I really want to get pregnant -- should I?
Q. I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...
A. 26 June 2011: It's good that you two decided to wait. Just so you know you're not the only one who is worried. All women, especially married ones with children, fear for their military lover's safety. The good thing about not being pregnant now is that you don't ... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant -- should I?
Q. I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...
A. 24 June 2011: No. Don't do this to yourself. To take care of a baby, you'll need a career to provide for it. To get a proper career, you need to finish your education. Do the smart thing and wait until after college. If you love your boyfriend, surely you two can ... (read in full...)
My dad abandoned his family for my mother and I, will his sons hate me for this reason?
Q. When my mom was 13, she used to babysit this guy's kids that live in her apartment complex, and...she fell in love the guy. Unfortunatly he was married with two boys. He ended up moving away, my mom turned 17- got pregnant, by 18 she got married to ...
A. 24 June 2011: Oops. I met 'these boys that your mother babysitted'. Such a small mistake but a big change. Sorry.... (read in full...)
He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?
Q. This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...
A. 24 June 2011: I'm afraid I can moral support but not so much advice. It's seems like your husband really doesn't appreciate you. I don't think you are a bad wife and mom. Judging from your post, it sounds like you're trying your best. I must say I'd be ... (read in full...)
My dad abandoned his family for my mother and I, will his sons hate me for this reason?
Q. When my mom was 13, she used to babysit this guy's kids that live in her apartment complex, and...she fell in love the guy. Unfortunatly he was married with two boys. He ended up moving away, my mom turned 17- got pregnant, by 18 she got married to ...
A. 24 June 2011: Don't beat yourself up over it too much. These boys that your mother dated are now adults. At their age, they should be mentally mature and no better than to do something as childish as blame or hate you for their parents divorce. Your mother and ... (read in full...)
Why am I into older men?
Q. Why am I into older men.? I'm 16 and ever since I was a little girl, I never really liked the people my age. I would always have crushes on older men. I even had a crush on Jackie Chan... yeah.. Right now I'm dating a man 5 years older than me and ...
A. 23 June 2011: It's totally normal. I've been the exact same way. I'm almost 17. I have definitely had my share of crushes on older celebrities. I have two right now: ian harding (24-25) and nathan fillion (40). I'm am only attracted to guys in their 30s and 40s. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop lusting after my teacher?
Q. What should I do? I really Love my teacher. I am 17 years old and he is 28.. what should i do? My teacher is not handsome or cute but he has that brains and that slim body that makes me fall inlove and lust after him. When he is discussing our l...
A. 23 June 2011: I'm really close to turning seventeen, and I feel your pain. I'm not going to tell you it's just a fleeting crush because 1) no one can tell you how you think or feel 2) I'm in a somewhat similar situation so if I said that, I'd be a hypocrite. I'm ... (read in full...)
Listen to my head or my heart?
Q. I need some advice on whether it's best to follow head or heart when making a decision about an unplanned pregnancy, please :( I found out at the doctor's today I'm 2-3 weeks pregnant, unplanned, and a big surprise as I have been taking the contr...
A. 23 June 2011: I agree with everyone else here when I say LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!! You never know when and if you might be blessed again. If your boyfriend doesn't want to have the baby so soon, don't fret. This child is in YOUR stomach so you have the final say. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my sister in law that her husband is cheating on her?
Q. My sister in law's husband (My wifes sister) is cheating on her. He is 50 and he is didling their once babysitter who is in her early 20's. They have 4 kids (3 through 18). He told me he was going to stop but I have confirmed again it is still going ...
A. 21 June 2011: There are many cases in which the truth wounds the heart. Some of us want to hear the tempered truth, a few of us prefer the absolute truth, and the rest are in denial and believe they can handle the absolute truth when, in reality, they just barely ... (read in full...)
He is bisexual and chose a heterosexual life with me but is missing out and even brought up the subjects of threesomes.
Q. We've been together for 11 years and have a beautiful daughter together we both adore and cherish. He's a Bisexual man who has chosen a heterosexual life with me. But I fear he is missing his bi lifestyle. recently he's brought up the subjects of ...
A. 21 June 2011: I'm on the same page with eyeswideopen. If he feels that he he is 'missing something', he should not have settled down. When someone weds another, they are promising total commitment to one another. He married you so you has to be committed to you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe that I have feelings for him anymore and thinks I'm seeing someone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, I a 31 years of age and have been dating this guy who is 39,he was married in 1999 and have a son of 11years and after they got married they family left for england and the man came back the wife stayed there she only came back last yea...
A. 21 June 2011: Please try to be a little more considerate and understanding. He is still dealing with marital issues and needs all the support he can get, especially from you. His previous marriage did not end too well. Perhaps his paranoia of you being ... (read in full...)
Unknown sister searched and found us, feeling mixed emotions about it
Q. My case is a little bit complex, and I'm having a bit of an emotional crisis right now caused by a family issue, and don't know what to think of this new situation. First I gotta give some background info: My dad has been married twice. In his f...
A. 21 June 2011: Honey I understand you are going through a rough time right now but please have some sympathy for this girl. Let's say after a DNA test is taken, you find out she IS your half sister. Are you really going to turn her away because you ... (read in full...)
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