakup with a guy I was with for four years. In my current relationship, I told my boyfriend straight off of my situation. It's *somewhat* the s... (read in full...)
Why do they hate me so much?
Q. My husband's mother and two sisters hate me. To make a long story short our son is seven years old and they only call 6 times a year. They live in North Dakota and we live in Florida. When they call it makes me mad because they want to know ...
A. 8 April 2010: Oh dear. This is a huge issue and it seems like this has been going on for a long time. But to make things short, is there something you could have said/done that they could have found offensive while you were dating your husband?
Things like thi... (read in full...)
Will his feelings change while he's away?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend who i love for almost 4 months and already, he has told me that he thinks i am the one and that he has never felt this way about anyone before. We see each other all the time and we pretty much live together. We have ...
A. 7 April 2010: Cat,
Long distance relationships work under one basis: trust.
I'm an Army Girlfriend. Separations happen frequently and without warning.
Your boyfriend will be traveling. He will be experiencing quite a lot, seeing very much, and meeting n... (read in full...)
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