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Do you believe in spanking your child?

Q.   Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...

A.   19 June 2011: In short: Yes, spankings should always be an option. In more detail: There are different levels of discipline, and different methods of positive reinforcement as well as negative reinforcement of behaviors and boundaries. Every child i... (read in full...)

I'm tired of having no bust. Can implants save this situation?

Q.   I really hate my small breasts! I don't know if I should get implants, because men hate implants (supposedly) and because they're risky. But I really can't stand my small breasts anymore. I've been with few guys, but all of them, including my ...

A.   19 June 2011: God makes no mistakes, and you are beautiful just the way you are. You need a man who appreciates you as a person, not just because of outward appearances. Physical attraction only goes so far and doesn't last long. No matter how hot a girl c... (read in full...)

Is he not contacting me because I said something wrong?

Q.   i've met a guy a couple of weeks ago, and we went out... it was nice, so we decided to keep in touch (he lives in another city), talking via skype whenever we could. Our schedules don't match, but we managed to speak at least 5 times a week... ...

A.   19 June 2011: Maybe be a little more straight forward and show more interest if you are interested. His "goal... being with you" statement was a reaching out attempt to see if you felt the same way back. You may have actually hurt his feelings by sayi... (read in full...)

Affair with married man....things are getting harder... I need advice!

Q.   Ok- i need some advice. I have been dating a married man for about 9 months now. everything has been so much fun, we talk every day and have a great time together- and yes, we fight... more so lately. Let me start off by saying that his wife ...

A.   18 June 2011: He knows he's bad for you, and he's even said so to you. He's just stringing you along and using you for sex and wants to have someone else want him. He's cheating on his wife, his family, lying, sneaking around, and wasting your time, your lov... (read in full...)

Do I ask? Or pretend I never saw it.

Q.   I recently (not serching for) found a list of my girlfriends of sexual partners and realize im number 48. I myself am not a saint and have had 29 partners and understand the past is the past but it is eating at me we have been together for allmost ...

A.   18 June 2011: I decided to register at dearcupid.org ... I don't think there is a reason to ask because: It sounds like you both have had plenty of lovers! If you've had 29 lovers, you've averaged 3-4 a year. Her 48 is about 4-5 lovers a year if she's ab... (read in full...)

Single mom, am I being too picky?

Q.   I have a real issue with myself. I'm a 25 year old single parent of 1 child. I've recently split from a married guy and finnaly feel ready to move on and meet somebody new. I want to settle down, marry and have more children but I'm finding that guy...

A.   18 June 2011: You're not too picky. You just know what you don't want in a man, so don't settle for those kind of men. Of course they run, because they are not ready for a serious relationship, not ready for any future commitments, and nowhere near ready for a ... (read in full...)

I know what I should do, but I can't. I feel like a free prostitute. Help!

Q.   I am seeing my x boyfriend from 15yrs ago. He is married now with 2kids. We talk every day and he knows I'm totally in love with him. So we meet a couple of times a week and we mess around only but he refuses to kiss me or spend more than an hour ...

A.   18 June 2011: Yes, this is very sad. You are pining for him and hoping he will one day leave his family for you. Unfortunately, he doesn't really love you. He doesn't even kiss you ever? That is a sure sign. Only spends an hour with you... I'm sorry to say ... (read in full...)

Why did you cheat on your wife?

Q.   To all of you married men out there that have strayed - why did you do it? I had a brief sexual affair with a married coworker - a 2 night stand if you will - and am curious what it was that made him go there. I did not initiate it but I went al...

A.   18 June 2011: I believe MOSTLY that: Men cheat for more sex, more exciting sex, and/or a fanciful younger hotter woman. Women cheat for more romance, more exciting romance and attention, and/or a fanciful younger hot stud of a man. There are exceptions but ... (read in full...)

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