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I really want this horse, should I go with my gut?

Q.   Hello Everyone, I'm hoping to get a horse in June and I have found this gorgeous Mare who is 6 years old. I'm definitely getting a horse in June and I'd love for her to be the one. I haven't ridden in a while but I can build up on it once I get my...

A.   22 February 2011: Obviously playing off of the previous aunt's answer. Sometimes the horse is new though, especially at a young age like yours. Honestly its up to the horse to make the rider feel comfortable. Just ensure that you wear a helmet and other protective ... (read in full...)

I really want this horse, should I go with my gut?

Q.   Hello Everyone, I'm hoping to get a horse in June and I have found this gorgeous Mare who is 6 years old. I'm definitely getting a horse in June and I'd love for her to be the one. I haven't ridden in a while but I can build up on it once I get my...

A.   21 February 2011: Is this a metaphor for a guy? Horses are expensive, your parents may not have the money to shell out. ... (read in full...)

Why is it that I love my boyfriend but want to be loved by this other guy too?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now(11 months) and its been great being with him. No break ups, a few arguments now and then but all resolved =). Thing is i'm nearly 16 and hes 19, i think because of his age he,s told me he's ready to...

A.   21 February 2011: Well, the fact that your 15 and with a 19 year old is not only scary to me, but also illegal under the laws of 49/50 of the United States, so that right there represents a problem. I am dumbfounded that your mother is okay with you being physically ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me 2 days ago, would you agree?

Q.   It hurts so much to write this right now. I never imagined being even remotely close to cheated on but from the investigating I've done, the mere thought appears to be the inevitable... I've been with my wife for 9 years. She's 26 and I'm 30. ...

A.   21 February 2011: I'm clearly no wise-sage, I'm only young, but I can say that it would be very immature of you to ruin the other guy's life. As a guy yourself, you know as well as I do that your wife had to simply reject the guy and he would have stalked away as ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the change in my body, after having a baby?

Q.   Okay so I have been with my partner for three years already and have already had a child with him. I used to not be afraid to show my body off because my boobs were bigger and perky size c, my body was nice and big I even had them lil dimples on my ...

A.   21 February 2011: Allowing me to add to my earlier answer, going to the gym will provide a ton of benefits beyond just looking better. If you exercise, your're relieving stress and building confidence things that go a long way in making you sexually desirabl... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?

Q.   My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...

A.   21 February 2011: I had an identical fear for the longest time, but I actually found that it didn't taste all that bad. Again, I really care about my girlfriend, and wouldn't let her oral me until I oraled her, I'm not sure how many guys would take that same stance ... (read in full...)

Am I justified for breaking-up with her?

Q.   I was with my girlfriend for about 1 year and I still have feeling for her. Problem is at a New Years Eve party when we were in a relationship I saw her in a corner getting off or making out with another guy. I vaguely knew him and I just left them ...

A.   21 February 2011: Save yourself dude. If she can't stay loyal to you, tell her straight up that she screwed up and that you won't be played. DO NOT give her a second chance. Cheaters like her will cheat on you serially, I promise you that. Age 14 is where it starts. ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the change in my body, after having a baby?

Q.   Okay so I have been with my partner for three years already and have already had a child with him. I used to not be afraid to show my body off because my boobs were bigger and perky size c, my body was nice and big I even had them lil dimples on my ...

A.   21 February 2011: Hit the gym. Everything tightens up with a little exercise, preferably cardio. ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?

Q.   Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...

A.   21 February 2011: Weird stuff like this happens all the time, esp at our age. Just toughen up, move on to another guy. I am NOT proud of you for getting all bent out of shape because of some trivial high-school drama scenario. Stay out of it, let the situation play ... (read in full...)

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