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What positions do guys love most in bed?

Q.   WHAT POSSITIONS DO GUYS LOVE MOST IN BED...

A.   24 December 2010: yep doggy is the bomb, everything is pretty awesome really haha...except reverse cowgirl...doesnt work good fro that one.... (read in full...)

Guys: What is so great about anal sex?

Q.   Hi there This is mainly a question for the guys. I have been on this site for a while now and there is one thing that I kept asking myself. What is so great about anal? I am really interessted and just want to get a few honest and mature answ...

A.   24 December 2010: i think it sucks, way too tight i think, id take the vag any day, some guys just see it as the trophy thing to do in order to "claim manhood" over their girlfriend, actually makes sense cause if I know the dude banged in her in the butt I don't want ... (read in full...)

Should I be there for him or give him space?

Q.   My ex-boyfriend and I had been gong out for a year and a half, and then about 5 months ago his 18 year old brother was diagnosed with leukaemia. We broke up about two months ago, when his brother starting to get really sick. Around this time my ex ...

A.   14 April 2010: Tell him just what your feeling, let him know how you care for him and you want to be there for him, tell him that your there and if he does't want to talk right then leave him your number and say call whenever you want... (read in full...)

Does who you lose your virginity to really matter?

Q.   Well,now I have another dilema.I want to get over my teacher and feel that another guy would help.He's 18 and can drive iv known him for 5 years and he proposed that we have some 'fun',I'm up for it or at least would be if my sister hadn't given him ...

A.   14 April 2010: Bad move, sex should mean something, think about this what are other guys in your future going to think about your previous sex with this nonimportant guy? I found out about my girlfriend who i love sooo much and her previous hook up, (some dude at ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has no confidence

Q.   My boyfriend has very low self confidence. He's always putting himself down. Calling himself ugly. He's also very inexperienced sexually. These are all huge turn offs. I usually go for the confident guys that aren't scared to put there hands down my ...

A.   14 April 2010: Hes such a good guy but you want him to shove his hands down your pants, i understand the whole confidence thing but he sounds like a modest guy and my guess is he treats you like a lady (being really nice, opening doors, that sorta thing) I don't ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of getting pregnant at 14, but I really want to have sex!

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together 7and half months, he means everything to me and we've started to touch each other but i do want to have sex with him but we're not sure, im scared of gettin pregnant at 14, but do you think im pushing to far ...

A.   14 April 2010: your 14 chill out on the sex stuff, just knocked up my girlfriend shes 19 and im 20 i still have another year of college to go, sex is fun yeah but wait. if you can't wait then use condoms, the pill, latex suit whatever, i trusted the pill a little ... (read in full...)

He cheated and lied but says that he has changed. should I give him another chance?

Q.   I have tossed and turned everynight now for about a month over the same problem. So hopefully someone out there will be able to give the right and honest advice to help me thru it.. Okayy.. Its been about 6 months since me and my ex broke up.. We...

A.   3 March 2010: Don't fall for it, so many guys I know do that crap and so many good girls fall for it over and over. Save yourself their are many of us who actually have morals and want to be trusted that there is no reason to stay with that guy. Lots a dudes out ... (read in full...)

He wants to get married but I am his first serious girlfriend!

Q.   my boyfriend and i are in our 20s, 22 and 23. he wants to marry me but my question is that this is his first serious relationship, but not mine. in fact he was a virgin before me. i wasnt. i love him but am worrying he will feel like he missed out ...

A.   3 March 2010: Ok I am just like your bf, I was a virgin before I met my current gf, not that I didn't do anything with other girls but I never really wanted a gf so I didn't have one, and by the way i tried to get laid a bunch of times like anyone else but my ... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?

Q.   sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a ...

A.   19 February 2010: He forced himself on you and took your virginity, really that is honestly not love. Please don't fall into that trap that so many young girls fall into, if he really loves you his actions would prove it. taking your virginity by force is rape dont ... (read in full...)

What is meant by "make my move"?

Q.   Okay, before you read this, check my previous question called "How can i make a move without embarassing either of us?" or something like that. Bascically everyone has told me to "make my move", but what is meant by this and how do i go about it. I ...

A.   19 February 2010: Make your move... means ask her out. Dont be scared to fail happens to everybody. I was kind of shy and not aggressive in the past and what i found out was women want someone who is willing to put themselves out there. Be confident in yourself and ... (read in full...)

I tried to make him jealous, but now he thinks I'm really with my male friend!

Q.   me and my long term boyfriend had a petty argument,neither would back down. we have our ups and downs,all is fair,we are as bad as each other. i thought i would play a little game to get him jealous,basicaly,i walked past the building site he`s ...

A.   19 February 2010: probably not a good move, if he really cares for you and he sees you with some other guy over a petty fight, which im guessin is over something pretty stupid,then hell think "wow thats all that happened and she ran off" yeah he probably doesn't feel ... (read in full...)

How do I stop being jealous of my girlfriend's past lovers?

Q.   i have the most amazing girlfriend in the world,we have been together a year and a half and i love her to bits but lately her past lovers is getting to me, when i met her i had very little sexual experience, she has lots, she has had a relationship ...

A.   26 January 2010: Man I want to say I understand where your coming from I used to scroll these blogs in search of answers or something. It tore me up. My gf has been the best thing thats ever happened to me and has only had 2 sexual experiences before me. not a bi... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's past bothers me!

Q.   I have a problem with my GF's past! I am 24 years old and have slept with about 10 people, she is 20 and has slept with 12 people before me! Should this be bothering me so much, is that alot? She told me that everyone she has slept with wasnt...

A.   26 January 2010: Welcome to the club is right. My gf had slept with two before me which isn't a deal at all in fact I dont even think about those but in a span of two years she messed around with 15. A handful I knew from school. I always thought of myself as being ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is jealous of my sexual past and is becoming verbally abusive. Will he ever get over this?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we're great, no problems except for one which is big and is starting to make me go insane. I don't know how much longer we will last if we cant get this sorted. So the problem is that he is very jea...

A.   26 January 2010: I had to post on this subject. I wasn't nearly as abusive as your bf but alot of the feelings he displayed were exactly how i felt. I'm 21 i'm a college football player somewhat attractive, and I always have confidence and thought of myself as being ... (read in full...)

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