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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and we haven't slept together yet. I'm beginning to also question whether she's a virgin like she says and I don't know if there's a way to find out apart from just asking. We're both 22 and she has recently started a new job. I've taken a back seat to her work and family. I've introduced her to my family already and they adore her but she refuses to take a chance on me meeting her family. I find it hard to trust her because of the way our relationship is. She's not allowed to be seen with me just in case anyone in her family finds out. We see each other once a week for about 2 hours. She makes time for salsa, work and family but not me. I'm not a jealous person at all. Please help
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reader, doomed_in_mb +, writes (27 April 2005):
If this has been going on for two years, you must be the most patient man I have ever heard of. If she has not had sex with you and says she is a virgin, leave it at that and respect her. If she has not introduced you to her family, on the other hand, after a two year relationship means that she probably is not serious about you and is just using you for whatever reason. I think you would be better off finding someone else who will love you for what you are and want you to meet her family. How much could she love you anyways if she can only free up two hours a week for you???
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