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How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup?
Q. How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup? I live with a couple that broke up over the summer after we signed a lease. Where all in college. At the beginning of the school year she acted as if her and her e...
A. 28 July 2008: Well its been awhile but i thought i would throw in this follow up. Things did get worse and came to a climax when she decided to hurt herself over spring break. Long story short she ended up getting counseling.... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for my first love, and I've heard she has feelings for me too, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. hey i been thinkin alot recently and its about an old girlfriend of mine that i broke up with bout a year ago now n she has a new boyfriend now but i hav heard from my best mate.. hu is also her best mate that she still has strong feelings for me n ...
A. 16 December 2007: First of I would review why you broke up in the first place. Second i would say that if you really cared about her you would not put her in a situation where she needs to decided between you or her boyfriend. Honestly i feel like timing is a big ... (read in full...)
How should I break up with my fiancee?
Q. Hi, i posted a question awhile back about breaking up with my fiancee. all of the answers back told me that it was the right thing to do and i felt the same way going into it. Now, my new question is: What should i say to make it as less painf...
A. 16 December 2007: Just tell her how you feel and try and focuses on your feelings because no one can argue with how you feel. Theres no way getting around hurting her, just be prepared to support her in what she needs to deal with the break up. If she needs space ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup?
Q. How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup? I live with a couple that broke up over the summer after we signed a lease. Where all in college. At the beginning of the school year she acted as if her and her e...
A. 2 December 2007: Thanks for your comment, even if i do feel that your calling me condescending, mean and insensitive. I've decided that, counseling probably wouldn't do much for her, I'm just not sure what to do or say and i wish i knew someone that did. I fea... (read in full...)
How can I find out if she's gay before I make a fool of myself?
Q. Okay..lets me try to explain. There is this really cute girl in my class at school. She's a notetaker for another student that is a good friend of mine. Anyways this girl (notetaker)always smiles at me, talks to me a bit, and says hi. She sit...
A. 18 November 2007: Its hard to analyze others intentions. Try and get to know her as a friend, then if opportunity presents its self you can ask her. At the very least you might be able to gain a friend. ... (read in full...)
Should I cut my losses and leave?
Q. Please take the time to read this for I truly am I lost soul. I have been in an on/off relationship with a girl for two years now, circumstances prevented us from being together at first but we have been now we have been official for a year. A...
A. 15 October 2007: Sometimes love is not enough. To me the violence would be enough to get out. But instead of just dropping everything and leaving, try and talk with her. If shes not willing to make some kind of change, then its time to look at leaving. even if ... (read in full...)
How can we save the relationship?
Q. I am so hurt and confused and crushed. My true love has cheated on me with her first love and now says she is in love with her and she is married. She has kept me hanging on for 4 months now and giving me hope and mixed signals.We have been together ...
A. 15 October 2007: There is only so much you can do. A relationship is a two way street. If she's not willing to put effort in then its time for you to find someone that is. Its not a healthy relationship if theres no balance, i encourage you to talk with her and if ... (read in full...)
I long to be with her but I cant. She is also a girl. I need tips on how to deal with these feelings?
Q. I am in love with a person who will never love me, because we're both girls. I love her very much, with all my heart, and I long to be with her although I know I can't. I would never force her to do anything, or try to convince her. I just need tips ...
A. 29 September 2007: You need to decided on the type of relationship you wish to have with your friend. I would say don't rush anything and just be her friend. If your feelings are stronger then that, you might want to talk to her. In the end be true to yourself and ... (read in full...)
I was ashamed of my gay friends job, how do i get our friendship back to how it was?
Q. Hi, i need some impartial advice about my situation. I'll start with some background info to help explain. I'm 28yrs old, Gay and a teacher at one of the country's most prestigious boy's school's. I got the job partly because i have some fantastic ...
A. 27 August 2007: The lovely thing in life is that you can always try. Its up to you if you want to put forth the effort to mend the friendship. I guess one question would be, are you ok with her jobs? If you can't accept her jobs and if you worry how it may rub off ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, bisexual but I like older women.
Q. Hi, my problem is I am bisexual, but prefer older women, (I am 17). I really like my friends mum(50) the other day I went round to my friends house when I knew she wasn't in, but her mum was. I invited myself in, and we had a chat and a coffee. I we...
A. 5 August 2007: No you can not pursue any kind of relationship with this women. She is off limits on the grounds she is your friends mom. feelings are strong intense and at times self destructive. You need to work through and past theses feeling you have for your ... (read in full...)
My straight friend snogged me today...does this mean she likes me?
Q. Hey, so i am going out with my girl Jess and i luv her to bits. i told my closest friend that i was going out with a gal (no one else nos i am gay) and she was so cool with it and she hasn't told any one. The thing is today she snogged me and and ...
A. 5 August 2007: Ask her what's up and be a good listener, it sounds like she might need a friend. ... (read in full...)
They're made for each other, but he may be in denial about his sexual orientation. Do they still go for it?
Q. Hi Guys Any views on any section will be greatly appreciated as there is so little help out there for being on the receiving end of a bi friends love when you are not them: * A's best friend is a guy and basically A and B are made for e...
A. 5 August 2007: Wow, to many A's and B's. But maybe this will help. I think this kind of confusion is poison. There would always be the questions and in the questions lies the poison of the love. You or A, must decided what you(they) want out of a relationship ... (read in full...)
Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years?
Q. My question is really simple. Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years? We've broken up 3 times in the last 9 months, with the final time coming back in June. After our last break up, I met a really great guy, ...
A. 5 August 2007: If there are problems in a relationship it takes two people to change them. otherwise the one person just sacrifices them self to the others will. You still have strong feeling for your ex which makes moving on more difficult. However, if your ... (read in full...)
I like her soo much that things at work have gotten too intense. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi guys. I'm straight but ive fallen for a girl at work. It's gotten soo intense now, I cant say anything to her, cant speak to her. I feel jealous of other people she speaks to. i just think of her all the time. ALL THE TIME. Really need some ...
A. 5 August 2007: Feelings can be very intense in the moments. I would get to know her, be her co-worker, her friend and see how the relationship develops. ... (read in full...)
Did my friend dump me for her neighbour? Why?
Q. SO im 15 and i have this friend who ill call Ash. She moved here in November, and since i was fairly new [moved here in june of last year] i took the time to get to know her and we became close friends. I let her see all of me [i mean, my real me,...
A. 17 July 2007: First off you did nothing wrong, you can’t control others feeling or actions. As hard as it may be you need to give her space and move on. True friends don’t act nice to you one minute and ditch you the next. If she wishes to hang out with you ... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 16 July 2007: It sounds like a bad situation to me. You seem so prepared to sacrifice yourself for him. I would say leave it alone, he needs to decided for himself if he wants to be with his wife or if he wants to pursue other relationships. Yes you're you... (read in full...)
Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?
Q. Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even ...
A. 16 July 2007: There are always possibilities and hope. I guess the only thing you can do is decided what you want out of a relationship. You can only do so much, but at some point the responsibility falls onto her. You could do everything possible but if she ... (read in full...)
He isn't happy with just kissing me and wants to try out other things.
Q. I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ...
A. 15 July 2007: Regardless of age, you need to do what You are comfortable with. Don’t let anyone pressure you into an uncomfortable situation. He’s your boyfriend and should respect your wishes, if he can't do that. Then he has no business being your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
How can I stand up for myself more and say NO to sex?
Q. I'm 17 and I've had sex with 5 diferent people. They were all "relationships" (or what I naivly thought would become one) but only one of them was serious. This was with my first boyfriend and I slept with him (and lost my virginity to him) after ...
A. 15 July 2007: Standing up for yourself is never easy especially when you’re not use to doing it. At least that’s what I have found. But the only way to become good at it is to start, and what better time to learn then now. First thing is you have to know what ... (read in full...)
How can I stand up for myself more and say NO to sex?
Q. I'm 17 and I've had sex with 5 diferent people. They were all "relationships" (or what I naivly thought would become one) but only one of them was serious. This was with my first boyfriend and I slept with him (and lost my virginity to him) after ...
A. 15 July 2007: Standing up for yourself is never easy especially when you’re not use to doing it. At least that’s what I have found. But the only way to become good at it is to start, and what better time to learn then now. First thing is you have to know what ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this situation, I really think we'd be great together.
Q. dear cupid, I've been best friends with my friend for 12 years and recently we've got very close. He asked if there was a chance that we could become a couple, of course me being me I said yes I think that would be a great idea. He split up with ...
A. 14 July 2007: It sounds like you two are close. But he is just getting out of a serious relationship, he could be confused and unintentionally using you. I would say that if you want to give a relationship with him a shot you should take things slow and see how ... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 14 July 2007: Wow, you sound like me to some extent. I can relate. I had really strong feeling for a friend, it was as if we where instant friends. I started having feeling like yours and used the same logic. There where even those brief moments where I ... (read in full...)
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