Why do people let facebook ruin their relationship?
Q. I have a question about Facebook, and that is why do so many people let it run their relationships? I'm not just talking about significant others, either. They let it affect their relationships with family as well. I know my family has, at least. A ...
A. 15 October 2013: Hello,
I'm sorry to hear that your aunt and cousin stopped talking to you, that's really disappointing. But there's really nothing you can do if people decide to be petty. I personally believe that even if you did something wrong, you deserve ... (read in full...)
I snooped on my partner. Is this woman my rival or am I paranoid?
Q. First off, I did something really stupid, I decided to snoop on my partner of 8 years when he accidentally left his iphone @ home. I had a premonition and i just did it. I found some suspicious looking replies to CL ads and then I started reading ...
A. 8 October 2013: I agree with Honeypie, and I want to add that It is disrespectful of her to call you a nut job, and also of him to not stand up for you. Sure, I can vent to my girlfriends about my boyfriend, but I am the only one allowed to criticize him. I mean, ... (read in full...)
An incredible night and now I can't get him out of my head
Q. Dear Cupid , A few nights ago I met this guy J . A really funny, laid-back, attractive guy [that was staying with a friend of mine ( J's best friend ) for a while]with whom I shared hours of hilar...
A. 5 October 2013: I think you could switch your attitude towards him, so "He was here, we had beautiful moments together, and now he is gone. I think of him fondly. He was good for the time that he was here."
For all you know, your time might not even have bee... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex lover made me cringe when I had to see her again.
Q. I really need other people's opinion on this situation. My boyfriend and I live in his room sharing a flat with his flatmate. I knew that a girl who he had sex with 5 months ago, was coming to our small city. She needed a place to stay for one nigh...
A. 5 October 2013: I think that when you visit a town/city/anywhere, you are responsible for where you stay, and no one is obligated to offer you their place. I am visiting Toronto in a few weeks for some business, and even then I asked my best friend if I can stay at ... (read in full...)
Could renting together ruin our friendship?
Q. Just a quick question. Could living with a friend turn out to be a bad idea? My freshman year of college, I became pretty much best friends with my roommate. We have so much in common and had so much fun together, that we decided to be roommates our ...
A. 5 October 2013: You sound very smart and practical. I think you should discuss the possibility of things going sour with your future roommate, and talk about the best possible ways to handle awkward situations, should any come up. My roommate and I are great ... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you have sex with a woman on her period?
Q. What are your opinions on period sex? Especially guys... Would you have sex with a woman on her period? Would you do this only if you were in a relationship with her and care about or love her? Or would you do it with a random woman if you wa...
A. 5 October 2013: I am a bisexual woman. No, it wouldn't bother me. But I would avoid oral sex. I would most likely stick to genital-to-genital stimulation. My boyfriend doesn't like to have sex with me when I'm on my period. I think he simply prefers not to. Maybe ... (read in full...)
In love with my late husband's brother - is it wrong?
Q. Hi! This is going to be long, so please be patient! I'm a widow. My husband died suddenly four years ago leaving me with three children, then aged six, three and one. I was devastated and it took me a long time to come to terms with his death. H...
A. 4 October 2013: My grandfather married his wife's sister after she died. Nobody was confused, all of us understood. We never questioned what happened between them as it was none of our business. I agree with Starlights. Good luck!... (read in full...)
First date, first kiss... few concerns
Q. Hi, i'm 15, and I got my first boyfriend last night. I'm really happy about that, i really like him, but there are a few things that are worrying me. 1: our first kiss Basically what happened is he kissed me for a long time and then asked me o...
A. 27 October 2012: Congratulations on finding your first boyfriend.
1. Kissing gets better with practice. Take it slow. Relax. Read up on books. Talk to your boyfriend. Actually, ideally you should be able to talk to your boyfriend about things like this. He shoul... (read in full...)
I'm genuine and not shallow. But his performance recently? What could be the problem? Nerves? Or problems in the future?
Q. Hi there, new here but I've lurked around for a while so I'll just jump in. I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time Saturday night. Foreplay was amazing best I've ever had actually, but when he wemt to put on the condom I noticed he wasn'...
A. 16 October 2012: Haha I like your choice of words, "this is just a tiny issue..."
I wouldn't stress out about it too much, unless it goes on like that for weeks. In which case I would talk to him about it, but not too directly. just ask him what makes him relax, e... (read in full...)
Is it too early to do this? Should I allow this boy to come into my tent while we are camping and share my sleeping bag?
Q. I'm 14 (girl) I have been talking to this guy that I met the other day, we have been sending hearts. He's coming camping with me and one of my friends and one of his. He wants to if he can sleep in the swag (sleeping bag) with me, is it to early fo...
A. 13 October 2012: CindyCares stated it best. At least go on a date with him! Let him win you over. He should be persuading you that he`s worthy of getting in your swag.... (read in full...)
I'm shy so how do I go up and start talking to a guy?
Q. So I started college 4 weeks ago and I keep seeing this guy that's really attractive, i'm too shy to go up to him and i wouldn't know what to say anyway. How would I get talking to him? ...
A. 6 October 2012: Breathe deeply and slowly, that will keep your voice calm. One sentence at a time. No rush :)... (read in full...)
I want to enjoy sex like my B/f does but I can't seem to because it hurts too much
Q. I want I know why sex still hurts for me. My first time with my boyfriend on June 8, it hurt a lot. On June 31st we did it again and it hurt a lot. On September 7th we did it again and it still hurt. Is there something wrong with me? I want to enjoy ...
A. 1 October 2012: I read a quote: "Go down a waterslide when it isn't wet. Then you'll understand the importance of foreplay." - unknown.
Yah you should definitely be turned on before sex. The foreplay should make you beg, not say, "eh I guess it's alright ... (read in full...)
Insecure about my boyfriend's past with other women and with porn
Q. My fiance has a whole bookshelf of porn in his room, makes comments about porn sometimes, and I know he's slept with women before me. He's the first man I've ever been with and the last. Sometimes while we're together, I wonder what porn he's lea...
A. 1 October 2012: Listen, porn women are gross and fake (most of the time), so you really shouldn't worry being up to their standards, just stay healthy. I think you should take his initiative as a way of exploring your sexuality (like he wants to dirty talk), but do ... (read in full...)
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