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He cheated on me with his ex, but says he didn't come!

Q.   hello. my partner of 3 years had just recently cheated on me with his ex gf. they never had sex but did other foreplay type things. he reakons he didnt come when she gave him head could this happen? and also i need advice on what i should do... t...

A.   18 June 2010: Hi this is madness, pls leave this guy now. How can he treat you like that. So what! - He didnt cum , and its nothing ? ,Should you just move on and make as if nothing happend. ( i dont think so -no man cheats and expects to be forgiven ) if you ... (read in full...)

Which signs show that a man is intrested in u?

Q.   how must i know if a guy has feelings 4 me.he is my brother in law and my sister past away last year,so i have a feeling that he has some thing 4 me.which sighns must i look 4.pls help...

A.   18 June 2010: Hi there Its just wrong to have a relationship with your brother in law. He had your sis and now he wants you. There are many fish sea. ... (read in full...)

Am I a bad parent for not allowing my child to visit her father?

Q.   I have an issue with my ex husband, and I need some advice please. He is in and out of my 10 year olds life. He calls when it is convenient for him. ie once or twice a month. A few years back he took her and my eight year old and hid them from me ...

A.   18 June 2010: My sister in law is going through the same thing. You not a bad parent , I agree with both replies , you kids safety comes first. If you want to , you can all go out for dinner and you could just remind him of how much he is missing out in there ... (read in full...)

Does he masturbate to much?

Q.   OK, I need some insight from the guys on a personal matter. I know that it is a private thing, but I am having a hard time dealing with how much my boyfriend masturbates. We probably have sex about twice a week on average and I would like to have ...

A.   10 June 2010: This is just wrong. Before he goes to the bathroom to ,just have a morning glory with him (sex in the morning) That will satisfy the both of you and it will get him over his addiction. ... (read in full...)

Very Confusing Relationship

Q.   I am in a very confusing situation: I am in a long term relationship and I work in a field that requires me to be away from home a few nights a week and the people i work with have been my second family. For the past 4 months one of my co-workers ...

A.   10 June 2010: Hi You will get confused because you see you’re co worker more than you see you partner. It will not be easy for you two to be lovers and work together , what if you just get a small misunderstanding , it could change a lot of things . Rather sh... (read in full...)

How do I make the right decision? I have to choose between my boyfriend and caring for my mother

Q.   I hope you guys can help... At the end of last year I had started living with my boyfriend of 5 years in New Zealand (he moved out there a year prior to me to get established) but then my Mum got cancer. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to come ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hi You need to stay with your mom , she needs you now more than ever. ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mum and boyfriend that I am pregnant?

Q.   Im 18 and im pregnant. i have no idea how to tell my mom or boyfriend. He doesnt want a baby because of his baseball but i pretty much have my life set. i have a good flexible job i went to collage for and am currently doing it (Dog grooming). I ...

A.   29 January 2010: Pls dont stress. The baby is already there, You have to tell your mom as she is the one who will be there for you. I know how you feel and its not easy. I think your mom already knows. Because they can see whrn something is wrong with their c... (read in full...)

My ex has sex with me and then goes and calls his girlfriend

Q.   Three weeks ago i found out that my boyfriend was cheating with me. We had a big fight and he left me. He called me bitch and said he never loved me. One week ago he called me and asked for help...he came to my state to do his pratical and he needed ...

A.   18 December 2009: Why are you doing this to yourself? This man is just using you to satisfy his needs, he doesnt feel anything for you. Please dont let him do this to you. I cant even tell you how I feel , I just want to give this guy a smack in the face fo... (read in full...)

Where can we go to have sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are high schoolers and are thinking about having sex, but we don't want to get caught or anything. We live about two miles apart so it's a bit hard to just walk over to eachothers houses. I've been trying to get him over to my ...

A.   11 December 2009: Hi Great Advice Celtic Tiger The day you decide to have sex for the very first time. You really have to make it special. You will have memories for the rest of your life The choice is yours Good Luck !!!!... (read in full...)

How do I get over my baby's dad?

Q.   My question is how do I get over my baby's dad? we only dated for 2 months i got pregnant on the second month. For reason i had to move back to my old state where i then had my daughter and we have been talking over the phone for about a year now...

A.   10 December 2009: This is not where your life ends, just because you have a baby from this guy. Life goes on. Dont waste your time with this guy. ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my husband to give me some space during our separation?

Q.   My husband and I are seperated at the moment, but he still sends me sms's. I want him to give me some breathing space. How can I tell him to give me some space ? ...

A.   9 December 2009: Thank you its not easy ... (read in full...)

I snooped and found things, now how to confront him!

Q.   i know its wrong of me but i recently went thru my bfs cell phone and found things that bother me. How can i confront him without him knowing i went in his phone?...

A.   9 December 2009: You need to ask him Its just gonna put your mind at ease If he is busy with other this Why is he wasting your time ? ... (read in full...)

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