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I am always nice to girls, but they don't seem attracted to me.

Q.   No girls seem that attracted to me, i am always nice to them, being a gentleman what else can i do, ...

A.   31 January 2010: Honey, If the girls aren't attracted to you because you are a gentleman, then they aren't worth it. Yes it's a cheesy line, but seriously, they're not. You will find the right girl soon. There's a girl out there who wants to meet a nice, ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and fantasize at night and think about the girls in my class, just some questions

Q.   I'm 13 and I fantasize at night about sex, I feel excited in a way I never used to before and I don't know whats happening. Can anyone give me some answers? Also, i fantasize about my best friend and the girls in my class in school. Am I lesbian? I ...

A.   26 January 2010: Honey, You're only 13, so your going through lots of changed, both physically and emotionally. A lot of teenagers go through this. This does not necessarily mean you are a lesbian. Do you fantasize about boys aswell? You might just be c... (read in full...)

How can I tell her I liked her without hurting my other friends feelings?

Q.   hi i had to choose between 2 girls and now i've picked 1 but another one of my freinds asked her out and she rejected. Now i dont want to tell her how i feel in case it hurts his feelings and damages our freindship. i wont see her til saturday...

A.   26 January 2010: Be honest with this 'other girl'. Tell her you like someone else, but don't tell her you had to choose between the two of them. that won't help! As far as your friend goes, you should talk to him. explain that although you know that he's been rej... (read in full...)

I was raped and need advice on what to do

Q.   i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...

A.   26 January 2010: Honey, you need to go to the police. I know its hard, but this will affect you for the rest of your life. You're letting him win by letting this incident rule your life. Also the fact that if he is punished for what he has done, or goes to pris... (read in full...)

She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.

Q.   Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...

A.   26 January 2010: Hi Honey, I can see your in a bit of a situation! As far as the lies go, and the fact that you love her. You need to sit her down and tell her your feelings. after all, Trust takes a while, and losing trust takes seconds. So it could take her... (read in full...)

Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?

Q.   About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...

A.   26 January 2010: First of all Honey, breaking up a marriage like you did, takes two people. so you can't completely blame your fiance, although if it only took a weekend for him to decide that he was leaving his wife, there must have been something going wrong ... (read in full...)

Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!

Q.   My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...

A.   26 January 2010: I can totally relate to you as i've been in the same situation! My boyfriend broke up with me, so i slept with somebody else. He then asked me back out, but when he found out, he said he didn't trust me. I pointed a few things out to him. Fi... (read in full...)

Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?

Q.   Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minut...

A.   25 January 2010: I agree with xlaurenx I used to talk to my boyfriend at every chance i got, sometimes for hours at a time. Now i call him for a few minutes, and call him for an hour at most when i get home. It's not that i dont love him any less. Its just t... (read in full...)

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