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Man who is 35. I live in Bolton,uk. I come from Jamaica 7 years ago. Just like to help solve problem,an try to get things right.

My girl has history, her ex is going to jail, she has three kids, but I love her, yet she is just wants to be friends now, should I persist?

Q.   I started dating this girl i worked with at work at the begining of october.We both really liked each other and moved very fast into a relationship.She has a lot of excess baggage like three kids one that lives with her.An exboyfreind that ...

A.   5 December 2007: Sometimes you just have to accept that she doesnt love you as much as you love her and you truly cant make someone love you.... (read in full...)

An issue I thought we had solved resurrected and we became very violent towards each other. Am I mad to still love him?

Q.   me and my guy have been together for 4yrs we have a son aged 3 and kids from previous relationships,the last year aint been so good between us a lot of arguments and ive been the one whom has done all the running to patch things up due to the fact ...

A.   18 November 2007: Ms anon, You are a very bad match. Time you and he call it quits. Please dont threaten man with scissors,this will make you equal in your wrongs.I hope you both find inner peace elsewhere.... (read in full...)

I feel totally rejected - couldn't we have discussed it?

Q.   Was dating a guy and we got on famously, walks, meals, fun nights out together and we really clicked. We fancied each other quite a lot and then after a few weeks made arrangements to sleep together. Anyway I've always found that when I sleep wi...

A.   30 October 2007: He sweet talked you. He just wanted sex,and he is not a good man.Forget him.... (read in full...)

Does he know his own mind?

Q.   My boyfriend left me then wanted to change his mind and come back. The question is how can you change your mind, surely thats fixed, and only another person can change it. I say he doesn't know is own mind. Who is right. Thanx...

A.   30 October 2007: He is very confused and it could be his personality.Wants it,gets it,doesnt want it.... (read in full...)

Can we have sex without a condom when I'm on the pill?

Q.   hiya im in a serious relationship with my boyfriend and we have been havin sex for almost 2 years. what i would like to know is, can we have sex without a condom when im on the pill? ive been on the pill for 2 years and me an my boyfriend really w...

A.   12 September 2007: Yes you can have sex without condom. I would still be safe than sorry and stay with using condom because it decreases risk of infection.... (read in full...)

My guy accuses me of having a friend with benefits, but I don't!

Q.   i am engaged to a wonderful guy,and have been for a number of years,but lately things aint been to good,he constantly accuses me of having a friend with benefits,which is untrue and he is constantly suspicious of whatever i do,yet he`s made it quite ...

A.   12 September 2007: Why would man accuse you of this without foundation? Why not prove the man wrong,because he must have one man in mind. I dont see any reason why he would say it. If he wanted out then he will walk,not stay and carry on so. He must be very tormented ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of tricking him into fatherhood!

Q.   I have been seeing a man for nearly 1 year, I do not have romantic feelings for him and neither does he for me, he is special to me and I class him as a friend more than anything, we purely have each other for sexual satisfaction. I am however ...

A.   2 September 2007: you shouldnt trick anybody.Wait for the right man.... (read in full...)

What is the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?

Q.   today my partner introduced me as his girlfriend,yet we are engaged and have a 4 year history behind us,what would you say was the diffrence between a girlfriend and a fiance?...

A.   28 August 2007: He's still around so don't get too upset about it. It maybe that you are picking out problem because you have become bored.... (read in full...)

I'm happy in my relationship and a guy at uni is interested. Whats the best way to let him down gently?

Q.   Hi! I'm happily together with a very nice young man for nearly 3 years and I love him very much. At the moment he is working at the other end of town and I'm learning for exams at university, so we don't see eachother everyday. Last week I was lear...

A.   28 August 2007: just say you are involved with someone and you are a genuine kind,who stays with only one man.... (read in full...)

Should I take the initiative and call, or should I wait for him to call?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for just a little over three years. Since the beginning of this year we have been getting into little spats and arguments, mainly about his behavior towards me. I try and talk to him about why he says hurtful ...

A.   28 August 2007: I would call,but you need to know where you stand with him. It sounds funny that he wants time away. it must be questioned.... (read in full...)

I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!

Q.   I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...

A.   28 August 2007: You have to have a little more confidence in yourself. Do you trust your friend? If he likes her better,then he was no good for you from the start.... (read in full...)

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