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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so i have been with my BF for 6 years we have a daughter whos 1 together. Latley ive been feeling not so close to him.He has been really getting on my nerves and i feel like im faling out of love i really could care less if i see him again. He is extremly lazy and if i ask him to help its always a sigh and then an argument. Even sexually i have lost interest because he is lazy about that too. I want to be single and live a diferent life but i dont know how to break it off or if i should just ignore it..My question is do you think i should ignore it or break it off? and if i break it off how I ve never broken up with someone and im affraid of how he will react because weve lived together so long. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, daydreamer247 +, writes (13 December 2010):
I'm a little older than you but found myself in the same situation. My problem is I thought I could change him, so I married him. Now I have a lazy husband and 2 kids to take care of. I think you need to have a serious conversation with him about your conserns and let him know that if he's not willing to put forth an effort to change then maybe you guys should take a break. If your happier without him maybe you should stay that way.
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