New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244979 questions, 1084376 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*1llybabes

United Kingdom  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *1llybabes to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *1llybabes a private message

*1llybabes's Ratings
Excellent0%
Average100%
Poor0%

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   1 February 2012: ooo I forgot to say that the give me a chance were my words, we will see were his. I think he is protecting himself. I hope that the speed of this only being two days later does constitute just a fight and that his words were of anger and exas... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   1 February 2012: An update- after our talk i didnt expect tot hear from him for a while. I thought as you said he was just clearing himself and making sure I was ok. we were talking about a song I had to choose as Im a singer and I said that was what I was up to w... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   31 January 2012: i apologized becuase the reason for the break up is because i hurt him. I did everything wrong. He gave me many chances to sort myself out and I pushed him too far so far he ended it and wanted nothing to do with me. He ended because of how I acted. ... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   31 January 2012: ok so he has just called me. We chatted about stuff going on and i mentioned about loosing him and he said i havent gone anywhere. we continued talking and the subject of the weekend came up. I explained how I would never be the same again, apol... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   30 January 2012: He just replied saying things will work out for the best :-) I replied saying I know they will. After Friday loosing people has made me see the world in a different light. I hope things will work out for the best including us. Do you fancy a quick ... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   30 January 2012: I hope not. I was just looking at the speed of his contact. As after all it was only last night he was telling me he didn't want anything to do with me. But today its him initiating contact. ... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   30 January 2012: He was waiting for his dads house sale to go through and I was going to move to him. We are only about 1 hrs drive from each other anyway so it's not that far. Do you think he would really text so soon if it is just friends? ... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   30 January 2012: If its over and done why is he texting me. He could of just cut off all ties. I am hoping he may have cooled down from the anger and may be seeing things differently. I am being positive. I just replied saying day is good thanks for texting and ... (read in full...)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

Q.   So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

A.   30 January 2012: But I don't want to get over him. I want him back ... (read in full...)

LDR b/f says he needs space. Does he mean stop talking about our relationship?

Q.   Hi all, I hope you can help, my LD( about 2 hrs drive) bf and I have had a roller coaster relationship since we met- lots to do with my past, my dad being diagnosed with cancer, my insecurites, my constant over analysing of our relation...

A.   7 December 2011: Thank you so much for your answers. Ciar- the analogy you used was amazing. Thank you for helping me see this in a different way. We talked last night and it was amazing- like we used to- about politcs and general things we were laughing lots too.... (read in full...)

Should I have said something or should I have let it be?

Q.   Hi Just would like an opinion on weather i over reacted or not to this, my boyfriend and i always say goodnite every nite. well tonite he was rather early and i just commented to him your early tonite it's not even dark yet then i said nite to him.w...

A.   29 September 2011: I think the last answer has just answered my problem. OMG what a fool I have been. I talk to my LD boyfriend every day and we talked last night about talking too much and that he has to pause everything to talk to me. I never thought in a million ... (read in full...)

Is there anything we can do to improve our sex life? I don't know why I'm not interested in sex!

Q.   My husband and I have been married less than a year. The problem is that I have very little sex drive. I have never been interested in having sex with him, aside from when we first started sleeping together (and even that was short lived). He was ...

A.   27 July 2011: Hi, I really can only answer from my own story really. I am not saying that this is right or wrong as everyone is different. But I myself was in a very similar situation, wonderful loving husband, great home, been together since school etc etc all ... (read in full...)

I hate not being able to sort this out right now! How should I play this?

Q.   How can I say sorry more than I already have? Ok lets cut a long story short: - -Been seeing this guys since March he lives about 2hrs from me and I am so in love with him its untrue -I still live with my ex as neither of us have anywhere else to...

A.   25 July 2011: He was doing this to hurt me. Says as we are not together anymore they are his blood niece and nephew not mine. So why should I be able to see them ... (read in full...)

Why do guys have sex on the first date and then think the woman is a slut?

Q.   I met this guy about a month ago, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, ...

A.   15 July 2011: I really think the sex on the first date thing really depends on your situation. Mine was quite different, we met on the internet, chatted for months on line then cell phone, web cam etc then every day then twice a day until we met. So we felt ready ... (read in full...)

Am I smothering him too much with my words of love?

Q.   Ok, so I know this is a little long and I suppose Im looking for opinions rather than answers. My boyfriend and I met on the internet and have fallen in love very quickly, however he is a very busy man, works many hours, evening and weekends etc. He ...

A.   5 July 2011: The answers you guys have given have helped me no end. Thank you soooo much. ... (read in full...)

Am I smothering him too much with my words of love?

Q.   Ok, so I know this is a little long and I suppose Im looking for opinions rather than answers. My boyfriend and I met on the internet and have fallen in love very quickly, however he is a very busy man, works many hours, evening and weekends etc. He ...

A.   24 June 2011: Thanks for your answers. I know I am rushing things and need to calm down. Yesterday we spoke briefly in our lunch break and then i didnt text at all. And at 7.30pm he text me with something random. We also spoke at 9pm and I finished the ... (read in full...)

*1llybabes's friends

These are mutual friends, so *1llybabes has added them and they have added *1llybabes!

Scarlett Love agony auntScarlett Love

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.124990000000253!