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She's had sex before we met, so I feel like cheating on her to make things even!

Q.   I keep getting the urge to cheat to even things up for my girlfriend and I. She had sex before she met me. I know this feeling is wrong. I want to stop having this feeling. I just want to accept that whats in the past happened. What do I do?...

A.   1 August 2010: Sometimes it's hard to get these things out of our heads. I would suggest having as much sex and other affection with her as possible. Remember that you are desirable also and she is no better than you for having more experience - it might be that ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to know??

Q.   OP's own title: Ok so to it keep short...my husband has never really trusted me due to me cheating on him before we got married. We've been married 9yrs now and I have been faithful. Recently he told me that a source of his told him that I have ...

A.   1 August 2010: It's hard to know how someone really will react to cheating, and that's why it's better to avoid it like the plague. It may be that your husband is still deeply affected by what you did a long time ago, and someone is just messing with him about it ... (read in full...)

The ex... can't get over her...

Q.   My ex contacted me last week looking to see me again, then called me a few times afterwards, thats tues past and ive texed her a couple of times and she hasnt replied and i havent heard from her again. She told me about 2 weeks ago never to contact ...

A.   1 August 2010: Just one point I wanted to make: Your friends are being really unhelpful by focusing on your ex's looks. Of course she's good looking - you were attracted to her, weren't you? Tell your friends to drop the subject. If they are purposely trying ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

Q.   I've got a great boyfriend thats there for me all the time and i can talk to him about any thing. I've even told him that i still stay in contact with my ex what he's fine with that as he knows nothing will happen. My ex on the other hand dont know ...

A.   1 August 2010: You demonstrate that you are a good person by caring about your ex's feelings. You seem to respect him, too. That's a formula that increases your chances for a good post-relationship friendship. Go ahead and tell him about the new guy. Then, ... (read in full...)

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