His ex can't seem to move on, what can I do?
Q. Dear Aunts, Ive Been With my boyfriend for 3 or 4 months now he was my best friend before we started dating.We are madly in love.Both of our last relationships ended because our exes didn't like the fact we were so close. My Ex Has Mo...
A. 25 August 2009: Honey, that's her problem not yours. You only need to ignore her. Let her, negativity flow around you like water on rock. Just warmly smile at her when you see her. Just embrace the love you have for your lover. Anything else is just noisy wind. ... (read in full...)
I've been out of the dating scene for a bit so I'm not sure how to contact him
Q. I met this guy travelling, nothing happened but I like him from start, we hung out together for a bit and then hooked up there last weekend, I really like him but am not sure how he feels. I want to get in contact with him either by text message or ...
A. 25 August 2009: Nha, you need to call him by phone. Let him hear your voice. Ask him to go out. Then just walk around the city, your arms wrapped one in another and just talk about anything and everything.
What use is there to go out with someone if your not... (read in full...)
Dating & deadlines
Q. i met this guy 2 years ago, when we worked on the same audit firm. I worked there for 4 months only, and i guessed he was attracted on me but after i resigned from that firm, i could say nothing happen. We just went to movie once, lunch once, some ...
A. 25 August 2009: He's job seems very demanding. You need to ask him if the money is worth it? Is he more in love with his job than you? Hopefully this is just a phase. And he will have more time for you? Nobody can resist that amount of stress for very long without ... (read in full...)
How do I stop freaking out on my baby's daddy?
Q. i am an 18 year old girl that is pregnant and single. my babys daddy is there for me through this thing, but the fact is i still love him. we went through a hard time and we are no longer together. me as a woman im beginning to grow up for my baby, ...
A. 25 August 2009: Pregnant women are the only being that are allowed to freak out like that! You are hormonal! You caring a precious life in you. You need to plan for the future. And since, you are not sure the father will be there that what's make you insecure. Just ... (read in full...)
She slept with someone on holiday, within weeks of us getting together. Is that a bad sign for the future?
Q. So, I’ve been seeing this girl for about a month (long distance) and we started having sex after 3 weeks. She had a preexisting trip to Europe she started calling me two weeks into the trip on a daily basis. Joking (not expecting that she would) I ...
A. 25 August 2009: She obliviously isn't committed to you. You can wait for her to fully give you her heart. Or simply walk away. But, as you said it's a bad start.
I would walk away. How could I sleep with someone, without giving them my heart and having theirs.... (read in full...)
How & where should I come out to my best friend?
Q. Well, I'm an 18 year old girl and I've recently come to terms with the fact that i'm gay, or at least bi-sexual. But i can now acknowledge that I am attracted to females. I've realised that I'm in love with my female best friend, who is straight and ...
A. 25 August 2009: Hum, first you need to decide if you want to come out to her as being a lesbian, or come out as being a lesbian in love with her. You told us that she has a boyfriend, so her heart is not available.
3 choices:
1- Tell her you are a lesbian. See... (read in full...)
He's questioning me all the time. I don't know what to do. Please help...
Q. im seventeen years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend since i was fifteen, however we have been friends since i was twelve. By looking at our relationship from an outsiders perspective, you would think that it was perfect. Even my own ...
A. 25 August 2009: For sure honey, you need your personal space! This is not about you liking him or not? You need to tell him that he's being too controlling and to back off a little. And that is not that you don't love him. It's just that you need air to breath so ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!
Q. hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...
A. 25 August 2009: Without trust there can be no love... Being young don't give him the right to cheat on you... You should leave him. Find yourself a good man, that will respect you and listen to you.... (read in full...)
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