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Can a man go from not wanting a relationship to wanting one?

Q.   was dateing a man for a few months . I told him I wanted a relationship an he then told me he didn't want one . I broke it off with him . but he still tried to keep in contact with me . so now almost two years later . he contact me we talk . he then ...

A.   28 January 2017: I find his behavior stupid an I feel like he wants to use me . he wants to see me again . but I think he lying . I just wants to make sure I thought this out good .so when I tell him I got my mind thinking right . an I know his bs will come out . I ... (read in full...)

Can a man go from not wanting a relationship to wanting one?

Q.   was dateing a man for a few months . I told him I wanted a relationship an he then told me he didn't want one . I broke it off with him . but he still tried to keep in contact with me . so now almost two years later . he contact me we talk . he then ...

A.   28 January 2017: I agree he didn't want me to forget him . but how do I know he mean what he says . he said he was hurt in pass an that's why he never told me he love me . an he said I always call him a boy toy which I was kidding with him .... (read in full...)

Is he messing with me or not?

Q.   well it seems i got a small problem . this guy i had been talking to has decided to contact me again . he decided that he an his son didn't want him to date anyone so i ask him what did he want to do an he said i guess say good bye , his wife died ...

A.   2 July 2012: already did this i block him from ever contact me . an i have move away from this the very next day . thanks for all the help an advice .... (read in full...)

I'm tired of choosing the wrong men!

Q.   meet this man on a dateing site we hit it off good had 3 date ,then he im me to say his sons did not want him to date an so he ended it . but i ask him at first was he ready to moved on an he said yes an also said his sons wanted him to find someone ...

A.   30 May 2012: ok got you now ! thanks so much an i thought i had done that . but i guess not he moved on thanks so very much ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of choosing the wrong men!

Q.   meet this man on a dateing site we hit it off good had 3 date ,then he im me to say his sons did not want him to date an so he ended it . but i ask him at first was he ready to moved on an he said yes an also said his sons wanted him to find someone ...

A.   30 May 2012: sageoldguy , not sure i am understand what your say . are you say if i am trying to own him .please explain this ! thanks for the help i need all i can get !... (read in full...)

Is he for real or just messing with me?

Q.   I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

A.   2 May 2012: update on this guy well i said i would like to meet him for dinner .an when i ask him this i have not heard from him at all .seem i was right after all he wanted sex from me an thats all . so i just email him back an just said that what i thought ... (read in full...)

Is he for real or just messing with me?

Q.   I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

A.   29 April 2012: thank you all for your advice an your point of view has help me alot .... (read in full...)

Is he for real or just messing with me?

Q.   I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

A.   29 April 2012: we talk serval years an he never ask me out only would send me thing like i said . i took him as not serious about dateing me cause he just never put himself out there for me to ask him 2 .until we decided to meet an then we slept toget her . now ... (read in full...)

Is he for real or just messing with me?

Q.   I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

A.   29 April 2012: well you are right about this but what i am asking is why now after all thses years ask me to go to the mountain with him an i said only as friends an he said he would get 2 rooms . so can i trust him or not ? cause it seems like he never email me ... (read in full...)

I gave a man my number and he never called...how do I avoid him now?

Q.   the man that i was intrested in .i gave him my number but have not heard anything from him it has been about 3 weeks now . which i figured that he would do this . i miss church sunday and my friends said that he came without his mother in law an sat ...

A.   28 April 2011: he is a widowder of 20 years ... (read in full...)

I think he was shocked that I asked him out!

Q.   meet this man that i really like an gave him my number . i thought we was both inestrest in one another .but when i gave him my number an i said to him would you like to go out an eat sometimes . his answer was i do not live here . which i knew this ...

A.   7 April 2011: he has not call so i am going to moved on. i think that i have waited long enough for him an a week is my time limit on this . but i think that he knew what was going on an was playing games with me to get his ego a boost . anyway thanks for the ... (read in full...)

Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt

Q.   i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...

A.   9 February 2011: Thank you for your advice. I think we all were right about him. No, I am not going to ask him out. I know he knew what he was doing when he was flirting with me. So I am now going to move on and avoid him when I am in church. I hope he gets the ... (read in full...)

Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt

Q.   i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...

A.   9 February 2011: thank you for your advice an i do agree with you .he is a big flirt an i think a christain man should not flirt with a woman if he is not will to get into a relationship . i thought he was really intersted in me but the more i keep thinking about it ... (read in full...)

Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt

Q.   i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...

A.   8 February 2011: Thank you for your advice. Yes, I do think he is just a big flirt and a big tease. We have known each other for a year now and we have flirted with each other. At first I though that maybe he was inestrest in me, but the more he does this and it not ... (read in full...)

Are confident men ever scared to ask a woman out?

Q.   are confident men scared to ask a women they are attractive to out .? meet a man an he has flirted with me now for about 4 month now . let me say we only see each other for a short time each time he get a little more comfortable with me but he h...

A.   2 February 2011: no he is not married .but i do not know about a girlfriend . we both lived in different town .he lives about an hour from me .could there be any signs that he would give off if he had a girlfriend ? ... (read in full...)

Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.

Q.   i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...

A.   17 January 2011: thank you for your advice . have one question for DATELUKE you said he was a flirt an i know he has been trying to get my attention . he knows he has my attention i have show it to him an i think he got it . but i wonder if he i just doing this to b... (read in full...)

Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.

Q.   i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...

A.   14 January 2011: had to add . they said that he look like a cofident man but look like he like the attention of many women . just to make this clear ... (read in full...)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

Q.   I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

A.   2 November 2010: thank you so much for helping me out .i will try this an see what happen .you have help me alot an thanks for theken the time to help me .thank you ... (read in full...)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

Q.   I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

A.   2 November 2010: sorry that you feel that way i was just trying to figured out what happen yesterday as in sunday .he just seem so distance to me not like he is on other sunday thank you for your advice an if i ever get to talk to him maybe i will find out what ... (read in full...)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

Q.   I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

A.   1 November 2010: forgot , i do not know if he is dateing .he lives in one town an i live in another which takes about an hour to get here . but i do thank you for your help an it has help me alot .just want to make the right decision .an your so kind for thak... (read in full...)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

Q.   I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

A.   1 November 2010: thank you so much for the advice . i am willing to try as you said but do you think he is really intrested in me or playing games ? i think maybe since is ex motherin law is with him he does not or will not make a move to ask me out . that why i was ... (read in full...)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

Q.   I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

A.   31 October 2010: thank you for helping me with my confuse problem .but i feel like i have let him know that i am intrested in him by going up to him last sunday . i try to talk to him but we have so little time to say anything to one another . .but i feel that he ... (read in full...)

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