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im 16 and the reason im on this site is because i need somewhere i can just be me. somewhere where i dont have to be cheery& churpy all the time i hope to help other people on this site as wellas i can

I'm dating a distant relative & worried it might be like kissing cousins

Q.   This year I met the most wonderful boy whom I had never met before. We started talking a lot and later on, he told me he fell in love with me. At first, thoughts in my head screamed and said, "He's your cousin don't do anything your parents wouldn't ...

A.   17 January 2010: DONT TELL i had the same thing happen to me i told my mom and now i have to secretly txt him if i wanna`talk... (read in full...)

I am scared of potential legal action against me!

Q.   i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl ...

A.   25 October 2009: if she was over 17 when you did this then your ok cos she was sexully legal and she did it out of her own free will... (read in full...)

How do I get over the tattoo he has dedicated to his ex?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about four years now. Our relationship is not bad. I just can't seem to get over the fact that he has a tatoo dedicated to his ex on his stomach. Its her name and her eyes. It drives me crazy. I wish I could do ...

A.   19 October 2009: ask him to change the pic to something else then you both win its not removed but changed so it wont bother you... (read in full...)

Why is my ex acting so weird?

Q.   My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we talk very little. When we do talk she doesn't have much to say or she seems a little annoyed. When she saw me at a football game last week she ran up to me hugged me and told me she missed me. She hugged me ...

A.   15 October 2009: she wants to get back with you ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it ...

A.   22 June 2009: i know this sounds stupid but i had the same problem and me and my boyfriend used to go to an empty field and hide in the bushes... (read in full...)

I'm too paranoid to finish in the condom

Q.   Hi ever since I started having sex with girls, always pull out even I always wear a condom. I don't like finishing inside the condom, since it might break. My GF wants me to do it inside but I never do. I'm too paranoid. is this normal? my cousin ...

A.   18 June 2009: why dont you ask her to wear a female condom aswell ... (read in full...)

Mum's threatening to chuck me out if I don't pass my exams!

Q.   Is it normal for my mother to threaten to throw me out of the house and make me repeat 3rd year if I fail anything or if I do pass in the subjects I want...

A.   26 May 2009: i tried but she thinks she is acting normal i want to move out but im only 16 and i cant afford it... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend that I've developed strong feelings for her?

Q.   Ok a real good friend of mine has recently split up with her bf and since then we've been getting really close but because we have been friends for a long time im scared of telling her how i feel and wondered should i tell her that i love her?...

A.   27 April 2009: trust me you shoul tell her even if she doesnt feel the same it will drive you made if you dont tell her and you never no she might feel the exact same way... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my cousin, he's getting engaged

Q.   ok heres my problem i am 16 and in love with a guy but not just any guy my 18 year old cousin now we havent seen each other in 4 years but the last time we saw each other we mad love weve made love before and its all ways been special to me but i ...

A.   8 January 2009: thanks so much for your advice it realy help but i think i might wait a bit before confronting him thanks thow... (read in full...)

How do I rid myself of feelings for him and move on?

Q.   uhm. im jus soo confused about what to do. soo on a cool summer night. i met this guy. me 2 of his friends and 2 of my friends were chillin one nite and we wound up having sex. i am down south in school but i visit where he lives about 4 mnths out ...

A.   6 January 2009: i think its more of a feeling that you cant trust him more then resentment if you realy like you wont be able to move on so easy but if you realy want to move on just tell him your over and dont visit him anymore it maybe hard but if you want to ... (read in full...)

What's wrong? I miss our sex life so much!

Q.   i have two kids,a four yr old and a 7 month old child. my boyfriend never wanted to have sex as soon as i got pregnant cause he said it isn't right for the baby and i agreed.Now (7 months after my baby is born) we still dont have sex as he says its ...

A.   5 January 2009: ok theres thie book its called 112 thing a bright girl should no in it there is a section on how to turn your man on read it a do what it says it works trust me... (read in full...)

Going out with my step cousin...

Q.   I am 14 and I am currently going out with my step cousin who is 15. We have known each other all my life. But about a week and a half ago I was at her house and we ended up holding hands. So on the 17th I asked her out, she said yes but the same ...

A.   23 December 2008: i dont think its wrong you cant help who you fall in love with im in the same boat as you but technicly your not cousins so go for it just slow down a bit k :)... (read in full...)

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