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Should me and my bf break up and move on for good?

Q.   I have been with my bf for nearly two years but in those two years we have argued a lot, we have no trust because he cheated on me, he sometimes scares me when he gets mad. I don't feel like i used to and i want to spend my life with someone nice ...

A.   1 January 2007: If you see a pattern you don't like ... change it. Change your type maybe you're attracted to this type of man for certain reasons that I can't explain but honestly the best thing to do is change the way you see people go for people you may not go ... (read in full...)

Is my wife cheating on me with her cousin!

Q.   This past year my wife of 13yrs went alone on a vacation trip to visit her male cousin in South America. A month later I found a reply email sent from him, in Spanish, to her that he can not be her lover because of the distance but if they get ...

A.   27 December 2006: It seems likely that she is. But I really wouldn't jump to any conclusions. To0 be completely honest I do not believe in spying but this is one case i would let pass by. If you can afford it hire a spy if not then I would recommend that you email ... (read in full...)

He keeps going on about his friend who is a model and its making me insecure!!

Q.   okay I've been with this guy for a few weeks, but I he's not making me really happy. He keeps saying how gorgeous his friend who is a model is. She just got a lay out in maxim. I feel really bad when he says "She's gorgeous!!". He's also made ...

A.   23 December 2006: If anybody who you've only known for a few weeks makes you feel that bad you need to get rid of them and quick becuase they wil just develop a biggerhold on you in the future if you let it continue it's not worth it believe me. I've been there and I ... (read in full...)

Am I right to feel upset that he was masturbating in the bed next to me while I slept!!!?

Q.   I woke up one night to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. I feel this isnt normal for him to do this next to me while i was asleep. Am i right to feel upset or should i just let it go....

A.   23 December 2006: Just let it go. It's not as if he was cheating he would do it anyway whether you were in the bed or not. He obviously was horny and wanted something but you were asleep and he had to self serve. Don't worry too much if it bothers you talk to him ... (read in full...)

I love my GF, but Im really bothered about her past sexaul partners, how can I get past this ??

Q.   I have been with my girl or almost a year. Im in love with her so much, but it really bothers me about the guys she has slept with beore me and she is my 1st girl riend. What should i do to get over this?...

A.   23 December 2006: The past is what it is and you can't change that but if you really do love her the best thing to do is concentrate on the future you could have with her. However, if you worry about this too much then you will be risking your future together. So ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, he's 18 - is a relationship between us illegal?

Q.   Hey i'm 15 years old and this guy i like from school just turned 18. He claims to like me too.I'm not sure if he can get in trouble if we decide to start a relationship.Is this illegal?...

A.   19 December 2006: nope but having a sexual relationship with him would be x... (read in full...)

Someone told me recently that someone like me shouldn't be with someone like her...are they right???

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my gf for a year. She is attractive as i have seen guys ogle at her when we've been out. We're oth at uni so she's fairly smart, and I'll admit I think I'm a nerd but she said that I'm just really sweet and clever. ...

A.   25 October 2006: lol who are they to tell you that ... the pathetic sods who did say that probably don't have girlfriends and if they do they aren't serious and aren't going to last for long if not that then they prob will regret what they said cos they prob only ... (read in full...)

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