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I would like my wife to share my sexual views

Q.   I am a 45yr old male and think my my wife is not into sex. When we have sex its like a scheduled event and if I can not preform right, she says its ok maby next time.I am very sexual and like alot of stimulation in all my private parts but she will ...

A.   17 March 2012: You sound Bi to me, you don't just turn gay, but maybe sexual aspect that you don't think are important become more important when you are older (I don't know, you have more life experience in that than me)... but I can tell you with confidence that ... (read in full...)

Gay but heartbroken over a girl?

Q.   Hello there, I am a 23 years old gay male, well that's how i though myself to be since 10 y.o. (I am a straight looking gay though, so noone could ever guess without me telling it). But the problem is that from my 15 years I met this girl, who...

A.   17 March 2012: Maybe it's not lust but attention you want! We all can feel a sense of loneliness to realize that people and friends move on. Are you sure it is sexual feelings you long for and not just the emotional feelings of always having this person t... (read in full...)

Why did she tell me this, I've never met her before!

Q.   My brother is due to get married soon after dating his fiance for over 4 years. She invited me to her hen party, during which, I met many of her friends. Later on into the evening I met one particular friend who introduced herself and we chatted ...

A.   17 March 2012: Geeze this girl, I don't know what her problem would be.. First gross, why would a sibling want to know of the other sibling's sex life, and Second, why is she trying to draw you into some obvious fake drama. I think if I could I'd not want to be ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity to some random girl while drunk, while I really like this other girl. Should I tell her?

Q.   Ok I basically lost my virginity last saturday, I was so drunk that I literally cannot remember what happened, the whole night was a blank. I only found out I had sex the next morning. The problem is I am into a girl, who is also into me, but she ...

A.   17 March 2012: Virginity is overrated, or rather, good for you if you are... but many people are not. I think if you were not dating this girl at the time, it's totally fine to never bring it up (even if you were already flirting) just like a person normally ... (read in full...)

Thirty, single, no prospects, frequents hookers.

Q.   Hi, i have recently turned thirty, only to realise that i am growing old with no experience with women and dating game. i just feel shallow, empty and detached. i have been away from home when i was 15 and have lived for the last 15 years on my own. ...

A.   17 March 2012: You sound depressed, you have to love yourself before you can really love others. Maybe you just own the idea, but ugly is really subjective and many people have varying tastes. You really shouldn't call yourself "ugly" because "ugly" doesn't really ... (read in full...)

Rather than dealing with our problems, at the first sign of trouble she goes straight onto dating sites!

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. It appears that every time there is a problem or I am not up to scratch, that instead of telling me what I have done or not done, she goes on date sites and talks to men. For the last year I have been ...

A.   15 March 2012: I don't like to tell people this, but I think it's best for you to just move on. It sounds like you are looking to settle and she is still unsure, problem is that you should value yourself just as much as she values herself. She isn't going to... (read in full...)

I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!

Q.   ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am ...

A.   15 March 2012: No, it's not true. It is true that women and men can differ greatly on how they perceive the world... but the individual is always different. Plenty of women exist not to how you negatively described (And conversely I know some real gossipy ... (read in full...)

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