Do I stay with him and be miserable - or what?
Q. I have been in a relationship on and off for 3 years, I am now finding myself less attracted to my boyfriend. He has put on lots of weight and I am finding it hard to get the same feelings I did for him. Don't get me wrong, I still love him, but I ...
A. 2 October 2008: I would never recommend staying with someone if it's going to make you miserable. It's not fair on you and, most of all, it's not fair on him.
If you really want to stay with this guy you need things to change; you need to encourage him to becom... (read in full...)
I feel so shallow for feeling this way, my boyfriend's such a great guy, and my best friend, but I just can't get over his bad hair, and skinny body!
Q. Please help! My boyfriend and I have been together for the last three years, and we were very much in love. However, recently I feel like my eyes have been opened up, and suddenly I'm not attracted to him like I once was. I still believe that my ...
A. 2 October 2008: I think you need to look at why it is you suddenly feel this way and why it didn't bother you before.
It's never easy to deal with if you start feeling less attracted to someone you have been with for so long. It can often lead us to question... (read in full...)
My old flame and I talked about our mutual feelings. Now we are both going through nasty break ups. But she has begun to date others now and only treats me as a friend!
Q. I recently came back in contact with an old flame in June. We saw eachother for the first time in a long time, exchanged info and began speaking on a regular basis. Initially the conversations started out flirty, then they got downright dirty....
A. 2 October 2008: I think, if you truly feel for her you should tell her.
You need to know whether you have a chance and whether she definitely feels the same. Maybe the reason she's acting as a friend is becasue you are too.
Obviously you don't want to co... (read in full...)
Do I need help? Is their something wrong with me? I feel like this is bringing me down!
Q. hi their i have a relationship problem. me and my bf have been dating for over 4 months and we new each other for atleast 4 months before that. we both got out of a relationship 2 months before we got together. sometimes in my mind i wonder if...
A. 1 October 2008: If you've been cheated on before, it's no surprise you have insecurities, specially in a long distance relationship but you are right; you can't paint this new guy with the same brush. I would recommend that you meet this female friend of his; m... (read in full...)
Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?
Q. Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?...
A. 1 October 2008: It's hard to comment really on this without more information but I guess if he says he's not interested and gets jealous maybe he is actually interested but scared of rejection or what will happen if he admits being interested.
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I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?
Q. OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...
A. 1 October 2008: I agree, the signs all seem pretty positive.
Don't over analyse it; just do what you feel's right and, obviously don't force the issue but, like the first answer suggests, you could try and kiss her and see how it goes.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
We were arguing a lot so he broke up with me, can you help me get over him now?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up just over a week ago we were together for 6 months and he just suddenly decided to brake up with me. we were arguing a lot. its just im finding it so hard to get over him, im still in love with him. he means so much to ...
A. 1 October 2008: Breaking up is never easy, specially if you don't make the decision.
After 6 months, of course you're going to miss him and have feelings for him still. Unfortuantely I think time is the only real healer in situations like this, cliche as it is.
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He's a great friend but I feel like my boyfriend cares about him more then me! What should I do?
Q. It's basically a case of 2's company, 3's a crowd. My and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. My relationship was always me, my boyfriend, and his best friend (lets call him X to make this easier to understand). Im in a really long di...
A. 1 October 2008: You're not being unreasonable; it's understandable that you feel the way you do.
Obviously you need to speak about this with your boyfriend but in a sensitive manner; X is clearly a very important person in his life and he may not be look at thing... (read in full...)
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