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There are other things to life besides partying!!

Q.   I am becoming fed up with my husband and 16-year-old son's incessant partying - every single night of the week they hit the town and it's making me furious. However, I can't really criticise them for other things though - they always make the ...

A.   2 May 2011: Oh by the way do they go out together or go out separately?... (read in full...)

There are other things to life besides partying!!

Q.   I am becoming fed up with my husband and 16-year-old son's incessant partying - every single night of the week they hit the town and it's making me furious. However, I can't really criticise them for other things though - they always make the ...

A.   1 May 2011: Most teenagers worth their salt would be embarressed at partying with their dads! Perhaps you should gently remind your husband and son of that!... (read in full...)

Husband trying to turn back time..acting like a teenager!

Q.   I'm 42, and my husband's 38. Has he recently hit a midlife crisis or something - he's started going to clubs with teenage kids 18 - 21, going to the gym, eating out every night, and smoking and gambling a lot, and even dresses like a 20something ...

A.   22 February 2011: Try and have a reasoned conversation with him and make him realise he is only making a fool of himself and wouldn't you agree that most teenagers worth their salt would find adults like him sad and embaressing!... (read in full...)

My daughter is involved with a man 36 years older than her!

Q.   Hi there, I have a 16-year-old daughter and have recently found out that she is dating a 52-year-old man. She is talking about marriage and children with this man; personally I don't understand why she wants to marry someone so much older than...

A.   26 December 2010: I can understand your concerns about the age gap but as the police rightly said to you they aren't doing anything illegal and 16 is the age of consent.Also your husband is probaby concerned too but he's thinking if things go wrong that you and him ... (read in full...)

Are inter-racial relationships a bad thing?

Q.   I am white and i have a black boyfriend is there ANYTHING wrong with that? ...

A.   26 December 2010: As long as he trats you well that's all that matters!... (read in full...)

Sex with an older guy!

Q.   I want to have sex, but it'd be illegal? I'm 16 and I don't know how much longer I can hold out. These hormones can't be tamed for much longer, I can feel it. Except, I don't want to have sex with some young guy my age. I don't find them attractive ...

A.   26 December 2010: Wait until you are 17 or 18 or whatever the legal age of consent is in your state as not only you would get into trouble but he would as well! Think carefully!... (read in full...)

If we're happy, is our relationship still wrong?

Q.   Dear agony aunt Im 18 and recently started a new job, theres a guy there who is is 55 and we have got really close. He is such a lovely man and i love him and he loves me, we have had sex but recently people at work have been saying things about us...

A.   21 December 2010: My view is that you are above the age of consent so you and him aren't doing anything wrong though I must admit what attracted you to him in the first place?... (read in full...)

My family doesn't approve of the big age gap between me and my guy

Q.   Dear agony aunt, i recently posted a qeustion regarding the same situation but just need a bit more advice Ive been dating a 56 year old man and im 18, weve been together 7months and i have never been happier. At work we dont tell anyone about our...

A.   20 December 2010: Look you are 18-2 years above the age of consent-so he isn't really doing anything wrong however I would still tell your mum (albeit, break it to her gently)that you will be going away for a few days and anyway this holiday could let you get to know ... (read in full...)

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

Q.   Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

A.   19 December 2010: I don't know the law on age of consent where you are but if it is 17 then go ahead! I like older men too and have a liking for 60's music however I wouild urge you to proceed with caution and take any relationship you may develop one step at a ... (read in full...)

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