Neither of us wants to leave, even though I think our relationship is reaching its end...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now but it has begun to feel like this relationship has reached its end but, neither of us want to leave or so I believe. Am I staying for the wrong reason when I just don't want to leave her and ...
A. 28 June 2005: Have one long break, say 2-3 weeks away from her. Then after the break, if it's not working, get out before things get worse. But turn round and tell her 'we're not working out so good, and it's hurting to carry on. I think it's time to end it'. W... (read in full...)
We can't agree... I want a house, THEN a baby. He wants the baby first!
Q. This is a toughie. I've been with my guy for 7 1/2 years. We were engaged about 4 years ago...broke it off and got back together. We have lived together for a year now, back at each other's parents, but now looking at houses together. I've ...
A. 28 June 2005: There are plenty of woman who have children first and get married many years after! From where I come from, everybody's having babies these days and never get married or get married after! To be married you have to 100% sure you will always l... (read in full...)
It wasn't full-on sex, but since then, I don't know if I've wrecked our friendship!
Q. I've become pretty good friends with a girl that I have worked with the last six years and I have had a crush on her for a while. We've gone out together a few times but never alone, always with other friends. She had a party at her house and af...
A. 26 June 2005: Yes you talk 2 her bout it&yes u call her! Its simple really be straight up say do u even remember what happened the other night if she replys no then explained what did happen, see what her reaction is. either way if she does or doesnt remember go ... (read in full...)
I trusted my boyfriend to lose the one-night-stand, but he's been seeing her for months!
Q. About 8 months ago by boyfriend had a one night stand with another girl. I forgave him and we have now been going out for a year. The girl was, at the time, one of his friends but after this happened I told him never to talk to her again, and I was ...
A. 17 June 2005: TO BE HONEST WITH YOU THIS IS JUST MY OPINION EVERY BODY HAS FRIENDS BUT WHEN THEY'VE SLEPT WITH THEIR FRIENDS AND REMAIN FRIENDS AFTER THEIR GOING TO KEEP DOING IT ILL TELL YOU STRAIGHT TELL HIM 2 KEEP AWAY FROM HER OR ITS OVER AND U MEAN IT! ... (read in full...)
Sex will get boring if we don't try new things, he says. But what new things?
Q. I think I'll never be good in bed.My boyfriend says to me that I have to make new things and If I don't it will be boring but I don't know what to do.what new can i make.something sexy?I get really confused every time that we have sex,his words ...
A. 17 June 2005: Ask him 'what new things?' He'll ive you the answer and you'll know. Explain your situation to him, how it confuses you, and if you don't want to do those new things, then tell him you're not ready just yet. If he says it's going to be boring, then ... (read in full...)
We argue and he's jealous of my time with my friends, but I feel like I can't move back home, either...
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 10 mths now and I've been living with him for the last month. Sometimes we get on so well that I feel like he's my soulmate, but then every 4 or 5 days he brings up something to fight over and I can't handle i...
A. 17 June 2005: RIGHT TRY AND GET A PLACE OF YOUR OWN OR SHARE A FRIENDS PLACE TILL U GET A PLACE WHEN YOU HAVE THAT SORTED TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO STOP THE JEALOUSY OTHER WISE YOUR GONE! AND U MEAN IT! IF IT DOESNT STOP THEN PACK UR STUFF WHY HIS OUT LEAVE HIM A ... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend the "passion" he says is missing?
Q. I'm a man and have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. We get along very well together but he has told me that I don't show passion for him and he is getting frustrated. I really love him very much but just can't seem to come up with different ...
A. 17 June 2005: why not ask him what passion he would like you to show? then when he tells you your know exactly what his going on about! or you could easily think of all the passionate things u know and ask your self well do i do that 1 enough? if the answers ... (read in full...)
Can I show my boyfriend that I'm worthy of his trust again?
Q. I'm gay and my boyfriend has lost a great deal of trust in me because I have been less than truthful about having porn and other similar things in my house. He also feels that I am hiding things from him and has thoroughly gone through my computer...
A. 17 June 2005: you cant build somebodys trust up. Eventually it will build up or you have to do is not lie and be totally truthfull about everything. Let him keep trying to find out if you're lying or not because if you're being totally honest then he's only going ... (read in full...)
Six months after their break-up, and a marriage and pregnancy later - my bf still wants his ex!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. Recently we had the love discussion. He said that he felt as though he was falling in love with me and I told him that i already was. About 2 weeks later he suddenly anno...
A. 17 June 2005: IT SEEMS THIS MAN WILL ONLY GET STRONGER IN TIME TO COME. ALL YOU CAN DO IS STICK BY HIM TILL HE BUILDS HIS STRENGTH UP. IT MAY SEEM HARD TO DO BUT IF YOU LOVE THIS MAN YOU'LL WAIT. YOU SHOULD TRY AND TELL HIM IN A VERY POLITE WAY HE NEEDS TO STOP ... (read in full...)
They're little matters, but we argue them over and over. How do we stop?
Q. Hi, I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 10 months. We seem to be fighting over the same thing repeatedly. Like how I'm not good at talking to him in person, but I can say all kinds of things in e-mails or notes. I...
A. 17 June 2005: THIS MAY NOT BE MUCH HELP! BUT IVE LEARNT A LESSON OR 2 IN MY LIFE AND THAT IS NEVER ASK ANY ONE TO CHANGE. NO BODY'S PERFECT! AND WE CAN ACCEPT THAT OR LEAVE THAT! WHEN YOU GO TO ARGUE IN FUTURE AND YOU KNOW IT WILL GET OUT OF HAND BITE YOUR T... (read in full...)
Even though I love my boyfriend, secretly, I want my ex back!
Q. Hi there, please help me. I was with my ex for nearly three years and have been with my current bf for just over a year. Obvious then that I really do have feelings for him. However, I am still in contact with my ex which my bf knows about an...
A. 17 June 2005: Tell him you really need to. I've just got out of that situation! I was with my ex feller 4 2 years, then we broke up&i met some one else couldnt stop thinking of my ex fella&imagined my new 1 was my ex every time we kissed,or touched. I felt... (read in full...)
He only ever sees me when he needs something, otherwise he's anxious to leave...
Q. Dear cupid, I have a boyfriend who claims to love me so much but seemingly he has something up his sleeve. He calls me only when he needs to see me and that is after months or so. When I call him, he gives excuses to hang up. I need your advic...
A. 17 June 2005: i can honestly say i have been there done that! Your feller is rather cheating or useing you. And in my books both of them is not what a woman wants. It may be hard but get out while u can. Its going to be a lot easier now than it will be in an... (read in full...)
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