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I'm 29 years old and in a relationship of 1.5 years. Happy but has it's issues, previously was engaged but split after 7 years. I have a practical and realistic attitude and don't cater to political correctness.

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Our sex drives have gone down the drain!

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8months now and we have a strong relationship. when we first met our sex relationship was great... but now it seems boring we have tried to spice it up a little by having sex in other places as well ...

A.   13 February 2010: Not much you can do. Unfortunately biology makes things exciting at the start and then that excitement vanishes. To get it back you would have to be with someone new. It us called the honeymoon period and happens to all relationships. ... (read in full...)

Does he want to gangbang?

Q.   Question: My boyfriend doesnt know but i know he watches porn which is fine cuz i do it but most of the time i notice on the history on the computer he watches a lot of gangbang pornos and its mostly like 5 black guys and one white girl. does this ...

A.   13 February 2010: I dont think it means that. It is probably seeing a woman degraded and treated like a piece of meat that he gets off on. Porn addiction requires more and more extreme porn to get the same thrill. Talk to him about it.... (read in full...)

How do I inform my daughter that I can hear her masturbating in her room?

Q.   My 34 year old daughter's room is above mine. I've been hearing her masturbating. It wakes me up and I'm amazed she doesn't know it. How do I tell her to pick another time when I am not at home. She's been wondering why I have been sleeping on ...

A.   13 February 2010: Tell her the truth. Problem solved.... (read in full...)

Valentine's day plans gone wrong...

Q.   hi, I've been planning valentines day for a little while now, but its falling to bits, i did have a restaurant booked for valentines day with a set menu for 48 pounds per person, in the last week the restaurant have asked for an extra 40 ontop t...

A.   13 February 2010: Get rid, women like this are nothing more than indirect prostitutes. She should be grateful at all the effort you're making. How about she dips into her own purse to make valentines day ad special as her and her wierd mother want. Ps; Is the moth... (read in full...)

The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!

Q.   I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't t...

A.   12 February 2010: Grimms advice reads quite true. I almost messed my relationship up and it's only still alive due to her high tolerance. Best to ask no morecquestions and in time thongs will be easier for you to deal with.... (read in full...)

My dog eats my undies!

Q.   I know that when you're first going through puberty that you discharge frequently; but I'm 18 and still do. I know this sounds gross and believe me...ticks me off, my dog will chew through the crotches of ALL my underwear. 1. is it normal to con...

A.   12 February 2010: Don't do the salt thing, dogs livers cannot handle it and you will make the dog ill. My dog takes my girlfriends pants under the bed for a chew, they like the smell. Once after sex I wiped on a sock and chucked it on the floor and he was rolli... (read in full...)

How do I relax & just let him please me?

Q.   hey, am dating this guy..hes really sweet, Amazing, good looking.. and i love make love with him.. he loves pleasing me..always asking what i like etc: hes soo great:) ok the thing he says he wants to go down me..but i feel nervous cos no gu...

A.   11 February 2010: You're not abnormal. My wench is not keen on it either. Give it a shot and see how it goes. Dim the lights so you don't feel so on display, and make sure you're clean!!... (read in full...)

A precaution for dating sites... don't fall for scammers!

Q.   I just want to bring up a serious issue happening on dating sites like Match.com, yahoo personals, OKcupid.com. I have my profile on some of these popular dating sites that I mention and from my experience some of the people on there are scammers. I ...

A.   11 February 2010: Some guy in the uk got caught by the same scam, huge amounts of debt and ended up killing himself, Can't believe people fall for this, use your brains people!... (read in full...)

What are his intentions with these mind games?

Q.   Hi Guys. My long-distance boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Friday night. It was an amicable break-up, and one I kind of agreed with. I took it well, agreed we needed to go our separate ways and didn't make a fuss as I would do in the...

A.   10 February 2010: I meant dating someone local would be easier financially. If you can't afford to see each other it could never work. Just because you're no longer together does not mean his feelings aren't there, it takes time for these to go. Stay in touch... (read in full...)

Am I just being paranoid that he will use me for sex due to the way I have been treated in the past?

Q.   ive been getting to know this guy.. he calls me a lot.. and he actually does call me when he says he will:) the thing is he keeps asking me if i like him..i like talking to him.,,hes good looking, sweet..he seems like a gentleman.. b...

A.   9 February 2010: The proof is in the pudding, as youvsyggest it could all be words to get in your pants. I know I've played the nice guy card for that purpose. I would advise you to give it a few months with no sex, if he is still around after that it indicate... (read in full...)

What are his intentions with these mind games?

Q.   Hi Guys. My long-distance boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Friday night. It was an amicable break-up, and one I kind of agreed with. I took it well, agreed we needed to go our separate ways and didn't make a fuss as I would do in the...

A.   9 February 2010: He is possibly testing you to see if you still care, or he cannot let go. Long distance relationships are incredibly hard and not worth the effort. For ease I would cut all contact and date locally. Finances don't matter, a night in with a curry ... (read in full...)

My life is everything I swore it would not be. I want out!

Q.   Hi I need help!!!!!! I'm 23 married and have a 2 year old son but believe it or not I want to get away. From a young age there were three things I'd always said I'd never do/be 1 live in a village 2 play the little housewife 3 have kids ...

A.   9 February 2010: Hmm, not sure I would take that advice fron Asian lady. You're still young, however, it is never too late to pusue what you want. List your aims and look at how you can achieve them. Lots of women in your situation gave gone on to fulfil their ... (read in full...)

What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?

Q.   Hi so I'm wondering... I'm a nice looking girl so I've been told. I've been in a long relationship now and still happy but curious so a question for the guys. What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with? ...

A.   8 February 2010: Most of the cliches apply: intelligent confident attractive fun to be with non slutty past (no one wants the village bike) faithful well, perhaps those are just mine. Hope that helps ... (read in full...)

It's Friday night and here I am, alone again!

Q.   It's friday night and I'm alone. I was at a friend's b-day earlier tonight. It seems like every night I'm alone. I like being to myself but this is getting ridiculous. When I was out at the restaurant I saw many cute girls out with guys. One of ...

A.   6 February 2010: I think fear of rejection is stopping you from pursuing what you want. Bite the bullet and go for it. You will be happier and better off for the experience.... (read in full...)

I am worried about hair in the nether regions

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17 year old female who is suffering from hair on my butt, not my cheeks, it's inside of my cheeks around my hole. ( I apologize for graphis terms). I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and we haven't really gotten to the sexual area ...

A.   6 February 2010: I think its natural, but if it makes you uncomfortable then see your gp before doing anything!... (read in full...)

It's Friday night and here I am, alone again!

Q.   It's friday night and I'm alone. I was at a friend's b-day earlier tonight. It seems like every night I'm alone. I like being to myself but this is getting ridiculous. When I was out at the restaurant I saw many cute girls out with guys. One of ...

A.   6 February 2010: Easy. Join some clubs/activities and make effort to interact with people. Online dating to quickly meet girls. Things won't always come to you, you have to make them happen.... (read in full...)

How do I handle my online dating friend?

Q.   I have recently joined a dating website and have started emailing a guy that seems like a great prospect. I was the one who first send a short "ice breaker" message to him and he responded very positively. We have since been emailing very lo...

A.   2 February 2010: Just ring him to get the ball rolling. He probably doesn't want to come on too strong.... (read in full...)

She has told me what she did with her ex and I think it makes her look easy

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i love her but she dated my friend a little before me and her but that's ok I know about that all along that's not a big deal. What I just found out is that thay started dating the last week of ...

A.   16 January 2010: I think niave is perhaps a more accurate description. Many women put out as a way of trying to establish a relationship. It's not ideal, but if you want to be with her you have to accept it.... (read in full...)

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

Q.   She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with...

A.   16 January 2010: You just have to learn to deal with these feelings. I find myself ina similar boat. You have to avcept that what she did is neither right or wrong but ultimately irrelevant to your relationship. Ps you won't find it easy, but girls have pasts to... (read in full...)

Does penis enlargement work?

Q.   hi iam 24years old and still a virgin.the reason being my penis is only 2 inches when erect.consequently women laugh and run a mile.can some one tell me if penis enlargement works....

A.   14 January 2010: I don't think it works well, I.e you won't end up with a perfectly functional larger penis. I think your self esteem us based in your penis. Women are harsh, you need to build a decent relationship with someone understanding who will take you as you ... (read in full...)

Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level

Q.   I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...

A.   14 January 2010: I suggest you give it a go, just don't expect to be with her forever.... (read in full...)

Does she want another man? Does she want full anal sex, not only finger-play? Will she tell me if she does?

Q.   I have asked for advice before and you all thought I was watching too many pornos. I still have a lingering question, which you all have helped me with, but I have some more on that subject plus some others that have come up. First off, my ...

A.   4 January 2010: The only person who can answer your questions is your wife. Ask her.... (read in full...)

Can anyone make me feel better about this? I think porn has changed the way people perceive women.

Q.   Hi. I had a boyfriend a few years back and we'd both never done anything with anyone. when i trusted him, i took my clothes of for the first time in front of him and the first thing he said was "Urgh, youre not like the girls off porn" I was very ...

A.   24 December 2009: The women in porn are generally more sexually attractive than your average 'real' woman. Much like an Olympian is fitter than the average office worker. Don't be upset at this, porn can just create an unrealistic expectation of the human body.... (read in full...)

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