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I am often very impressed with the advice and information posted on DC. Many writings are an absolute pleasure to read and contain better information than any book. There are countless regular participants here who are very talented and gifted people.
I am not one of these people.
Most people don’t like me here on Dear Cupid, mainly because I give bad advise that nobody likes to hear. Just look at my rating.
In the past I have received personal messages from people calling me a jerk, a bastard, sexist bigot and so on. These people obviously did not appreciate my honest opinions, they preferred kind hearted bullshit.
If you’re one of these people who doesn’t like what I write, well you’re quite lucky because at least 2 thirds of my answers get blocked by the mods.
If all my answers got past the mods, then my rating would be 0.
However, I write in all honesty, and not in the generic bullshit that you often come across on DC.
So if you’re looking for good, decent, compassionate advice, don’t come crying to me, go see the others.
Griff.
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Why is my g/f so frigid? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My girlfriend (27y) of 9 months and I (26y) have never been intimate, never discussed sex (she gets extremely uncomfortable), never ventured our hands between each others' legs. I always respect her comfort level. I feel unwanted. I feel...
A. 5 May 2011: What should you do?
Dump her ass!
and move on. Do you think this is going to get any better? It won't. Look I've met girls like this before, they only see their world and what suits them. This is only going to get worse, what she is doing is not n... (read in full...)
My fiancee is having a second boob job - I don't know how to feel about this?
Q. In 2008 my fiancee had a boob job, which wasn't my idea but she paid for it herself. She is quite tall and has a great body so although she went up to a DD she did carry it off well. She attracted a lot of attention, and has done glamour modellin...
A. 19 April 2011: "They do look out of place, yes."
"They are big"
"I dont know how to feel about everything"
Mate what the hell is wrong with you?! The sun is shining and YOU have this gem who wants to marry YOU. It just amazes me how ungrateful you'r... (read in full...)
Is she flirting or just playful?
Q. I have become kinda close to a coworker of mine lately. I cant tell if she likes me or just enjoys my personality. She loves to tease me playfully, laughs at all my jokes and things like that. Its hard to distinguish though. She has come out of her ...
A. 18 April 2011: Welcome to the world of women and their impossible to interperate signals... Yeah yeah, thats how women are, and you've already said it yourself "Its hard to distinguish though". I've been trying to understand women for years, no luck yet. Just... (read in full...)
Reason guys visit toilet so often?
Q. Hi all. I have a question. Is there any particular reason why guys would go to the toilet a lot whilst on a date, apart from the obvious reason of course....
A. 14 April 2011: When you gotta go, you gotta go!... (read in full...)
How can I hold myself back from visitng prostitutes?
Q. I again visited a prostitute for sex. But this time I an feeling very guilty. Now I don't want to go there ever again but I am not sure about my emotions. What should I do to avoid going there?...
A. 14 April 2011: Hang on, you already don't want to go there but you are asking how to avoid doing it. I don't understand, if you don't want to, then what's making you? And why do you feel guilty about visiting a prostitute? Did something go wrong? ???... (read in full...)
Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?
Q. Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?...
A. 14 April 2011: WOW! some very honest and clear answers here! I have just read through all the posts below and the information is better than in any book. I am very impressed.
Lady OP, you have just got all the information you could possibly need on the subject,... (read in full...)
I don't see my boyfriend as much and I'm horny all the time!
Q. i dont know whats wrong with me, i dont know if it beacuse i dont do much or work much but im horny all the time. i masturbate about 5 or 6 times a day but straight after feel horny again. i use to see my bf most day and use to have sex about 4-6 ...
A. 14 April 2011: Yep Miamine has got it right, get a job!
Sounds like you have far too much time on your hands...... (read in full...)
Will my strange body movements during an orgasm turn off a guy?
Q. This is kind of an embarrassing question for me. I haven't had sex in my relationships yet, but when I'm on my own (meaning masturbating) I feel that when I orgasm I squirm too much up until when I arch my back becoming stiff, and my lower body ...
A. 9 April 2011: Weird out the guys?! What are you talking about? That is totally awsome! Do you have any idea hot sexy that is???... (read in full...)
I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!
Q. Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective ...
A. 8 April 2011: Nice story, would be cool if it was real. Threesome with a hot cousin and her sexy sister. I'd be in for it but I think you got this from some porn scenario!... (read in full...)
He turned down a handjob, does that mean I'm not good at it?
Q. The other night I was over at my boyfriend's place but since I was on my period we didn't have sex. We still had a good time, went out for coffee and watched a movie. Later in the night I offered to give him a handjob and he said no. His reason was ...
A. 8 April 2011: Little bit off topic here but you've said something quite interesting: "he's a really good guy, never 'asks' for sex"
Is that a positive trait of a mans personality? Just curious that's all.... (read in full...)
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