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Was the orgasm a one-off?

Q.   I'm wondering if I had my 1st orgasm . During intercourse last night I became really flushed and a tingling sensation in my vagina spread up my body.It was so pleasurable I had to release quite a long moan. Although I've heard you'll know if you h...

A.   26 March 2011: girl, it sounds like you had the 'big O' well done :)... (read in full...)

How to flirt...advice please...

Q.   I always see guys my age flirting with girls, chatting with them, making them laugh, even touching them just casually and I feel left behind because I have no idea how to flirt or make a girl attracted to me. I need to know EXACTLY what to ...

A.   26 March 2011: Darling, this one is simple. Being a girl myself, I know what I like and what I find creepy. SMILE. Literally, if you smile, they'll be putty in your hands. Also, listen to what she says and comment on it later in the conversation, relate yourself... (read in full...)

How do I broach the subject of being sexual?

Q.   Hello, the other day I was wondering how I could broach the subject of doing something sexual with my boyfriend, not sex, something like oral or what I would prefer is a hand-job. He's not very outgoing usually but when it comes to touching me o...

A.   14 August 2010: Right, I'm a novice and believe me - we've talked. He's reluctant to just talk about it and then it happen as if planned because he says that it's just not special if we do it that way - he wants me to be seductive (HELLO, I've never done sed... (read in full...)

Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!

Q.   *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 w...

A.   3 August 2010: That guilt is rightly there, you should have told him by now but to be honest with you ... I wouldn't have told him within the weeks of doing it but 8 years is a long time to hold onto that ... You were A) drunk, and B) young. Perhaps showing ... (read in full...)

We are having problems after only being together for a month! Is he showing signs of being possessive?

Q.   Me and my bf have been together for a month now.In that month we had so many arguments because sometimes i dont call him or cause i cant go out sometimes or just because i didnt call him when i went out with my mom. Is he showing signs of being a ...

A.   3 August 2010: Your instincts may be right, but think about it from his point of view - is he insecure? is he brash or shy? Do you perhaps think that maybe he isn't completely sure you're into him as much as he is to you ... perhaps he thinks it's too good to ... (read in full...)

Do you think I offended him?

Q.   Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely. No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age. *My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would ...

A.   3 August 2010: Thanks for the advice, I guess it sounds reasonable to 'give him lessons' and it would be a useful thing to work on our comunication problems .. I didn't think that they took rejection that bad, but it seems that he has. Thank you. Regards, ... (read in full...)

I really like my boyfriend but he's a terrible kisser!

Q.   Okay, well I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months, not that long I know but I really like him, and I know full well I'm not ready for sex, I'm a virgin but he's not, he slept with one girl but the thing is he cannot kiss! I hate kissing him, ...

A.   1 August 2010: SAME! The 'dog' reference is SO MUCH like my boyfriend that I can't believe we're not dating the same person! My boyfriend has low self-esteem and has had even less partners than I (and that's amazingly little) so he's so lacking in the kissing ... (read in full...)

Hes a bad kisser, but I really like him, how do I tell him ??

Q.   I've been going out with this guy for about a month now, and it started out fine. He's really nice, we get on well and have loads in common. But the problem is, he's a rubbish kisser. It's like he's trying to choke me with his tongue whilst ...

A.   1 August 2010: I'm in exactly the same place right now, it's like he's racing to get to the finish that never ends! I even have to subtly wipe around my mouth from his sloppy kisses. Unfortunatly, he's the nicest guy I've ever met and I will admit it - I'm comp... (read in full...)

What do I do about the towel/tampons?

Q.   Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops ...

A.   27 July 2010: Thanks everyone, I think I'll let him know that it's 'that time' just so it gets it over with. I'm sure he'll understand because as everyone has pointed out rightly that it's natural. As for getting rid of them, I think the bags are a great id... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...

Q.   I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...

A.   26 July 2010: Hello, I'd just like to tell you I got mine when I was 15 (started on my birthday which was annoying) and dont worry, my friend started hers when she was 18. TRUST ME, enjoy this while it lasts - I thought I wanted my period when i was 12, 13, ... (read in full...)

AM I going to fast here?

Q.   I've been going out with this girl since last Sunday and I think i'm in love but don't want to tell her yet however I'm not sure she feels the same with me. On sunday after I asked her out we both went swimming and it ended up me holding her and it ...

A.   26 July 2010: PERIODS ARE A TURN OFF! I love my boyfriend but if I can avoid seeing him the five days I'm bleeding and smelly - I will! It is just that time of the month where you're argumentative, detatched and alien to everyone - plus, I avoid everyone a... (read in full...)

Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??

Q.   Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...

A.   26 July 2010: What do you think we are? Super-mutant beings? No, we can't tell, well at least all of my friends and everyone I know can't - it can shock you how small/large a person's penis is as it has nothing to do with handspan of foot size. That is a sci... (read in full...)

We didn't do anything so how could I be pregnant?

Q.   I come from a christian family and so does my boyfriend. We didn't have sex though. We both decided not to do anything that would ruin our stands as Christians. But I think I'm pregnant now.. One night I was spending the the weekend with him and his ...

A.   26 July 2010: This looks to me rather strange, usually if you're a virgin (in the sense of having a hymen) it is impossible for the sperm to reach your eggs. Though this is the norm it is possible to rip your hymen through exercise such as gynastics and such... (read in full...)

Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to?

Q.   Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to? Or do girls simply create this belief that most guys like slim girls? I'm in a fairly new relationship and i'm really happy with my boyfriend but i'm extremely insecure and am completel...

A.   21 July 2010: I'd just like to point out to the first guy on this list that I am 83kg and 5,6 - you do the math into lbs. 150 lbs is NOT a big girl. I am admired by my boyfriend and he's skinny so it really is down to personal preference. Thank you.... (read in full...)

Woman and loving the "BIG ONE"

Q.   A lot of questions on here about penis size, and most women say it's not the size, it's what you do with it, it's the motion of the ocean, bla, bla, bla. BUT, most women at least joke about meeting a guy with a big one. Some women love it. Some ...

A.   21 July 2010: Alright, where is this philosophy of 'Bigger is Better' coming from? It's (no word of a lie) all about the fingers! What you do with your hands to a girl makes either great sex or rubbish sex! My friend has had a 8inch before and said it felt no ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about kissing for the first time!

Q.   what is the best and easiest way to gain confidence in kissing because i've never been kissed before and i've asked people who i know that have kissed but all they say is to just do it. THAT DOESNT EXPLAIN HOW TO DO IT!!! so i worry about litt...

A.   21 July 2010: Alrighty then, I'll explain to you exactly what happened the first time a guy kissed me. We were in the cinemas and the whole time, everything was building up and up and up to it, I was cuddling and he was shy but cuddling me back. The film end... (read in full...)

How are you supposed to feel in between seeing your boyfriend ??

Q.   this is kind of a random question....how are you supposed to feel when you're by yourself after your boyfriend has finished spending time with you and until you get to meet again?...

A.   21 July 2010: My boyfriend and I spend most Sunday's together - we play, flirt, chat and cuddle simply all day. Sure, you would think that after spending all day I'd be satisfied with what we'd talked about, right? No, I miss him from the second he walks ou... (read in full...)

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