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I'm 14 and pregnant, help!

Q.   I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...

A.   3 October 2009: Well done! Delighted its going well. Such a massive change in a girls life but has so many rewards. ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant, help!

Q.   I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...

A.   15 September 2009: Congratulations!!! You are going to be one very busy mum! You have a good selection of names there. My daughter is pregnant now also. Big totally life changing event having kids! Good luck :-)... (read in full...)

Could overworking be the reason for our family troubles?

Q.   Does spending too much time with working ,but not enough time with family and wife,can cause family crises? Can it be the reason of my kids drug addiction,and my husband's impotence? He works 12 hours a day,7 days a week. Is this possible that ...

A.   9 August 2009: Basically "yes" is the answer. Work is not good for your health as you get older certainly for guys. Stress can result in all sorts of problems. In any case in your 50's its very common to have difficulty getting and maintaining an erection. ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and unsure which path to take

Q.   I'm 15 years old and I recently just found out I was pregnant. I had all the period symptoms but it just never came so I took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive. It was devastating, I remained calm and tried not to panic. I told my...

A.   29 July 2009: Depending on your family situation and that of your boyfriend one solution would be for either set of parents to help you bring the baby up. A lot depends on the overall financial situation and whether both sets of parents work full time. At least ... (read in full...)

He's been seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant!

Q.   I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. When I started the relationship I knew that he had a girlfriend but he said that he was going to split up with her which he did. I found it in October that he was seeing her again. ...

A.   16 July 2009: Sadly many guys in his position just enjoy the perk of having more than one girl at a time. You ought not to believe a word that they say. Not that they are all like that but most are. Having sex with him unprotected was maybe not too wise a ... (read in full...)

Career change advice please, not sure if I am cut out to teach teenagers!

Q.   Hi there. I'm 29 an facing a dilemma which is not about dating, but thought maybe someone on here could help. I am going through a mid-life crisis (I believe). I am divorced with a 3 year old son, and have only worked part time in last few years (a ...

A.   15 July 2009: Having spent 20 years teaching teenagers by advice would be to do almost anything else! I know the health area is very stressful too but school-teaching in general, and teenagers in particular, is an occupation to avoid at all costs. ... (read in full...)

Is it cruel to move my cat from our old house to my new home, a high rise flate?

Q.   hi im hoping someone can help me with my problem, i know that this is a relationship site but i want to know this one thing. I want to know whether its cruel moving my cat away from my old home to my new home, considering my new home is a high r...

A.   1 July 2009: Totally agree. We have two cats who live inside. Shame not to be able to let them out but it is just too dangerous these days. You can get sprays and plug-in's which will calm your cat down during and after the move. {Feliway - and other brand ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my b/f's father -- would it be wierd for me to date him?

Q.   I am 19 years old, in college, and I've been in a relationship with a boy I met about 4 months ago. Recently (a month ago) I met his single father and he's really attractive to say the least. We had a discussion while my boyfriend was in the shower ...

A.   1 July 2009: In the end it comes down to whether you fancy your boyfriend more than his dad. It's not likely you can keep both! Certainly younger girls and older guys is a good combination as older guys are often more interesting. Good luck!... (read in full...)

Is he going to wait till the baby is born and then run?

Q.   I asked my boyfriend if he could promise he would never dump me and he said "i cant promise that" then said "i have to change my family or he wont stick around" im 8 months pregnant. Is he jus gonna wait til its born and do a runner anyway?...

A.   1 July 2009: Sadly many guys his age will run before or after the baby is born. Make sure that you get support from him if he does a runner. Also in many cases the girl can do better on her own with baby than having to deal with an immature boyfriend on top! ... (read in full...)

We split up and I've become promiscuous, why?

Q.   Hi Me and my ex split up after 5 years. The reason for the split was because he cheated and was physically abusive, at the time of the spilt i was 21 he was 27. It was not an amicable split due to finance and our property, but we finally sold tha...

A.   22 June 2009: Totally agree you want attention and affection. Something I did at one point in my own life. Its easy to forget the hurt with a variety of sex dates. My only comment is try not to confuse sex with love which some girls do. As long as you accept ... (read in full...)

Can symptoms of pregnancy start before you miss a period?

Q.   Last month i had a pregnancy scare, i honestly told myself i was and got used to the idea that i was. Id taken three tests, all of which were negative and a urine sample at the hospital confirmed i wasnt, the day after the hospital my period ...

A.   21 June 2009: Sounds as though you could be pregnant. Worry might delay a period but if you keep having unprotected sex sooner or later you will fall pregnant. I think you would like to be a mum? Wait a few weeks then take another test. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Missed the pill on weds, unprotected sex on fri, could I be pregnant?

Q.   im a bit worried, wonder if anyone can help - if you miss a pill (combined pill) on the wednesday, then have unprotected sex on the friday what are the chances of the pill failing to work?...

A.   13 June 2009: The chances are that you are still protected. It takes some time for the Pill to get out of your system. Especially if you took it on the Thursday and Friday? On the other hand teenage girls can get pregnant very easily. On balance I would not ... (read in full...)

Should my husband and I swap with my sister and her husband?

Q.   hi i am 34 years old married woman and my husband is 36 years old working in multinational. we both like sex too much and we do sex daily morning and night 2-3 times. now we are thinking to have sex with other married couple and both are agree. he ...

A.   9 June 2009: Things could work out very well for you all I think. A lot depends on how close you are to your younger sister? Could you deal with her having sex with your husband? Also how would you feel about having sex with your sister? That is almost ... (read in full...)

Not proud of the way I lost my virginity

Q.   Hi, this is mainly for parents to help me out here, I'm a 16 year old girl, and I was at a concert one night, and me and my friends booked a hotel room for after it and we meet some people, I ended up having sex with one of them and this was my ...

A.   3 June 2009: I assume you told your mum about what happened? Certainly I would be far more understanding to my daughter but then mothers and daughters can be a tricky combination. A lot of conflicting emotions involved. These things happen, people make mis... (read in full...)

Could be pregnant but can't afford a test

Q.   I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a ...

A.   31 May 2009: Hi These things can happen when your drunk! I'm sure you can find enough cash for a pregnancy test even if you have to borrow the money. Alternatively go to a Family Planning Clinic - advice is confidential. See what the result is. Even if you ... (read in full...)

Even though the condom didn't break and the test came out negative, could I be pregnant?

Q.   I had sex for the very first time just over 2 weeks ago. I was 9 days into my cycle. We used an extra safe condom, which we checked after hadnt split and we also tried putting water into it and seeing if any leaked out, which it didnt showing there ...

A.   5 May 2009: Hi the odds are that because you are stressed your period has not started. Especially when you have the other signs. It's unlikely that you are pregnant. Try and relax and your Period is likely to start. Just make sure you use protection when you ... (read in full...)

Is it possible I could get pregnant if only on the pill for four days?

Q.   Hi, I'm really worried, I've just started having unprotected sex with my boyfriend but don't worry, we haven't been stupid and I'm on the pill... but the first time we did I was only on the pill for four days! We looked it up but it said there was ...

A.   21 February 2009: I'm fairly certain that you are only fully protected after two packets. There is a risk of getting pregnant when taking the first packet and especially if you have only taken a few pills. If you miss your next period I would take a home test and ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant, help!

Q.   I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...

A.   20 February 2009: These things happen. You need to get to a family planning clinic who will be totally confidential. Then ask for help. The three month Pill is the obvious way to go. You also need to go on the BC Pill to prevent the same thing happening again. ... (read in full...)

I hate my B-cups and I need to know how to make them bigger!

Q.   ok im 15 and ive been in a B cup since the 5th grade and im a small B i hate the way they look Especially without a push up bra i mean my 10 year old sister is bigger than me {go ahead and laugh cause that is funny} my boyfriend trys to make me ...

A.   12 February 2009: Your boobs are still growing and in any case small boobs are usually more sensitive. Guys like personality as well as boobs in any case! Don't worry just enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)

Dumped! 3 months pregnant!

Q.   Well my life is in total tatters right now. I have 4 children one on the way. 3 children were from a previous relationship. I met my partner 2 years ago we clicked straight away, I was taking the pill but still got pregnant, we kept the baby and ...

A.   12 February 2009: I think the first thing you need to do is to look after yourself and your kids. Sometimes the last one to see what is going to happen is the other partner. Many years ago I was dumped by my then wife and had no idea it was going to happen. Your ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? Or just want to touch me?

Q.   I Seriusly Need Help =(.. Im 14 Years Old And My Bf Is 15 We Have Been Together For 1yr 6months.. I Love Him Loads He Loves Me Too.. But For Me I Feel As If He Is Just With Me For Touchin Me.. Whenever Were On The Phone Talkin He Says Things Like...

A.   7 February 2009: Yes I agree the guy is just using you. As you told him to stop he should not carry on touching. Maybe you don't feel ready to go much beyond kissing?... (read in full...)

Should I give in and have this abortion?

Q.   right here goes im 21 years old im pregnant and facing one of the hardest desicions i think il ever have to make......my partner of 5 years and my 2 year old daughters dad has informed me he doesnt want another chid and wants me to have a aborti...

A.   2 February 2009: Assuming that the pregnancy was an "accident" then your partners negativity towards your having another kid is odd. Of course tne new baby will cost money but generally less than the first baby. Especially if the same sex. You both need to talk ... (read in full...)

Am I freaking myself out, or is pregnancy a possibility?

Q.   Alright, so i was on birth control pills for a year, and towards the end totally lost track and screwed up, i stopped taking them for about a month and a half. my period lasted extremely long, [almost 2 weeks!] and 3 days later my boyfriend and i ...

A.   29 January 2009: Hi it does not sound like you are pregnant more stressed out! Fairly normal for periods to be erratic at your age plus taking the Pill on and off will further screw thingsnup. Buy a home test just to put your mind at ease. You do need to take the ... (read in full...)

Sexually involved with co-worker now he's seeing another co-worker

Q.   Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it ...

A.   28 January 2009: Hi - its very hard to deal with that situation. One reason why work affairs are risky. You are doing the right thing by not letting him see how hurt you really feel. The best advice I can give is to find another boyfriend to take away the ... (read in full...)

First my period is late, then it comes, then it stops, what is the problem?

Q.   i have a question ; in few weeks i thought im pregnant cuz i didn't get my period for 15 days but then now i get my period but it stop it what is that mean that i have a bby in my tummy but its dead or something wrong with me cuz this mornign i have ...

A.   26 January 2009: Stress or worry can make periods erratic especially when you are young and your body is still settling down. Don't worry! If you get a period you are not likely to be pregnant. :-)... (read in full...)

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