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He did not answer my text msg, .. should I move on?

Q.   Met a man online. I almost did not go as I have been having terrible dates from online. Surprisingly, I go on the first date and we hit it off. We had alot of laughs , I am sure the alcohol helped. We held hands and had a quick goodnight kiss. The ...

A.   5 April 2010: the guys away with his child and you have only had 2 dates... Just leave him to it and if he gets back to you then great....if not then move on... Hes not worth it and its not like you have really lost anything after 2 dates..dont give up tho. Get ... (read in full...)

He said he loved me, but broke up with me out of nowhere!

Q.   hey everyone, where to start... Been with my bf for nearlly a year and only 3 weeks ago he was telling me how he loved me, i made him happy and that he saw us going somewhere...that week he continued telling me he loved me as usual and then that ...

A.   5 April 2010: thankyou all for your advice, its really appreciated!.... hes coming back from his thinking time today so i sent him a rext saying that id given him time but i just wanted this done with now, so could he contact me to let me know when hes free to ... (read in full...)

Do you guys appreciate manicured nails on a girl?

Q.   Inspired by a chat on another topic, ... I am wondering guys, do you appreciate seeing a well manicured hand/nails when a girl has hold of your goodies, .. or does it go completely un noticed? I kinda thought it adds to an overall effect a...

A.   4 April 2010: na.. I dont think guys really care as long as it feels good!... (read in full...)

I can't move on.

Q.   *OP's own title* my ex dumped me 5 months ago and i still love him as much as i did then.hes had 2 new girlfriends in the period of time we've been apart.he said we would be together forever and he would love me til we died.but he told my best frie...

A.   4 April 2010: oh sweetheart, this guy is completly messing with your feelings.. He wants the best of both worlds... You need to forget about him (i know its easier said than done) but you need to stop all contact with this guy and if he texts ...as hard as it ... (read in full...)

Have I lost him forever?

Q.   me and my boyfriend are in a relationship since 1 and half years. things got worse.we fought over some issues. and now he says, he wants space. i begged n cried but no use.he is really upset and wanted to break-up instead but since he doesn't want ...

A.   4 April 2010: this guy sounds like a complete waste of time!!.... Your not 'allowed' to contact him unless he contacts you?!...no...thats wrong!.... Hes completly controlling the situation and he knows that if he calls and wants you back, ul go running!!!.... My ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm holding onto someone who isn't meant to be held on to...

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been in an on and off relationship for a year. i gave up everything for him. i know money doesnt buy happiness but i gave up my ex boyfriend who was in the army and who was doing everything for me, for him. someone who didnt ...

A.   30 March 2010: you will go over and over and over and over everything he says/does in ur head until u come up with all sorts!!!, but it will do u no good....just leave him be, give him space and if its meant to be...he will come back to you.....if not then u have ... (read in full...)

My partner seems confused, he wants to break it off then he doesn't. Help!

Q.   hi, where to start, Been with my partner only a short period of time but in that time things have been really good, we have met each others families, friends and all get on very well. Every couple has a moment and we had one at 6 months and worke...

A.   30 March 2010: i feel im allowing this time to think because im hoping that he will change his mind and try to rebuild our relationship but i know deep down in my heart....when we speak... Its to finalise that its over... Do i give him the week or call hiim ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend's late night calls

Q.   Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back together we wanted to start off new. But now I'm concerned with ...

A.   30 March 2010: i think you have every right to feel that way... I would tell her that u dont mind her talking to him but 3and half hours or more every night is just ridiculous!!..... Ask her how she would feel if you were on the phone to another female at ridi... (read in full...)

He ended it with me... but he still loves me!!! What gives?

Q.   My partner and i have only been together for a short period of time (10 months) hes 25, im 21. We had a rough patch after 6 months but worked through it and since then things have been brilliant.. Then he turns up saturday and tells me he cant do it ...

A.   30 March 2010: i wrote this but wasnt registered then!... The thing is it wasnt problems as such....just we almost got to comfortable with eachother?.... To soon?.... he ended it but only a week ago he was saying how happy i make him and how he had no plans or ... (read in full...)

How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?

Q.   How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ...

A.   29 March 2010: if she made her mind up then she probably means it. To you shes being heartless but you dont know how long shes not wanted to be with you, so shes had maybe 6 months/3months of wanting to get out and meet other guys....so as soon as she did.... (read in full...)

Do you think I just took things the wrong way???

Q.   hi hope you can help theres this man that i have liked for a while and out of nowhere he asked to be my friend on facebook he then sent me a message asking how i was n where i work , we were sending each other messages for a few days running the...

A.   29 March 2010: i wouldnt bother with him again. Obviously lead you on and then dropped you when he realised you were interested, almost like he got his kicks. Dont contact him and if he comes back to you, be aloof....just dont ask him out or anything! ... (read in full...)

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