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Is it too soon for me to get feelings for a guy I met on FB?

Q.   I met someone on fb but I already knew him from when we was younger. We talk everyday he tells me just about everything. I really like him. I believe I'm starting to catch feelings for him. Do you think it's to early for me to start catch feelings?...

A.   18 December 2010: I don't think it's too early to catch feelings, especially since you knew him when you were younger. You share that bond. I say go for it :)... (read in full...)

I'm super attracted to this guy, but will he feel less of me for my 'enthusiasm' on our second date?

Q.   I had sex with a guy on basically the second date ... Something I never do but I was just super attracted to him. I'm a little worried he'll judge me for it but I hope not, What's done is done anyways. How do I read his body language? After ...

A.   18 December 2010: I agree as to what's done is done. It sounds like you both had a great time. I would stick to more public dates for a while until you get a sence of how he feels about you. Maybe a movie or dinner. If he asks you if you want to go back to his ... (read in full...)

Emotions, exes and proper behaviour in a relationship...

Q.   Hi, I am a 48 yr old single (married 20 yrs divorced 6.5 yrs) mother ( 3 grown kids one lives at home,disabled) and i am not sure how to do what i need to do...My bf (10yrs younger than I) and i met about 10 mos ago and it was like we were made for ...

A.   18 December 2010: I feel your pain. With all the texting and calling other women you can't help but feel second best. If it were me, I would definately let him know that his constant texting and phone conversations with other women make me feel second best and ... (read in full...)

Should I ignore this feeling or break things off?

Q.   Ok so i have been with my BF for 6 years we have a daughter whos 1 together. Latley ive been feeling not so close to him.He has been really getting on my nerves and i feel like im faling out of love i really could care less if i see him again. He is ...

A.   13 December 2010: I'm a little older than you but found myself in the same situation. My problem is I thought I could change him, so I married him. Now I have a lazy husband and 2 kids to take care of. I think you need to have a serious conversation with him about ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid giving her space means she's going to forget me

Q.   If you have been a bad boyfriend but you know she still loves you and misses you do you give her space when you break up with her and realize you messed up? I went to counseling and all kinds of other stuff to change into a better person. I broke up ...

A.   13 December 2010: Maybe she honestly needs her space, in that case you should respect her request. If you have been a bad boyfriend like you said, she probably needs time to think. You know, weigh out the pro's and con's. Just because she is hanging out with her ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure why I can't leave him!

Q.   hi, i'm in a relationship with a guy, who most of the time, is very affectionate and loving, but whenever we argue, he becomes quite aggressive, i.e. pulling my hair, choking me, kicking slapping etc. Despite this, I love him so much, that I cannot ...

A.   13 December 2010: PLEASE LEAVE! Being with an abusive man only gets worse. Things do not change, e.g. he's not just going to stop hitting you. You should need to have any broken bones to realize this. Also, since you were abused as a child this is so much more ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to try and work on our marriage anymore, what is really going on?

Q.   Me and my wife have been together for almost 7yrs and have been married for almost a 1 1/2 yrs. She now says she's not happy anymore and doesn't have feelings for me anymore. She says its because all the things she's been asking me to do like ...

A.   13 December 2010: If you felt you were wrong in not giving her the attention she needed (or perhaps deserved) you could appologize for not doing so. Then if you really wanted to try to make it work you could express that also by letting her know that you see now how ... (read in full...)

My entire family say I am a bad mother even though I am trying my best! How do I deal with this until I can afford to move out?

Q.   Okay so I have a huge problem that effects me everyday. Ill start out with the background information. It all started about two years ago when I got pregnant at age 18. My sister was 16 at the time. Anyways, I lived at home then and still do. The ...

A.   13 December 2010: I'm sorry. I know this is a rough time and unsupporting family members make it worse. I would suggest that you keep doing you best with going to school and looking for a job. If you feel the need to say something to your family maybe you can let ... (read in full...)

Will he become bored with oral sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I both virgins discovered how much fun oral sex is! I am not ready for sexsex, and he is ok with that, besides i am really getting the hang of blowjobs. (and if u must know he has a wicked tongue) My questions are will he become ...

A.   10 December 2010: I don't think he will get tired of blow-jobs. I think it's a great way to keep yourselves satisfied without having sex. Too many people rush into sex without thinking. I say have fun without sex as long as possible. You'll know when your ready. ... (read in full...)

Why do I want to marry a military man when I'm older?

Q.   Hey... So this isnt a relationship question. But if any of you have husbands who do this as a job, you could help. Why do I want to marry a military/army man when Im older? I just think it would be cool. I know they would be gone a lot but for some ...

A.   10 December 2010: I agree. I think it's the whole brave strong man thing. You may find youself liking cops and firemen too. The uniform plus their bravery/authority is a turn on. There's nothing wrong with liking men in uniform. It's quite common actually.... (read in full...)

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