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I don't want to be a second wife but I love him so much!

Q.   i am 24+ and i really need someone in my life(a fiance),i dont want to be too desperate about it because i dont want to fall into the wrong hands. i dated my boyfriend for four years but i have broken up with him because he doesn't trust me, he is a ...

A.   23 July 2009: Dear,there re a 1001 young,unmarried lovely guys out there.Just b patient,u re stil young.Pray nd u ll find.U don't want a complicated future.Even pple of 30 stil ve time.Tk ur time,go places,meet pple.... (read in full...)

I'm 17 years old---am I too young to get married?

Q.   i am just 17 going on to 18 in a few weeks my boyfriend wants to get married to me, i don't know what to do we have been together for 2and a half year he has been a wonderful man to me in every way but i just need some advice. thank you...

A.   15 July 2009: You are too young.Get a life of your own.Go to school or learn a trade and b established.You don't want to go in nd become handicapped.Ask if u ll b willing to spend the rest of ur life with this guy.Listen to ur parents and introduce him to your ... (read in full...)

Help! my sister was raped and the police don't want to help us!!

Q.   i seriously need some advice here. not even the police are helpful! it all started when my sister saw this ad in a local newspaper. this bar was looking for a waitress. so she called the bar and asked if she could come by and have an interview wit...

A.   15 July 2009: D deed has been done.Go to a civil rights society or better still,d nigerian community in germany nd c wat they can do.Don't use thugs,they wil pose more danger,they re untamed.... (read in full...)

I think my man is a pimp and I'm scared! What can I do?

Q.   please tell me if you think this sounds like something to do with organized crime-okay,so a few years ago I knew this girl who I'm sure was a prostitute-she would go to different men's houses and come back with cash-one day she took me to this man's ...

A.   15 July 2009: This is not good.I think ur mum is being insensitive.Speak to ur teacher or relative u can trust 2 talk 2 her.Go 2 d police.U can't predict a situation if u don't try.Give them these facts nd they ll listen.If they don't,secretly leave for another ... (read in full...)

I'm Pregnant! Do I marry this guy or not??

Q.   I am in the Army and have spent the last 11 months in training and in a holding status. I had been seeing a guy for the last 8 months and broke up with him a week ago. The next day I found out I was pregnant. It was an accident and I was told ...

A.   15 July 2009: Quite dicey.Wateva u decide,ur baby should come first.This is almost like a miracle for u.If u don't feel convinced,then don't marry him cos i don't fancy broken homes esp raisin kids in unhappy homes.If he's ok,then u'll ve 2 get married nd give ur ... (read in full...)

What's with guys and threesomes? Should I be offended?

Q.   My boyfriend and I who are in a some what long and serious relationship have what I atleast think is be great sex. The problem is that when we do have a go at it, he looks at the porn on the screen more than me. Also, he often admitts to me th...

A.   7 July 2009: Yes,u should.If guy loves u then u are as much as "fivesome".He doesn't respect u from all indications.Think girl! ... (read in full...)

I think he can't forgive me for spilling the beans to his family.

Q.   So my ex and I broke up in really bad terms almost 2 months ago. It was a turbulent relationship, and I found out he served me white lies during the 2 years together ( which was a big shock to me and betrayal). I took revenge (not thinking st...

A.   7 July 2009: I guess u have 2 move on.He will do the same things again.I guess u don't want a broken home in future.... (read in full...)

Who to pick? Do I split with my fiance and get with my best friend? Or do I stay with my fiance?

Q.   I have been with my fiance for just over 6 and a half years now, we got engaged a year and a half ago, my whole family love him. we went through a rough patch a few monthes ago where my mum thought i was cheating on him with my best friend, but i ...

A.   26 June 2009: Tk some time out.Stay away from both 4 now.Think clearly b4 u decide.... (read in full...)

I am 19 I have been seeing my boss since I was 17

Q.   i am 19 i have been seeing my boss since i was 17..the first time he kissed me i stopped it and said you have a fiance he said sorry but done it again and it led to something else i told him i love him he said it straight he wont leave his wife but ...

A.   22 June 2009: I think u shud stop.He's using u.... (read in full...)

I hate having sex. I would be happy if I wasn't touched at all!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 3 years and before that were together for 5 years. I hate having sex. Sex to me is painful, a waste of time, and unfulfilling. Basically the only reason I do it lately is to make my husband happy (and we don't ...

A.   19 June 2009: Dear,this ll tear ur marriage.C a doctor nd explain everythin.C a marriage counsellor as wel.Pls do dis as fast as possible if u want 2 save ur marriage.U can search d web 4 experts in d dis type of situation around ur area... (read in full...)

I want to watch my g/f have sex with someone else

Q.   hi,i have this fantasy that excites me wanting to watch my girl fuck someone while i watch!we have talked about it and i think she agrees to my fantasy.but has never happened!she just teases me that i just wait. how do i convince her that we go do ...

A.   19 June 2009: Pls don't do dat.She's not just ur fantasy article.... (read in full...)

Tell her I love her and she should leave him? Or wait 10 years?

Q.   I have an ex who is also my best friend, its been this way for three years now. I have seen her boyfriends come and go, given her advice on which one's were losers and which one's might be good for her-little did she know that all that time, I ...

A.   19 June 2009: Hey,i'm a girl nd was in a similar situation.Tel her now.U won't b able 2 bear 2 c her in pains.If u re ready 2 tk care of her baby,tel her u luv her nd make her happy nd u ll b glad.Pls save her from dis impendin disaster.Dat guy ll ruin her.... (read in full...)

Help with getting an abortion?

Q.   please help me to abort dz baby im not yet ready for this ...

A.   16 June 2009: I don't know if dis is wat u need but al i can say is pls keep d baby.9 months ll soon b over but if u remove d baby,d memories ll hunt u 4 life.Think about it girl.... (read in full...)

Where should the line be drawn?

Q.   Ok I need your opinion and advice. I'll try to make it as short as possible w/painting the entire picture. Originally my boyfriend and I were getting a house w/his best friend and his girlfriend. But she cheated on him and moved out they are ...

A.   6 June 2009: Hey girl stay away from him.He's feelin lonely nd needs some1 4 d moment.Moreover,i actually don't buy d idea of movin in wt ur boyfriend.I'll tel u something,there re issues dat only survive in marriage but won't survive such rships.Get a life of ... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way!

Q.   Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go. Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make...

A.   6 June 2009: Hey i'm a virgin too nd about 20 yrs old nd i intend 2 keep it til my weddin night(i fantasise it a lot).It ain't easy but u can.Avoid al dat physical stuff.I was n a relationship nd i did all dat but u'll b exposed 2 sex sooner or later.U ll find ... (read in full...)

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