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Does this make me a slut even though I'm drunk?

Q.   Heyy So I have this problem where when I get drunk I'll hook up with random guys and most of the time are alot older than me. Does it make me a slut to hook up with random people even though I'm drunk?? ...

A.   8 July 2009: YES. You know what's going to happen when you get drunk and you do it anyway. It's not like it's some accident. You keep putting yourself in a situation for this stuff to happen.... (read in full...)

How do I handle I like one girl but got another pregnant?

Q.   Here's what happend. I'm in the military and I recently when on two sets of leave (vacation time): The first set of leave I went to a friends wedding out of state for four days and I met this great girl that I really like. We kind of hit it o...

A.   8 July 2009: If you have feelings for a girl, it's usually not a great idea to go have sex with other ones. So if you think there's any chance of a relationship with the wedding girl, you need to be honest with her. If she can live with what you've done and... (read in full...)

My father is calling this incest!

Q.   Hey. Iv been with this guy a month then my father starts saying his my cousin and calls me insest and everything and its really annoying me, iv tried telling him to stop but he wont listen. The past 4years he has be making my life misrable and i d...

A.   8 July 2009: If you don't believe your dad, then ask the guy's parents if you are related to each other.... (read in full...)

Am I being pathetic or is there something going on here?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend nearly ten months. And everything is perfect. He's so loving and we have up to now not had one argument or anything. When me and my friends get together and have boy talks, i always say how much i trust him and ...

A.   8 July 2009: Something like that would bother me quite a bit. Find a time to sit down alone with him and explain to him your concerns. Just tell him you want to clear up the confusion you're having. Let him know what's bothering you and explain to him that you ... (read in full...)

He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!

Q.   My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...

A.   29 June 2009: Uh what he is doing is NOT NORMAL. Sounds like he has some sort of sick addiction. You need to get rid of him, and if you really don't want to, then tell him he needs to decide between all this foul play or staying with you.... (read in full...)

Feel guilty for hanging out with another guy, was it wrong?

Q.   okay, so i've been going out with this guy for a little over a month now but he's liked me for 2 years. i guess i don't like him as much as i thought i did but he's so good to me and i just cant bring myself to break up with him no matter how bad i ...

A.   29 June 2009: You need to make a decision. You should try to give your bf a chance, find the reasons you don't like him like you thought you did and see if you can get past them. If you know you don't want to be with him then don't keep leading him on and making ... (read in full...)

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...

A.   29 June 2009: Thanks for the answers everyone. I guess all I needed was to trust her and only her, and not worry about anything else. It's just so hard sometimes when I know she doesn't have a problem with lying to me. But I do love her and I know that eve... (read in full...)

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...

A.   29 June 2009: Just to set it straight, I don't get mad at her for her past. We both know she made a lot of mistakes, she just tried hiding a lot from me. It just bothered me a bit that she felt she had to lie about how many guys she has had sex with. First... (read in full...)

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