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Hey everyone, im 21 and currently a nursery nurse at a private nursery. i love helping people and i always give honest advice and do my best to help all those that ask me to help them. alot of my friends come to me for advice and so far no negative comebacks at all :)

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Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?

Q.   hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum ...

A.   16 August 2006: Well to put it bluntly no. dads should not look at their daughters this way although many do. it is a pervey thing to do and is wrong on so many levels. your dad may find you attractive...( a sickining thaught i know) but as long as he doesnt ... (read in full...)

Scared to ask her out incase that isnt the vibe shes giving!

Q.   Hi, I am attracted to a woman at work who says that she is in an unhappy relationship. I am 10 years older than her and she describes me as friend and mentor. However, I sometimes feel that she wants more but am not sure I would like our rel...

A.   21 July 2006: the best thing i think you should do is flirt a bit as friend s and see here reaction and talk to her and see weather she wants to stay in this unhappy relationship because you cant really ask her out while she is in a relationship. just give it a ... (read in full...)

Will guys care that I have braces? Are they worth it?

Q.   I have a pretty bad overbite, and at the end of next month i will be getting braces. But i am really worried that once i get them i am never going to have a boyfriend. And that may sound weird, but it's the decideing factor in weither i am going to ...

A.   19 July 2006: hey braces are nothing to worry about i have them im 16 and ive had my braces sine 2 weeks before my 14th birthday and to be honest more guys have been interested since i got them then before hand! some guys find braces cute. dont worrie about brac... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is moving too fast! I don't know whether I'm going to have sex right and I don't want to get completely naked!

Q.   Hey guys, I know I've been asking a lot of questions lately but I really have just been thrown in to the reality pool at the deep end, so I'm really confused with everything. Anyway to the question... I'm 16 and my boyfriend has already had...

A.   19 July 2006: hey guys me again just wanted to say thanks for the advice it was a great help so far *hugs to all people that helped me*... (read in full...)

Is it right for a 21 year old guy and a 15 year old girl to be in a relationship?

Q.   Can a 21 yr old and a 15 yr old be in a relationship? I know sex is out of the question and I'm not really bothered about that at all, it's just there's this awsum girl i know and we talk and spend most time texting and we seem to be gettin on ...

A.   17 July 2006: personaly i dont find it wrong at all if you like this girl and she seems to like you alot go for it, it doesnt matter what others think of you if your together thats all that matters. you have to bear in mind that there is a leagal age gap of 5 ... (read in full...)

What is it that women love so much about cuddling ?

Q.   Why do women love cuddling? Many young girls, and even teens and adult women like to cuddle with their daddy. Its also pretty well known that women like to cuddle with their boyfriends or husbands, especially after they make love. So what...

A.   12 July 2006: When a guy hus a girl it normaly make the girl feel safe and secure in the arms of someone who cares for her and most guys wont admit it but its the smae case for guys most of the time its just an affectionate gesture thats means you care... (read in full...)

So many problems... can this marriage be saved?

Q.   How do you know when a marriage has run its course? Is it when after 10 yrs together and your husband still won't compromise on even the smallest thing, like who gets a lie-in at the weekend because he works and you spend all your time raising the...

A.   11 July 2006: Well...It really depends on the love and the trust of the two of you if you both really love eachother and care for another then a sit down with him may be the answer some issues you have raised can take a long time to overcome if they can be ... (read in full...)

She's 14. I'm 16. Are the two years too much?

Q.   Well. There is a girl of 14 who I fancy and am not sure she fancies me back. But anyway I am 16 and have left school, and my mate keeps taking the mick because I want to go out with a younger girl who is the same age as my sister. But I don't know ...

A.   11 July 2006: Hey if this girl likes you go for it im doing the same im 16 and my boyfriends 14 i get greif from people and i just tell them that its my decision not theres. just ignore them because they obviously have nothing better to do then take the mick out ... (read in full...)

He wants just the two of us to go out....but what do I tell my parents?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me and him to go out like just me and him, my parents dont know about him and i going out ... it would be to embaresing to tell them they wont let me out of the house unless i have a reason, what shall i say im going out to d...

A.   10 July 2006: the best thing is to tell them the truth im in exactly the same situation most of the time and my dad hates it when its just the two of us but i told him its my life not his. just tell your parents you two are going out for a while down to the town ... (read in full...)

He has been with his mates for 2 days and now I am worried

Q.   Ok! I need some advice, I may e being paranoid but could do with some help! My fella has jst gone off on his holidays with his mates. Ibiza for 2 weeks. We had an emotional goodbye and everything seemed ok. I spoke with him before he got on the ...

A.   5 July 2006: Its safe to say that most people would freak out in your situation but dont panic im sure there is a simple explination for it like his sim may not work over there and he hasent got the right cosh for the machine or he may just be out most of the ... (read in full...)

I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn? Any comments?

Q.   As a man, I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn. Porn itself is not the problem. It the person. I look at porn 5-6 times a week. I watch some movies, read stories and Jerk off about 6 times a week. Also make love with my wife ...

A.   26 June 2006: Women tend to feel threatend by the models in porn as most of the time your partner will feel like there imperfections compared to those models will stop them from bng attractive in the mans eyes and are normaly feeling like the guy is interested in ... (read in full...)

Will the prom still be speical without me dancing with the girl I care for.

Q.   I'm 16 and I have my prom coming up... I'm going to it but I'm not looking forward to it as much as everyone else is. The reason is I don't really like any girls in our school because I really like a girl outside of school. So what can I look ...

A.   18 June 2006: I had exactly the same problem and belive me the prom can be special with or without the one you care for just go with your friends and dance with a female friend or two. But trust me when i say the prom is an event you really would not want to miss... (read in full...)

My ex is obsessed over us having sex!!!

Q.   Well,this boy i used to go out with and i just broke up with my boyfriend and now my and my ex are starting 2 get really close and now he is asking if we can have sex and i said ok but where should we and he said at your house and then he says when ...

A.   23 April 2006: To me it sounds like he is desperate for Sex i think you should try and talk to him about why he got angry at you because it sounds to me like you dident do anything wrong. Talk to him and if he still acts horribly towards you then i dont think you ... (read in full...)

What do guys want? Quirky or normal?

Q.   hi i am 15 and want to know what guys look for in a girl? do they want a girl tht is mad, funny and strange lol? do tht want a girl thts more normal and calm? plz tell me thanks ...

A.   23 April 2006: Well it all depends on the boy becaus eall boys minds re different but normaly guys go for a girl thats herself and doesn't try to act a certain way to get there attention. just be yourself and get to be friends with the guy you want then make the ... (read in full...)

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