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I want to be the 'Miss' and him the 'Master', but it seems like he don't want to control me!

Q.   How do I get my husband to be controlling in the bedroom? I want to be the miss and him be the master. But it seems like he don't want to control me, or make me do things to him, but that's the only thing that gets me off, and in the mood. Can an...

A.   14 August 2008: Have you ever dominated him? My partner gets really hot when I am controlling and it makes him reverse the tables and control me. You just have to know how to push his buttons, think about it, what do you think is going to make him so hot that his ... (read in full...)

I recently discovered my husband has been going to adult websites. How do men really feel about sex with their mate? Is it meaningless?

Q.   My hubby and I have been married almost 7 years. I recently discovered that he has been going to adult websites. Sharing myself with him means a lot to me and I almost feel betrayed. Plus, he's never told me he loves me while having sex with me. ...

A.   14 August 2008: Thank you to those who answered my question. I came to a realization yesterday, I don't think my husband associates love and sex. When I told him he's never told me he loves me while having sex his response was "so". And for the websites I found ... (read in full...)

I'm in a new relationship and it's great but I'm not sexually attracted to him. Help!

Q.   I am 30 years old and was in a long term relationship which ended about 1.5 years ago very suddenly as my partner walked out on me and had a new girlfiend a week later.I have met somebody else and I think the world of him, he is a great man and I ...

A.   13 August 2008: Been there. Sex will never be good if you're not attracted to him. You're not just going to hurt yourself, but him to in the long run. My advice, move on!!... (read in full...)

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