At first HE had lower sex drive, now I do, maybe because his not wanting it as frequent in the beginning has affected me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 5 years. When we first started dating, I wanted to have sex non stop but he did not feel the same. Now he wants to have sex more often and I don't really feel the same way. I think subconsciously I have taken his not ...
A. 25 September 2007: talk to him!
maybe he wants you more because he didn't know as well in the beginning.
Maybe he fell in love and did the whore/madonna thing. A lot of guys are the biggest sluts in the world and your first few months are magic. then the... (read in full...)
She told me she needed a short break, should I call everything off or wait to see what happens?
Q. Ok. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite a while. I know that she's in love with me and I know that im in love with her. But yesterday she told me that she just needs a break. She told me that right now she's just really stressed out and ...
A. 25 September 2007: Ask her is she thinking of breaking up with you or if she plans to see other people, if her answer is, "no"-- she's not taking a break from the relationship, it's a journey we all need.
If she sees other people, break up- you can get back together... (read in full...)
Help! How I can start to be more assertive??
Q. Every so often about once a month I feel very moody towards my girlfriend and others. The thing is im a nice person and I don't know why I feel this way toward them but I have been talking to my mum about it recently and she may have knocked the ...
A. 24 September 2007: First, you need to seperate "cheeky" from personality-- which yours is of the "hold a grudge" type. Some sensitive people find all sarcastic people abrasive or attacking. Even if it's not your humor, you'er choosing to be with this girl, and she ... (read in full...)
My bf is dating my best friend, secretly but I found out! How do I work this through?
Q. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and only a few days later told my best friend he liked her. She also had feelings for him, but for my sake she tried to hold them back. Unfortunatley this resolution only lasted a few days and they got toge...
A. 24 September 2007: Hey,
this is crappy and you need to know it isn't cool. that being said, as he broke up with you first. If you believe that they just happened to hook up days after you're break-up without one or both knowing they were going to move on each oth... (read in full...)
I want him back in my life?
Q. I was seein a boy who I REALLY liked for 2 months until last week when I finished it. I finished it cos I thought that I was makin all the effort and cos of this I thought that he didnt like me as much as I like him. So I text him saying that I ...
A. 24 September 2007: everything above, plus
you gotta take it at his pace. If he's not going fast enough for you and you dump him again, you lose him as a boyfriend and a friend.
... (read in full...)
So many guys to choose from!!
Q. The guy i love is 19.. and i'm 15. Ive known him ages and we can tell each other anything, and he always makes me smile,then recently he told me he likes me to. He quit his job to come back to live near me. But hes going to University so we decided ...
A. 24 September 2007: Hey,
it's great to have options, but another option is not to date anyone. Or to late everyone know you're own right now & date everyone. Just let everyone INCLUDING YOURSELF, know how far you want to go. Kissing is great, but doing more with... (read in full...)
Might I have a chance later?
Q. hi all, I have decided to bite the bullet and not see him anymore! Im kinda sad about this as he was a huge part of my life for two and a half years! I really need to get on with it and I just dont see friendship with him as something I woul...
A. 24 September 2007: Soulmate is an agressive, romantic word-- I've broken up with my husband every year for 10 years. But I've never left him. I've never proved I could-- I sulked in the next room until he finished sulking or until he came in.
You're young. ... (read in full...)
Moods swings from my girlfriend are killing me!
Q. My girlfriend is 5 months pregnant, and it has been one hell of a roller coaster ride. To begin, before she was pregnant she had violent and very aggressive mood swings. She demeaned me in front of some of my friends, ripped one of my shirts, and ...
A. 24 September 2007: Everything they said.
Let doctor know it was worse before pregnancy-- she might deny it and blame it on pregnancy, but let them know. Pregnancy give off hormones and supress other chemicals, this information can help with finding out what's w... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should go with this guy for my first time?
Q. my best friend lost her virginity in a 1 night stand and hasnt seen him since or even tried to see him, i met him a few weeks later and i now really like him iv tried tellin my friend how i feel and she sed just go for it but shoud i go for it is it ...
A. 24 September 2007: I lost my virginity to someone I didn't care about when I was 18 becuase I was ready.
I was ready to use birth control, educated myself on disease, deal with an unplanned pregnancy, prevent an unplanned pregnancy, buy rubber in a crowded drug sto... (read in full...)
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