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How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

Q.   I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...

A.   29 November 2009: just tell her man. she wont mind honestly. :) just say you'd be more comfortable. x... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to confess my feelings in case I lose him as a friend!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following: I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he ...

A.   4 August 2009: Just be honest. It's thhe best policy as they say. :) xxx... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to confess my feelings in case I lose him as a friend!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following: I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he ...

A.   31 July 2009: Tell him. If you really feel that strongly for him then tell him. Don't just blurt it out though, ha, talk a bit first about anything then tell him. Ask him if he feels the same, and if he doesn't feel the same ask him how he does feel. That way... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't include me in any special dates and I'm sick of it. Should I go?

Q.   Ok everyone I really need some help here. My boyfriend and I are in are very early thirties. We have been together for four years. However, about two years into the relationship things got bad and we ended up breaking things off for a few months. We ...

A.   31 July 2009: Well finish him then! If it's that bad then just go. If he loves you, he'll try and get you back. Once you go he'll realise what you really mean to him. xxx... (read in full...)

He held me during the movie, because I didn't like the scary scenes. Does this mean he likes me?

Q.   around two weeks ago, i broke up with my boyfriend of 8months. last night i went to the movies with my youth group (my ex also attends). i sat next to a boy i know, and have had a crush on for ages. he's 1yr older than me. the film we were watching ...

A.   25 July 2009: He might, or he might feel sorry for you. Either way, i'd chase him! Sorry for your break up though. :( Hope i helped. :) xxxxx... (read in full...)

I've liked this guy for nine years but I'm so shy...what should I do?

Q.   i've liked this dude for about 9 years we recently just met again a month ago but my feelings for him haven't changed and i want to tell him i like him its just i'm so shy.what should i do?...

A.   25 July 2009: Try get his number. If you have it then maybe try texting him. Or, you can always talk more. Talk about him then you get to know more about him and the kinds of stuff you can then talk about. Just see and talk more, things will move on, and grad... (read in full...)

Should I go see the doctor for this?

Q.   my girlfriend wants to touch my penis but i feel something uneasy my heartbeats gets high and my blood pressure rises when she tries touch i feel awkward please help what should i do should i go to doctor...

A.   25 July 2009: I dont think you sould go to a doctor. I'm a lass so obviously i don't know that much, but maybe you should tell someone else, maybe a guy you are close with? Dont go just yet, but if it persists then i think you should get some medical advi... (read in full...)

I have dreams I am losing my friend, and it is my worst nightmare. Is it a sign it will happen? He already ignores me...

Q.   Me and my guy friend have stoped talking. Its been the whole summer and he hasn't talked to me but 3 times. I knew that he must be busy but he has been online a lot. I know now that if I text him he wont text me back so I dont anymore. Its like our ...

A.   25 July 2009: Don't worry, it was just a dream. Try talking more, maybe ring him a couple of times. If it's upsetting you that much, then i think you should tell him how you feel. If you don't and you keep getting upset, the relationship will get worse between ... (read in full...)

I'm having paranoia problems, worried that my boyfriend won't get home safely!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend couldn't be happier with our relationship at the moment. The chemistry is amazing. We see each other nearly every day and he often stays over and we are really in love. But when he doesn't stay over, he stays in the city unti...

A.   25 July 2009: I don't think you should be that worried. Yes it may be dangerous, but i'm sure if he's been going there for a while he'll know what he's doing. Try not to worry, he'll know that place like the back of his hand. ;) If you keep worrying, he'll... (read in full...)

I love her but she is not giving me what I need in this relationship. What can we do?

Q.   I am unsure as to what I can do about the intimacy with my girlfriend. The first few months with her, she was the one getting all of the action and calling all of the shots. Now that I have more of a say, the sex and being physical is erratic and ...

A.   25 July 2009: I think you need to tell her how it's making you feel. If she loves you as much as you love her, she'll make it better. Tell her honestly and openly, and she'll undersatnd. :) Hope this helps. xxxxx... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't include me in any special dates and I'm sick of it. Should I go?

Q.   Ok everyone I really need some help here. My boyfriend and I are in are very early thirties. We have been together for four years. However, about two years into the relationship things got bad and we ended up breaking things off for a few months. We ...

A.   25 July 2009: Okay.. I think that if you're not happy in this relationship then you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. There's no point in you trying to prove yourself to him, because thats not how a loving relationship is. I think if it's makingg yo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't include me in any special dates and I'm sick of it. Should I go?

Q.   Ok everyone I really need some help here. My boyfriend and I are in are very early thirties. We have been together for four years. However, about two years into the relationship things got bad and we ended up breaking things off for a few months. We ...

A.   25 July 2009: Okay.. I think that if you're not happy in this relationship then you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. There's no point in you trying to prove yourself to him, because thats not how a loving relationship is. I think if it's makingg yo... (read in full...)

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