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I've been married for 15 years and have 2 children who live with me. I have a living christian faith and this has helped me through a lot of lifes 'hits' when I thought I'd never get through. I'm currently at the University of Wolverhampton, doing my diploma in mental health nusing, this is fulfilling a second of my lifetime ambitions. I love life and would like to help people get through things when they feel there is no-one around. I love music, animals and feel I have recieved my masters from the school of life and this education I would like to pass on to others. My friends do stow the priviledge of turning to me in crisis as they know I'll do my very best, without being judgemental or prejudice in any shape or form for them; with absolute discression. Please feel free to E me and I will do my very best for you. I guarantee you, honesty and if I don't know the answers, I will try to find them out for you. Can't guarantee to have all the answers that work, but without getting too into my private experiences, I'm sure I have enough experience to show people there is light at the end of the tunnel.

She's pregnant and I don't love her! Please help!

Q.   im 24 and much younger than the woman who i have been having descreet encounters with. the lady is a friend of me and my family. after 10 weeks of nothing happening between ourselves by my choice, she has today told me that she is pregnant and going ...

A.   6 November 2006: Oh my blossom. You have to really start asking some questions here. If you were using protection -how likely is this pregnancy likely to have happend? Because you do not state the form used, does this mean that you left the responsibility to the ... (read in full...)

We broke up after 5 years! Now I'm finding things out about him that make me feel cheap and used!

Q.   I have recently split up from my partner of 5 1/2 years. I feel that it was going to happen at some point, but it was a great shock when it actually did happen. I was absolutly devestated. I think mainly because he instigated the break up. We hav...

A.   5 November 2006: Hello my flower, ohh what a mess! I know your situation quite well, you see, I am your sis-in-law's to be best friend. I can assure you my flower, she is deeply devoted to your brother, and sparkles everytime she speaks of him or to him. She ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity and found out sex with my bf doesn't do it for me. Is this normal?

Q.   I lost my virginity, to my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, we've had sex twice since then. He enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me, is this normal? ...

A.   30 October 2006: Perfectly so flower. We see these perfect images of the first time through film and television. What they don't show though is the anxiety, the fumble, the pain of the experience or the emotion of it all. You are new and fresh to the experience ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated because I had an abortion, now I am pregnant again.

Q.   I am a 21yr old female whose been in a relationship for 3yrs this past August.I am currently pregnant with twins for my boyfriend.At the ending of the 1st yr we meet i went and got an abortion dispite what my boyfriend wanted (he wanted me to keep ...

A.   30 October 2006: Hello Flower. What a pickle! It seems to me that you have both got into an infidelity cycle. It needs breaking NOW. You can overcome this hurt, if you get the right support from your partner. You need to talk and find out if he is truly ... (read in full...)

He would rather end the relationship than talk to me about whats really wrong!!!

Q.   I have been with my fiance for nearly 2 years now and we moved in together 2 months ago. Most parts of our relationship are great but we have little fall outs that turn into big arguements because he would rather say its over than talk to me about ...

A.   26 October 2006: Sweetheart, 2 years, it's a longtime isn't it. But you know, it's not as long as 3. The longer a relationship is, the harder it is to break-up. It seems your fellas behavior is indicative of deep troubles/secrets he doesn't want to tell you or ... (read in full...)

When should I phone her and what should I say???

Q.   if i get this girl's number when can i call her? we both go school. i'm 16 and she is 14. i suppose when i get the number it's only generally askin just in case i need it! but i doubt she will be expecting me to call or will she? what can i say when ...

A.   26 October 2006: Watchya Pet, When this girl gives you her phone number, why not ask her if you could give her a call sometime? and add the tag on line of maybe we could arrange to go out sometime. This would give you some sort of sign if she is interested in you o... (read in full...)

Who should have the last say on this abortion?

Q.   Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be ...

A.   26 October 2006: Oh Sweetheart, what a terrible position to be in. Your answers lie before you, and they are moral, yes, and emotional. A lot of talking and a lot of strength is needed to be able to face this predicament. Your recent replies, as I read them, ar... (read in full...)

18 and craving for a baby... how can I stop feeling broody?

Q.   Ok help. I'm 18, been in a very solid relationship for 2 years and everythings great. We're moving in together soon and everything. But I'm craving for a baby. I know I'm young and not exactly financially stable and all, but I really want a baby. I ...

A.   26 October 2006: Hello Pet. First of all, rid yourself of any ideas that you are being stupid. You have feelings and they are real to you and making you un-happy. I'm glad to see that you are not silly enough to sabotage contraception, and you also recognise you ... (read in full...)

Was asked to be best man but his wife-to-be has banned me from the wedding!

Q.   Quick question. Should I be angry when my best friend is getting married and tells me that I am the best man. Well, the reason for my anger is he called me today and said that his fiance says she doesn't want me to be in or at the wedding. I have ...

A.   26 October 2006: Hello pet, well, here's a pickle. This isn't very fair and your friend must feel like pig-in-the-middle. He obviously loves his fiancee, however, he must also be feeling rotten in not being able to have his best friend as his best man. This could ... (read in full...)

I left him and now I regret what happened...but he won't have me back! What can I do?

Q.   I have a problem that I hope some of you can help with. I have been seeing a guy for over a year and a half now. We went through alot together, job changes, travelling, graduations etc, and loved each other dearly. About 5 weeks ago, I told him that ...

A.   22 October 2006: Hello Sweetheart, you are obviously devastated by breaking-up with this guy and I feel the regret in your words. This guy though has been expecting this for sometime now feeling it has become innevitable. I am sorry to say that I think he has moved ... (read in full...)

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