Should I stay away from where he works?
Q. I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and ...
A. 26 May 2015: Hi! Do you want to hear from him or not? You consented to whatever was going on between you so you can only feel like he was using you if you were allowing him to use you. It seems like sex was on the agenda and not much more; if there was more, ... (read in full...)
How do I be there for my girlfriend when she doesn't like to lean on others?
Q. Thanks for those who are reading this. I just need some advice in a difficult situation. My girlfriend of 6 months had her cousin die in heart surgery a week ago and now her grandmother is paralyzed from the waist down which just happened two days...
A. 26 May 2015: You never show emotion and she doesn't open up/lean on people; now it’s clear that in a stressful situation, your conflicting behaviours definitely come between you. Leaning on you may be difficult for her but this is part of allowing your pa... (read in full...)
I'm worried if we apart that my boyfriend will cheat like he has in the past
Q. I'm in a relationship which has survived, well kind of survived my boyfriend sleeping with another women, but now he is about to go work aboard for 3 months over summer, I don't know if I trust him enough to keep our relationship going. We met when...
A. 26 May 2015: Hi! You wouldn't be in two minds if you really had forgiven him for cheating. Few people who have been cheated on will actively deal with how they feel about that level of betrayal. It sounds like you brushed your feelings under the carpet and ... (read in full...)
2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?
Q. Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have ...
A. 26 May 2015: Hi! We all have different values; deep down, do you really feel that it’s acceptable for you to be a married man’s mistress?
The reality is that it’s easy to tell your mistress that you plan to divorce as it can keep her hanging on; make her feel... (read in full...)
I feel like there are 4 in this relationship..me, him and his parents!
Q. Hi I''d like some impartial advice on whether I'm over-reacting and getting ahead of myself and secondly how I deal with the situation. My partner and I have been together a year and a half, he's nearly 10 years older than I am so we've moved fa...
A. 26 May 2015: Hi! If you want to be happier, it sounds like it is the start of some awkward conversations. But if your partner knows how you feel, you may not be the person having to have them – they are his parents after all. His parents are of a different g... (read in full...)
He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to ...
A. 26 May 2015: Hi! It is important to pay attention to the fact that you both suffer from depression. You may be managing yours, but is he managing his? Depression is known to heighten feelings, for better or worse, so you may well feel that your roller coaster ... (read in full...)
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