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What is the best way to tell my boyfriend our relationship is over?

Q.   Hie.I have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger than me and we have been together for two years now.i met another man who is married and said he is having problems with his wife and started having an affair.he said they will break up soon so as to...

A.   17 August 2012: WOW OK so I am a male I was married before and I had friends who pulled this "gag" It is so easy to tell a girl "well I am married but my wife is a real B*$ch so I am going to leave her but wow you are so awesum, you understand me, you are so great ... (read in full...)

Is it worth staying with my fiance after he disrespected me so badly?

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for almost two and a half years. We met online and after we met in person and dated for a while, I moved in with him where he lived (he lived in Louisiana and I lived in Arizona)but we decided it would be a nice ...

A.   17 August 2012: Why do people put people down something that is UNDERSTOOD in other words when one person has to put down another it is something called lack of self worth!! I am a male I am well versed and I have had my share of relationships. I have been cheated ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive and let go of the past?

Q.   My 6.5 yrs relationship has ended and I never thought the pain would be so great. A kind of relationship where I was giving more but receiving less emotion and love. It was a feeling like I was emotionally sucked/extracted but not receiving much i...

A.   17 August 2012: No do not forgive in the sense that you take him back but do forgive in the sense that you forgive yourself for being so blind. So many people, male and female have the gift of gab they can make you see what they want but and then the truth comes ... (read in full...)

How do I tell people these things? Without feeling embarrassed or stupid about it?

Q.   I was talking with my friend the other day and she asked me "what's the thing you've done in life that you're ashamed of and wish you had never done?" I said i don't know because i hate telling people the real answer. The truth is, the thing i'...

A.   17 August 2012: no matter the age learn from the experience .. when asked such a question I would say well I have done so many dumb things it is hard to choose one but if I had to I always come back with well I fell for a really super hot star and then realize it ... (read in full...)

Relationship advice on a girl who won't talk to me.

Q.   I was seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. I have just returned from three months away, she was fine before I left and we agreed to split but remain friends. While I was away I was having a very hard time the first few weeks and so wished to tal...

A.   17 August 2012: well distance does not always make a heart grow fonder it sounds to me like you did kinda go overboard and also it sounds like she has found something else in her life to devote her time to whether a new male friend or female friend or job or many ... (read in full...)

My two year old is not progressing vocally the way people tell me he should. Do I have cause to worry?

Q.   My beautiful toddler has just turned 2. He's not talking though. He makes sounds but no real proper words except grandma and mama which he uses to describe everything. He is a good communicator and lets me know what he wants non-verbally, an...

A.   17 August 2012: First have your childs hearing checked next have your child tested for autism and always encourage word communication with the child ... (read in full...)

I've finished it with my first ever boyfriend after he cheated on me, Did I do the right thing?

Q.   I was with my first ever boyfriend, and the person who i lost my virginity too for six months and it all ended today. Even though i'm being strong and trying my best to convince myself i deserve better i just want someones else opinion ...

A.   17 August 2012: no matter what the age when you are cheated on it hurts male or female yes leave him and move on with life and learn from the experience that is the smart bet or choice if you like.... (read in full...)

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