New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084332 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*ick Diva

Canada  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *ick Diva to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *ick Diva a private message

*ick Diva's Ratings
Excellent70%
Average0%
Poor30%

I'm female and I watch lesbian porn. does this mean I'm bi?

Q.   I am a straight female and I watch lesbian porn, it turns me on and I of course when I first started doing it I wondered why I did. I've been dating this guy for 4 years and everything was perfect up until 3 months ago. My brother told me he was gay ...

A.   11 June 2008: My Girl is straight but she likes lesbian porn too AND she has had the odd fling with women. She doesn't care and I don't care because she *identifies* as straight, (well ok, bi-situational). Don't worry about the labels. Just be.... (read in full...)

Wife had an afair with someone large, now I am intimidated.

Q.   My wife had an affair with a man with huge penis. She went on and on about how she never knew sex could be that good and how she was driven wild by his size. Now, I am intimidated to have sex with her because I am afraid I won't be able to please ...

A.   5 November 2007: I have to agree with Ariel. But I also want to ask you a question. Do you like the idea that she was sexually satisfied? Some men love their size queen hunting wifes so much that they are happy, (or at least oblige them) to let them find t... (read in full...)

My wife needs to pee every time we try to have sex

Q.   Hi not sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle. on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was...

A.   5 November 2007: This answer might sound offensive but here it goes. From my experience and others I have asked, it's normal for women to pee after sex. 10 times? not so sure. My friend teaches very popular classes in female ejaculation and how to achieve them. This ... (read in full...)

He's started trying to become obese. How do I deal with this?

Q.   Hi there, this worries me and I need some help, so apologies if this is really long! I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 28. We've been together for 4 years now - and our sex life's been good up to now. Recently he's become obsessed with becoming ob...

A.   16 July 2007: Sounds like a form of escapism. Adding layers between him and the world. hiding from. A way to push you and loved ones away. Being fat to be happy? Is he not happy now? What makes him think he needs to be happier? These are questions I would as... (read in full...)

Guys, and possibly ladies! Do you prefer women who are attractive looking or that have a great body?

Q.   I prefer guys to answer this question. However women could answer this question too. Do you prefer a women that is attractive looking, or have a great body? What do you like in women based on what they look like/personality or how attractive they ...

A.   16 July 2007: When it comes to life partners: I choose great bodies on older women because it usually, (but not always) means they have some regard for remaining active and healthy as do I. Which in turn would mean we have some things in common,to do and to t... (read in full...)

Can things work out if my ex takes me back?

Q.   i really need some advice am i kidding my self in thinking that if my ex takes me back after cheating on him twice things will work and and we will both be happy with each other please help anyone out there ...

A.   16 July 2007: Short answer: Yes - of course but- In my humble opinion there are a whole lot of questions that need to be answered before your relationship together can be put into perspective and continued with confidence. Your underling fear in this q... (read in full...)

I seem to be heavily dependent on people emotionally and whatever they believe is something to be rejected, I reject it.

Q.   I seem to be heavily dependent on people emotionally and whatever they believe is something to be rejected, I reject it. Especially I have this ideal expectation from people especially elders that they are to offer me some kind of moral support to ...

A.   16 July 2007: Expectation of others is like a judgment or opinion. If I understand your dilemma correctly, you are looking for support but not getting it and the expectation you have that they should is pissing you off. I highly recomend using people in the s... (read in full...)

My partner is lazy; am I wrong to expect more, given the circumstances?

Q.   I am the only wage earner in the family and have to work away one sometimes two nights a week. When at home I have to do all the cooking and when away my partner only buys readymade meals. The house is a mess because she says she is not a ...

A.   16 July 2007: You are not wrong to ask for help. Working together ask a team toward a common set of standards and goals is wonderful dream. However, I don't think you can have any expectations that she will live up to your expectations. No one is wrong or right ... (read in full...)

We have phone sex alot as we are long distance, cant help thinking he gets off better to the slut roleplay scenarios than sex with me!

Q.   I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 25. We are in a long distance relationship and we frequently have phone sex. We usually talk about what we would like to do to each other, what we have done, etc. He also initiates a roleplay where I will fab...

A.   15 July 2007: Cuckolding can be a defined as a designer relationship which in turn can turn out to be quite loving and long term. Your boyfriend's "tabs" that he keeps on you might just be nothing more than checking if his desire to be a cuckold to the one he ... (read in full...)

Why would he not feel that other men might be interested in me?

Q.   I asked my boyfriend if he ever thought that other men were attracted to me. He said no and said that he felt that other men would not be attracted to me. He never even gave it a thought. I see women who are attracted to him and he is always ...

A.   15 July 2007: I don't know and so I'll just guess with a sort-of-text-book answer as to why men don't think life partners are attractive to others. We see our partners at their worst and some with self esteem issues can tend to believe there is a transpar... (read in full...)

*ick Diva's friends

These are mutual friends, so *ick Diva has added them and they have added *ick Diva!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937530000010156!