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... Send *appy140 a private message | | *appy140's profile:divorced 31 years ago,and have now been married 31 years, 2 young adults (our children) in ther twenties, been thru it all-good times and bad-rich and poor-from nothing to having everything-learning what I tought LOVE was to what it REALLY IS-I have learned that loving someone isn't about yourself, as many believe-it's about the one you love-never marry the one you cannot live without-marry the one you can live with---I reside in MD and have an unrivaled passion for my wife stronger than the day I met her (I thought she was to beautiful to go out with me-but she accepted anyway and she thought I was a foul mouthed ex-sailor)--how? why? why would I even want to?---because she is the part of me that the higher power left for me to find, to help me make myself a better person and a better man!! I love looking at women, all so different,shaply,sexy, some I may look at and think "what a sexy woman" (never thought I want to be single again and to be with "her") but that is far from the norm, I like to admire how hard women work at themselves, in shape (to me men are generically the same rough size and shape), clothes, makeup, etc.. and me, as a typical male, I'm very visual (something most women NEED TO LEARN along with "men need to have sex to cuddle-and a woman needs to cuddle to have sex"--its hard to work out but it does work!) ,she knows that and accepts it becuase she is on the recieving end of that admiration-I just need to be polite about looking--great compromise I think-remember sex is just sex until your married-then you should be able to open up, talk and NEVER NEVER EVER NEVER think "one way" sex is selfish-it's about showing your spouse how much you love making them happy |
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