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Sometimes when I text "I love you" he responds with a smiley face.

Q.   OK sooo..... i dated this guy 6 months ago. we dated for a month. we broke up because he was moving. i have known him for 3 years now. we have been talking the whole time he has been gone and a few weeks ago he sent me a text saying that he loved me ...

A.   28 March 2011: It's easier said than done, so they say.... It's easy to say I love you even if they really don't mean it. That's the trend. You can only find out that he really loves you if he really marries you. You said that he wants to marry you right? T... (read in full...)

G/f doesn't think LDR is going to work

Q.   My "girlfriend" has been acting different for a while. She was supposed to come home with me over spring break, and she didn't. She said it was because of gas at first, but I said I would pay for some. Then she said it was a hard for week, which I ...

A.   28 March 2011: I admire you for being truly in love and taking care of your relationship (not all men are like the way you are). There is this saying that when a person really wants to do something, he/she can always find way. But if a person doesn't really f... (read in full...)

My wife's comments about sex since I had my surgery really hurt my feelings.

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 5 years. I'm 40 and she's 36. We met through a dating site and had a super intense sex life. Both of us have extensive sexual histories. She has had threesomes which she blames on an abusive ex and many part...

A.   28 March 2011: First, sorry to hear about your wife's unhealthy comments. Second I admire you in your best effort to fight your illness, and third I admire you for coming up in the open to seek advice. You wife should support you in every way most especially ... (read in full...)

Is a relationship hopeless if there's no trust?

Q.   Is a relationship hopeless if there's no trust even though its the trust seems to improve ? ...

A.   28 March 2011: Trust is the foundation for a lasting relationship. And once trust is broken, the damage can't be easily repaired. It can be mend, you can forgive but you will not forget....I have been there many times, and it did not work out. Trust must be ... (read in full...)

Emotional connection or LUST?

Q.   i have a question here............................... IAM in a LDR.... and living 2000 km away from my guy so it gets very difficult for us to see each other .......... in these 3 years we could hardly meet twice a year..... and each time we plan ...

A.   28 March 2011: Hi, gut feel from a fellow woman. Your man loves you! We must admit that sex is part of relationship and that's natural. Having sex just for the heck of it is different thing, got my point? I'm trying to put my own shoe into your man's feeling. I... (read in full...)

How will I know he is cheating on me?

Q.   I met this guy online.. we chatted for a year now..and we are in a long distance relationship..we haven't met e yet..but he has plan to see me soon..but then we broke up.. because i think he is cheating on me.. i am wondering why he is invisible ...

A.   28 March 2011: MOVE ON girl, I could say crystal clear now that he doesn't really care. Please, DON'T beg for love. You deserve a genuine one because your love is true. I know it's easier said than done but it's true that sooner or later you will get over him. ... (read in full...)

How can I help him when he puts space between us?

Q.   There's this guy. We met almost a month ago. We like each other. We usually text each other everyday and call each other. We actually met out, and we kissed, but we just exchanged numbers and started talking. So this guy always calls me babe. We...

A.   28 March 2011: Just contact him, if you don't feel like calling him just send him a text message just to let him know that you are concerned about him. There is no harm on your part if you contact him just to know how he's been doing. Don't expect for a reply so ... (read in full...)

We had a fight and he just walked out! Can I stay with someone who would leave like that?

Q.   Please help me! My husband walked out on my 6 days ago after a fight. He said he was going to stay at his mothers. I don't like a husband can just up and leave like this I never would do this to him. He has try to call but I'm to hurt to answer I ...

A.   27 March 2011: I do agree with the others..I guess you have more problem to resolve within yourself than your husband....please don't be selfish...a good marriage needs a give and take, not just me, me and me....... (read in full...)

He'd be mad if I was looking at porn, so why is he doing it?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and we love each other... in our relationship we both found out we are very jealous people when it comes to the opposite sex with each other. well the other day i found porn on his phone... ...

A.   27 March 2011: Generally, men admit they are "pigs". I caught my bf having an account in a porn site, too, but his membership in that porn site is way before he met me. I confronted him and he deleted his account there. Lately I found out that he accepted 2 w... (read in full...)

I've supported her at college, but after drunkenly flashing a club she needs time to think!

Q.   Hey, Me and my gf have now been together nearly 2 years. We're both young and when we met were both living at home. After about 9 months she had to leave her home due to a relationship breakdown with her mother. She moved in with my ...

A.   27 March 2011: You are still young and very responsible, you still have a full life ahead of you and will meet a lot of people that could make your life a better one if not the best someday. If you make your door open to other possibilities, I know for sure a lot ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend keeps lying and cheating, I don't know what to do!

Q.   I met a man from a dating site and he is Australian.He is divorced with 2 kids. But his kids live with his ex wife in Melb. We met on the 2007 and after 3 months get to know each other he left me. He told me that his Indian friend from Malaysia told ...

A.   26 March 2011: Your partner is one real pig. You don't deserve such treatment. You are in Australia now, find a job, get settled and get rid of him.... (read in full...)

How will I know he is cheating on me?

Q.   I met this guy online.. we chatted for a year now..and we are in a long distance relationship..we haven't met e yet..but he has plan to see me soon..but then we broke up.. because i think he is cheating on me.. i am wondering why he is invisible ...

A.   26 March 2011: Hi we are on the same boat and I've had several online relationships before. Your case is not new to me as far as your online bf is concerned. It made me realized that I have been looking for love in all the wrong places. I have online bf right now ... (read in full...)

Should I stay or go. Don't want to be 'second' in his life. I think I am about to break up with my boyfriend.

Q.   I am about to break up with my boyfriend.. The reason is because I found out sweet messages between some chick who he met years ago.. I checked the messages and sent time, was the time where we went through the darkest time together as a co...

A.   25 March 2011: Your decision to break up with him is the right thing to do. Many men who are even older than your bf love to play games or flirt, and your bf is one of them. These kind of men can't really be trusted, but I could say that there are still so many ... (read in full...)

I found my wife's sex tape with two guys. Should I moved out for a while to clear my head? I don't know if I can recover from this

Q.   I really don't know if this is the best place to be asking for advice, but I can't afford a counselor and I'm too embarrassed to tell any of my family or friends. I'm hoping someone on this site can help me. My wife has always been the keep sa...

A.   25 March 2011: You seem to be a very decent guy and honest, too. I could not imagine how you have been taking all these stuff about your wife. Keeping a threesome sex video with ex-boyfriends? To me, she seem to have some psychological problem. I can sense that ... (read in full...)

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